FabSwingers.com forum: Spunk etiquette...

By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Right girls and boys... I'm curious!

Scenario:

When you're in a club... you're having sex with someone, would you expect them to cum in the condom or is it acceptable for them to whip it out, pull it off and spray their cum on you?

Do you specify before you start what the deal is? Would you be horrified if this happened or would you get off on it?

Answers on a postcard please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know we wish we had thought to tell the lovely lad we were playing with at chams last, NOT to waste his cum in the condom..

I sulked for a short while after when I realised what had happened.. lol

I would love a guy ( guys) to just whip out, whip it off and put it all over me.. :D

So now tell all meets that if they cum in a condom I will be very upset :D and can they please cum either in my mouth, face, tits or just anywhere but the condom. lol

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not called Pearl Necklace for my love of wearing real pearls alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not called Pearl Necklace for my love of wearing real pearls alone!

What, you used to be a pirate!?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

You dry clean your undies?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually in club if i go in a room with someone they will ask me mind play where i want their cum lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

You dry clean your undies?!

I don't... the person in the laundry does.

I is a professional

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

You dry clean your undies?!

I don't... the person in the laundry does.

I is a professional

Hahahahaha!! A professional what though?

Careful... there's kudos riding on it!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

You dry clean your undies?!

I don't... the person in the laundry does.

I is a professional

Hahahahaha!! A professional what though?

Careful... there's kudos riding on it!

and that my dear is the clue to the thread below/above..

drycleaner... strap line.. 'is get it cleaned by the professionals.'

no degree reqd to be a professional to work in that laundry xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm - from my experience it's a case by case thing. Cum etiquette is a very blurred area (especially if you're not wearing goggles)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple, Just ask.

That's the beauty of what we all enjoy.

Everyone has different preferences and likes/dislikes.

HAVE THE MANNERS/ETIQUETTE TO ASK AND THEN THE DRAMA OR DISAPOINTMENT IS AVOIDED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

"
..... You wish lol what dirty girl said below haha

* creeps round graveyard *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tits or ass if I'm asked but its never been a problem :-/ but mouth n face is a private members

club only.

* sits on coffin *

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think what the OP is asking is...

...as a Laydee, would you specify, or expect the gent to ask.

Or just 'go with the flow' so to speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum Etiquette sounds like an Aerosmith album title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prob ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually manage to gasp out a "cum in my mouth" which usually gets the message across. Unless they've wanted something else, arranged etc etc

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"I am not called Pearl Necklace for my love of wearing real pearls alone!

What, you used to be a pirate!?

Or a blues singer?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

My vote would be to agree it before it comes to the point of no return...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone should assume that their partner of the moment would like to receive their cum over the face/boobs etc or in the mouth.

If it's not agreed or discussed beforehand then I'd rather see men err on the side of caution and either cum in the condom or ask where I want it just before the crucial moment.

If someone came in my mouth without at least warning me, I wouldn't be happy.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I don't think anyone should assume that their partner of the moment would like to receive their cum over the face/boobs etc or in the mouth.

If it's not agreed or discussed beforehand then I'd rather see men err on the side of caution and either cum in the condom or ask where I want it just before the crucial moment.

If someone came in my mouth without at least warning me, I wouldn't be happy."

You see... this is sort of how I see it.

Sort of.

But then I'm probably sort of odd... I'm a little bit fussy on the whole cum thing (I know you're surprised by that!) but if it's not someone I'm intimate with, in a personal way, i.e. know them and they're not a random stranger in a club, then I'm afraid I don't think I want their cum all over me.

I would expect that someone would ask... even if it was right before the money shot and give me the choice as to where it was to go. I think it's quite a personal thing to splatter your man goo all over a stranger.

I'll never been any good at that bukakke thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a little bit fussy on the whole cum thing (I know you're surprised by that!) but if it's not someone I'm intimate with, in a personal way, i.e. know them and they're not a random stranger in a club, then I'm afraid I don't think I want their cum all over me.

I'll never been any good at that bukakke thing!

I'm 100% with you there. If it's going to happen then I'm much more likely to want a pearl necklace from someone I know rather than someone I just met in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah before you start you need to specify wether your a spray lover or a condom collector

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind having it on my boobs but I do like to be asked first, I wouldnt want it in my face. Quite like the thought of it on my nipples though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the lady desires, love cumming over someones tits and face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmm nice thread!!! deffo a rip it off n receive a good facial lass me :P hence my name lol.... face lips boobs anywhere for me pleaseeeee ....

woop woop lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good facial or over my tits just dont get it in my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol shaz...

why do u think i wear glasses, there not for seein properly, there spunk detectors lolol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good facial or over my tits just dont get it in my eye"

Stings like fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they sprayed over me...

I WOULD HAND THEM THE DRY CLEANING BILL.

dirty fuckers.

Only happened once: he whipped off the condom and proceeded to spray all over my bedroom!

I was so pissed off told him to go, didn't even let him shower.

