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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " Theres been a few guys put in jail for acting that fantasy out. .. | |||
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"Perhaps they fall asleep on you for real OP. Perhaps you need to inject a little more passion into your fun " Not been that bad yet had a few ex gf pass after a night out and I have too lol | |||
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"Few sex sites out there that feature this ,sleep play i think its called try searching for wake up fuck website Maybe if you hook up with a girl on here you could try some roleplay fun involving that,don't think OP is wanting to break into girls houses " Thanks I was starting to think my mind was warped after the first few replies lol I will look into thanks | |||
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"I've had a,few,fall asleep while I having sex with em is that the same ? " haha oh dear I will say I have had ex gf pass out or me on them after a few lol | |||
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"Am I missing something? How is it an inappropriate fantasy if the woman is fully part of it and pretending to be asleep to be able to act it out? He's not saying he actually wants to fuck someone who is actually asleep. " Did this by accident once. She was so responsive and I woke up because she was grinding on me. I felt bad when she actually woke up, but that evaporated when she told me to finish what I'd started | |||
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"Am I missing something? How is it an inappropriate fantasy if the woman is fully part of it and pretending to be asleep to be able to act it out? He's not saying he actually wants to fuck someone who is actually asleep. " Thank you and your right if I wanted to rape someone I would have said that lol and I hear lots of females like the rape fantasy so why not this?! but I hope they are just trying to be funny 99% of people on this site do respect each others ideas that's what makes this site one of the best. | |||
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"I've had a,few,fall asleep while I having sex with em is that the same ? " | |||
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"Not weitd if that's what you're into... if i asked Mrs GNB to pretend to be asleep she would do it. I guess a lot of people think it's weird that she loves watching while i fuck other women... different strokes for different folks " I see your into hogtied how did you learn them knots? its someone I was interested in a while back with an old ex but we never looked into it more. | |||
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"Am I missing something? How is it an inappropriate fantasy if the woman is fully part of it and pretending to be asleep to be able to act it out? He's not saying he actually wants to fuck someone who is actually asleep. " I know of women who enjoy a rape fantasy, but both parties consent. It's no different, and no crime, just different to possibly most other tastes. Never heard of a sleep fantasy but all good I guess. | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy " Not creepy if it's completely consenting. I know a lot of people with this fantasy. | |||
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"I think there is a certain word for that "fantasy" I'm pretty sure it begins with the letter R" Bollocks! How closed minded are you. | |||
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"I think there is a certain word for that "fantasy" I'm pretty sure it begins with the letter R Bollocks! How closed minded are you. " Exactly! Mrs GNB also likes to be pinned down and fucked when she says she doesn't want it... as long as all parties are completely clear and an agreed 'safe word' is in place then it's fine. Why are people so closed minded? Just because it doesn't float their boat they're happy to berate others for it. So sad. | |||
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"Easy. I had a bit of ripe in a cheapo bindage set, i tied her up with it and it was terrible... so i did some research, bought some better rope, practised tying the different knots for a couple of weeks, watched lots of videos and memorised some instructions, then the next time i saw her i surprised her. Our profile picture was that first attempt after a bit of research. It really is easy to learn if you have patience. " Thanks I might look into that, I just find it more of an art that sexual. | |||
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"Easy. I had a bit of ripe in a cheapo bindage set, i tied her up with it and it was terrible... so i did some research, bought some better rope, practised tying the different knots for a couple of weeks, watched lots of videos and memorised some instructions, then the next time i saw her i surprised her. Our profile picture was that first attempt after a bit of research. It really is easy to learn if you have patience. Thanks I might look into that, I just find it more of an art that sexual." Same here to be honest. I'm gutted i can't find a bunny in the north east to practise with | |||
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"Easy. I had a bit of ripe in a cheapo bindage set, i tied her up with it and it was terrible... so i did some research, bought some better rope, practised tying the different knots for a couple of weeks, watched lots of videos and memorised some instructions, then the next time i saw her i surprised her. Our profile picture was that first attempt after a bit of research. It really is easy to learn if you have patience. Thanks I might look into that, I just find it more of an art that sexual. Same here to be honest. I'm gutted i can't find a bunny in the north east to practise with " Your partner not into this then? I have heard you can go to a hogtied expo but not seen it myself or know where it is held. | |||
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"Easy. I had a bit of ripe in a cheapo bindage set, i tied her up with it and it was terrible... so i did some research, bought some better rope, practised tying the different knots for a couple of weeks, watched lots of videos and memorised some instructions, then the next time i saw her i surprised her. Our profile picture was that first attempt after a bit of research. It really is easy to learn if you have patience. Thanks I might look into that, I just find it more of an art that sexual. Same here to be honest. I'm gutted i can't find a bunny in the north east to practise with Your partner not into this then? I have heard you can go to a hogtied expo but not seen it myself or know where it is held." Of course, she loves it. But I've been working away for the last 10 months and only get to see her every other weekend. | |||