I had to do a forensic clean up as my daughter always plonked herself on my bed when she came home from college! Didn't want her sitting in his cum!

I'm now clear on what's expected: keep it in the condom, thank you very much!

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

I think it's always good manners to ask a girl first gents, and preferably before it's too late to deal with her request..

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

gentlemen always ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term play mates, I know their likes and dislikes as to where to shoot...

Newer playmates I will always ask, unless of course they have already whispered in my ear to their preference

And who is to go against a ladies wish?

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By *vor Bigun 69!Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I dont like wasting it!! And its got plenty of vitamins in girls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving handjobs, as I love watching a gent enjoying himself, and the sight of him shooting his load is just dreamy - makes me hot and bothered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply like to see a good random spattering.....in fact I'm fairly happy to see it flung about all over the shop,,, apart from on my new shoes,,,,not the new ones.... not straight away,,,, ya gotta give that time,,,, if find... humphhhh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont like wasting it!! And its got plenty of vitamins in girls!!

Why is it a waste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus brilliant for sticking wallpaper up. It's like superglue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man should always ask before cumming anywhere on me and I would be right pissed off if they didn't.

A guy did come in my mouth once and I just spat it out in the bin. Was not best pleased tho.

There's some funny stuff happens, specially at clubs. One guy asked to fuck me without a condom, claiming he was clean and he was a Doctor so I could trust him.

I ask you what Doctor would really go to a swingers club and fuck without a condom. Needless to say I was outa there like a shot.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Perhaps the first rule of 'spunk etiquette' is not refering to it as 'spunk' in the first place...what a yukky word that is!

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Perhaps the first rule of 'spunk etiquette' is not refering to it as 'spunk' in the first place...what a yukky word that is!

I know! That's precisely why I did use it!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Yes can we please refer to it correctly from now on .......... Baby Batter

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Yes can we please refer to it correctly from now on .......... Baby Batter"

Man jizz manners?

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"Man jizz manners?"

people porridge politeness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am never told untill the end could be my face, lips,...... could be my bum could be my tits dripping off my Big nipples......... running down my legs thay like it all over me .. but gets in my hair at times we shower after together i love that it start again.lol jo xx

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By *ilthythanetCouple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Linds and I were talking about this after our meet last night, and obviously it's entirely up to the person you'd be cumming on.

The bit not sure about is when to ask.

If you ask at the start of things it seems a little presumptuous. If you ask just before you cum, you might not get a reply in time.

Asking afterwards if "that was alright" can also cause offense.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"I am never told untill the end could be my face, lips,...... could be my bum could be my tits dripping off my Big nipples......... running down my legs thay like it all over me .. but gets in my hair at times we shower after together i love that it start again.lol jo xx"

Ok jo - you just went on my list!

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By *usty2001Man
over a year ago

bolton

As a gentlemen I always ask before Cumming as to where the lady would like it

As a smack in the teeth always offends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok jo - you just went on my list!

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Am i now xx you have been on my list too , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a waste inside a condom, prefer it in my mouth.

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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ok jo - you just went on my list!

Am i now xx you have been on my list too , lol"

Awwwww... how cute is that?!

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

"Perhaps the first rule of 'spunk etiquette' is not refering to it as 'spunk' in the first place...what a yukky word that is!

I know! That's precisely why I did use it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting messy is just so good isnt it.. lol.. :D

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always ask before hand....

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

We met a couple on the beach last year in Gran Canaria and went back to thier apartment for some fun.

We had all had a bit to drink and the guy couldnt get it up so we decided to watch the girls have some fun, it did the trick for me and as Debbie was licking her with her bum in the air, i took full advantage and got in behind her.

Just as i was about to come she moved and i came all over the other lady.

We all looked at each other and burst out laughing when he said, youve just come on my missus.

Luckily they didnt mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming into a condom is a complete waste as far as i see it. I had a meet some time ago and when i asked the woman if i could cum over her she looked at me with total disgust and said i had to do it into the condom and get rid of it so she wouldn't see it. So now i put it up on my profile that i like making a mess

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

just remember you dont want to leave club with the old red eye condition lol

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Its a waste inside a condom, prefer it in my mouth."

Ok you just made it onto me list too lol

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer to pre-arrange what was goin to happen has I would hate to upset the lady at the end of what might have been a good night Paul x

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

"I would prefer to pre-arrange what was goin to happen has I would hate to upset the lady at the end of what might have been a good night Paul x

Too right, but at same time you don't want to sound like you're entering into some kind of verbal contract.. or should that be an oral agreement??

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By *obby69Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

As with everything it is always good to set the rules before you start....more satisfaction all round then.

Nobby

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

G always asks "where do you want me to cum?" usually during the slow stroke stage, not at the last minute. I think it's nice to be asked even if my favourite is inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask before I cum, if I remembered too that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi,

great question,

i have been in this senario quite a few times and although i am happy for a facial i very much like it when the man asks,

guys please remember this always ask..

joxx

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