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"Another thread where people twist things into something nasty and sordid " I agree , The op was saying pretending to be asleep why is that creepy ? A lot of people enjoy getting woke up for sex on a meet , he is just saying pretend to be asleep and be played with. Not creepy just a fantasy | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy " Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. " Me too!!! | |||
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"Sorry, but how the fuck is this creepy? It's getting to the point people will stop posting here is these small minded people keep saying this kind of crap!!!!" someone cynical might suggest that this was simply because the original poster was male. A lady could test this out by posting a similar thread in an hour. | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " I think that's pretty hot. I have that fantasy, but with someone I trust | |||
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"Sorry, but how the fuck is this creepy? It's getting to the point people will stop posting here is these small minded people keep saying this kind of crap!!!! someone cynical might suggest that this was simply because the original poster was male. A lady could test this out by posting a similar thread in an hour." I could gaurentee that if it was,a lady. The guys would be saying how horny that was. | |||
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"Sorry, but how the fuck is this creepy? It's getting to the point people will stop posting here is these small minded people keep saying this kind of crap!!!!" | |||
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"Sorry, but how the fuck is this creepy? It's getting to the point people will stop posting here is these small minded people keep saying this kind of crap!!!! someone cynical might suggest that this was simply because the original poster was male. A lady could test this out by posting a similar thread in an hour.I could gaurentee that if it was,a lady. The guys would be saying how horny that was. " Read my quote above | |||
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"Sorry, but how the fuck is this creepy? It's getting to the point people will stop posting here is these small minded people keep saying this kind of crap!!!! someone cynical might suggest that this was simply because the original poster was male. A lady could test this out by posting a similar thread in an hour. I could gaurentee that if it was,a lady. The guys would be saying how horny that was. " Let's find out shall we? | |||
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"It's not a rape fantasy at all. There's no force involved. I have this fantasy a great deal. It's mostly about being woken up by someone doing naughty things, then pretending to sleep while they continue. As though they're taking naughty liberties because you're 'sleeping'. That's my thought on it too It's harmless fun. If someone tried something horrible, a woman would soon wake up and boot them in the face. I know I would!" | |||
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"Am I missing something? How is it an inappropriate fantasy if the woman is fully part of it and pretending to be asleep to be able to act it out? He's not saying he actually wants to fuck someone who is actually asleep. " Exactly! Poor OP completely shot down! I knew exactly what he meant. I've done it before and it's sexy and horny as hell | |||
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"Am I missing something? How is it an inappropriate fantasy if the woman is fully part of it and pretending to be asleep to be able to act it out? He's not saying he actually wants to fuck someone who is actually asleep. Exactly! Poor OP completely shot down! I knew exactly what he meant. I've done it before and it's sexy and horny as hell " Its ok people have there own mind or the world would be boring! Just glade I am not along thinking about this might be easier to find someone willing to try it in the future. | |||
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"There's another thread about this - a woman's bf who did it. I'd find it creepy, though I cannot imagine for one second I would not wake up straight away." But why is it creepy if you both enjoy it. | |||
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"There's another thread about this - a woman's bf who did it. I'd find it creepy, though I cannot imagine for one second I would not wake up straight away. But why is it creepy if you both enjoy it." Plus the other person is only pretending to be asleep... | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. This is one of my fantasy for years. Love the idea of being asleep and as I am gently fondled, I become aware of the set touch....but not sure if I am dreaming or is real. Then pretend to be asleep for as long as possible. Mmmmmmm " | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. " This! I like being woken by someone in that way. I generally don't fall asleep in company I'm not sexually involved with but it's something I like when I do. I think the issue of consent is fairly obvious. | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " Which part are you shocked by? | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. This! I like being woken by someone in that way. I generally don't fall asleep in company I'm not sexually involved with but it's something I like when I do. I think the issue of consent is fairly obvious. " I think the shocked people may well be thinking non-consensual. Which not only makes you wonder about them when that's their first thought, but also; where do you find naked sleeping people, apart from your lover or partner (or overnight hotel Fab person ) | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. This! I like being woken by someone in that way. I generally don't fall asleep in company I'm not sexually involved with but it's something I like when I do. I think the issue of consent is fairly obvious. I think the shocked people may well be thinking non-consensual. Which not only makes you wonder about them when that's their first thought, but also; where do you find naked sleeping people, apart from your lover or partner (or overnight hotel Fab person ) " There seems to be a lot of it around. Reading what's not said is getting ridiculous. We're adults and I seriously wonder about how high the bar appears to be when it comes to making judgements with not a lot of information. | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. This! I like being woken by someone in that way. I generally don't fall asleep in company I'm not sexually involved with but it's something I like when I do. I think the issue of consent is fairly obvious. " It is fucking hot if you're on the receiving or the giving end People need to lighten up | |||
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"was actually talking about this fantasy with my partner this morning but not in a rapey way coz thats a bit icky for me i want it to be more along the lines of i am dreaming of my fantasy lover who teases and touches me in my dream and wake to find my dream has come true " Samesies but I just have a vivid imagination | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " someone else was talking about this earlier a woman ,she loved this to be done to her with the hope of being awakened while her man was in the midst ,it's no stranger than some I've heard on here | |||
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"I have this fantasy a great deal. It's mostly about being woken up by someone doing naughty things, then pretending to sleep while they continue. As though they're taking naughty liberties because you're 'sleeping'. " We would be a perfect match. You could snooze away while I attend to naughtiness.......First I would.......stir my coffee and....put the wet teaspoon in the sugar bowl......then I would......leave the bog seat up....then I would rearrange the fridge so raw meat and cooked meat were ON THE SAME SHELF!!! Yeah, try sleeping through that Sweet Cheeks! | |||
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"My lover has my permission to wake me up like this, and I've woken him up with a blow job before too. I love that sleepy middle of the night sex! Waking up with him touching, or have woken with him moving between my legs too. Love it!" Absolutely, not creepy at all, it's one of my favourite things to be woken that way in the middle of the night by a lover, though I would not pretend to be asleep | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " Why...? I'd rather have interaction. You'd be safer buying a blowup doll if that's your thing as it's dodgy and most definitely rape in my book. | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. Why...? I'd rather have interaction. You'd be safer buying a blowup doll if that's your thing as it's dodgy and most definitely rape in my book. " So you wouldn't like your lover to wake you up with oral? | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. Why...? I'd rather have interaction. You'd be safer buying a blowup doll if that's your thing as it's dodgy and most definitely rape in my book. " You can't be serious!?! Go back to the beginning and read the title again. There's a BIG clue there.....'PRETENDING to be asleep' He repeats it again in the opening line of his post, 'pretending to be asleep'. He isn't asking if people are into waking up a sleeping stranger by sexually assaulting them. He's on about women who are in on it, who are pretending to be asleep and enjoying being touched. | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. Why...? I'd rather have interaction. You'd be safer buying a blowup doll if that's your thing as it's dodgy and most definitely rape in my book. You can't be serious!?! Go back to the beginning and read the title again. There's a BIG clue there.....'PRETENDING to be asleep' He repeats it again in the opening line of his post, 'pretending to be asleep'. He isn't asking if people are into waking up a sleeping stranger by sexually assaulting them. He's on about women who are in on it, who are pretending to be asleep and enjoying being touched." Okay then, just bloody bizarre in my books, but whatever floats your boat… | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. Why...? I'd rather have interaction. You'd be safer buying a blowup doll if that's your thing as it's dodgy and most definitely rape in my book. You can't be serious!?! Go back to the beginning and read the title again. There's a BIG clue there.....'PRETENDING to be asleep' He repeats it again in the opening line of his post, 'pretending to be asleep'. He isn't asking if people are into waking up a sleeping stranger by sexually assaulting them. He's on about women who are in on it, who are pretending to be asleep and enjoying being touched. Okay then, just bloody bizarre in my books, but whatever floats your boat…" why is it bizarre? Have you never had sleepy morning sex where you kinda half waken with your lover touching/playing...? My lover has my full permission to do it, and some of our most passionate, urgent sex is about 4am when he wakes with a wonderful hard cock that would be a shame to waste... | |||
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"I've woken up to him with his hands all over me, started fucking, then HE woke up! He does strange things in his sleep sometimes, from initiating sex to mopping the floor " I once woke up horny while lying next to my ex and he had a nice hard cock so seemed a shame to waste it. Gave him a lovely blowjob until he spunked all over me, then he turned on his side and mumbled something and was fast asleep. Didn't believe me when I told him the next morning. Left me a bit high and dry though.... | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. " Well, as I understand it, this means me PRETENDING to be asleep ALL THE TIME, and having a man touch me up and have full sex with me, without me "waking up"... and then just leaving me there... To be clear - it would have to be fully consensual, and permission to be agreed by both beforehand...! Well, I don't care what anybody thinks - that turns me on - a LOT - and I'd really, really love to have it happen!! | |||
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"I've had it happen the other way round. A truly nice way to be woken up in the morning after a night of horny play. Almost better than breakfast in bed. " Very much so - waking up to find she's woken "him" and has slid herself on to him grinding slowly.... | |||
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"Hi are any females on this site into pretending to be asleep as a guy is touching you and then having full sex? Been in my dreams lately and didn't know if anyone else had the same thoughts or acted this out. Why...? I'd rather have interaction. You'd be safer buying a blowup doll if that's your thing as it's dodgy and most definitely rape in my book. So you wouldn't like your lover to wake you up with oral? " I like it... | |||
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"Sounds a bit creepy Really? You never had the fantasy of being woken up by your lover's mouth moving up your inner thigh... You don't move and you keep your eyes closed and try to control your breathing as their tongue gently teases closer and closer? Sounds pretty fucking hot to me. Me too!!! " Me too | |||
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