FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging as a single guy

By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

I used the site for 1 month and half, and I attended swinging clubs for one full month as a single guy now. Maybe it is too early to judge, but I do not have time to try more

It was nice to meet new people and it was what I needed really, however this world is clearly made for couples "who want to swing"

The only thing you can get as a sigle guy is quick shags with couples, rarely acceptable. This is pretty easy on the right nights. Making friends is possible, but very difficult.

I like to stay alone, but I think I will need to find a sexy partner if I will take another month for a swinging club full immersion

Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I used the site for 1 month and half, and I attended swinging clubs for one full month as a single guy now. Maybe it is too early to judge, but I do not have time to try more

It was nice to meet new people and it was what I needed really, however this world is clearly made for couples "who want to swing"

The only thing you can get as a sigle guy is quick shags with couples, rarely acceptable. This is pretty easy on the right nights. Making friends is possible, but very difficult.

I like to stay alone, but I think I will need to find a sexy partner if I will take another month for a swinging club full immersion

Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?"

as a single guy your one of many, so patience is required but can assure you single guys who are decent can get meets on here its all about being appealing to those you are looking to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been on the site since 2006...mostly as a single..

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

"I used the site for 1 month and half, and I attended swinging clubs for one full month as a single guy now. Maybe it is too early to judge, but I do not have time to try more

It was nice to meet new people and it was what I needed really, however this world is clearly made for couples "who want to swing"

The only thing you can get as a sigle guy is quick shags with couples, rarely acceptable. This is pretty easy on the right nights. Making friends is possible, but very difficult.

I like to stay alone, but I think I will need to find a sexy partner if I will take another month for a swinging club full immersion

Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?"

Im having a great time . Love it! I challenge myself. Aim for the stars and you may just touch the sky

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

As a single guy, one thing I have learned is to stay true to why you are here and show respect to anyone you meet. A lot of people you will meet will assume that you are desperate cos you are a single guy.

But remember it goes both ways. You want fun as much as they do and if you come across anyone who sees you only as an extra to their movie, then you won't have fun and what's the point of meeting someone if you won't have fun.

I have met some interesting people just by sticking to this.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I swing alone, I prefer it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swing alone, I prefer it that way"

Me too, then I only have to please myself, not anyone else

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong"

It's all sex at the end of the day, whether it's couples or singles doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong"

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Thanks Miss innocent every body having sex are swinger,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)"

that's very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???"
this is true but certainly without single men the clubs wouldn't survive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, one thing I have learned is to stay true to why you are here and show respect to anyone you meet. A lot of people you will meet will assume that you are desperate cos you are a single guy.

I have met some interesting people just by sticking to this."

Cute bum !

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you are going to find the same phrased used a lot during this thread....

you treuly do get out of it what you put into it.... it is as much about the social side for a lot of people, as it is about clubs, or meets, there is a huge world out there if you want to take advantage of it.....

do i feel i need a "extra" to be seen as validated.... some guys will do, others dont.....

some guys will see a single woman to team up with as some sort of "golden ticket" to a different world and different people who _iew them

however i would say if they _iew you differently as part of a couple than they would a single... thats on them!!

as a single for the last 10 years i have been on swinging sites I have had a blast.... but that was on me to get myself known, and to show me to be the best person I can be..... and that means getting to my personality, my quirks, my passions, my bugbears.....

it really depends on how much you to show..... there is a much bigger community out there than just clubs if you want to experience that..... at the end of the day, thats on you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???this is true but certainly without single men the clubs wouldn't survive

I am not the one slating singles here ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Miss innocent every body having sex are swinger,s"

A single joining a couple for a threesome? Is that swinging or shagging?

You can call it what you like, it's still sex at the end

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

"I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)"
do you work in middle management?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

It's all sex at the end of the day, whether it's couples or singles doing it."

This totally makes me speechless, couples are always looking at my profile, I should take it that they're only looking to see what they're not going to have ! Pahhhhhhhh

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

lIKE I HAVE SAID WERE ALL SWINGERS THEN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lIKE I HAVE SAID WERE ALL SWINGERS THEN"

No need to shout

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We have this profile and each have a single one also, for meeting different needs. Mr has been a swinger meeting couples for many years, whereas I have only recently started to go to clubs, with him only though. I meet women alone. I have said before that if it was just couples, it would be boring sand vanilla - not my or our thing at all. The social side is most important to me - and going out and about as a couple is one of the things we do together, but if it was the focus of our coupledom, neither of us would want that. Swinging is a mind set, surely?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

"lIKE I HAVE SAID WERE ALL SWINGERS THEN

No need to shout

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sorry for the cap,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lIKE I HAVE SAID WERE ALL SWINGERS THEN

No need to shout

sorry for the cap,s"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used the site for 1 month and half, and I attended swinging clubs for one full month as a single guy now. Maybe it is too early to judge, but I do not have time to try more

It was nice to meet new people and it was what I needed really, however this world is clearly made for couples "who want to swing"

The only thing you can get as a sigle guy is quick shags with couples, rarely acceptable. This is pretty easy on the right nights. Making friends is possible, but very difficult.

I like to stay alone, but I think I will need to find a sexy partner if I will take another month for a swinging club full immersion

Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?"

You try being a single fem on here. NOT enough hours in the day. Some get funny as I keep saying already booked. But there are 100's of men per woman. And I do have a life too. I just cant get round every one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong"

I used to swing as a couple, now I'm single why should I give up something I love? I become a single not out of my choice and am remaining that way as VERY hurt from the last partner. I do play as a couple with a reg FB. But I always get asked to "play alone" with a couple. Finding couples to play with a couple is near neigh impossible. I would of had 1 play in the last 6 months if I was a couple. I have at least 15 blokes a week as a single. Swinging is a life style and once every 6 months is not a life style for me. I'd rather be a single and well.... swing and lots.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???"

Swinging is for couples and girls. The way swinger club prices are is a clear demonstrations, as well as the fact that on Saturdays single guys are not allowed.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"as a single guy your one of many, so patience is required but can assure you single guys who are decent can get meets on here its all about being appealing to those you are looking to meet

You see: you are thinking that it is a matter of number of meets as I am a single guy

I can reassure you that it is not that, but the quality of the meets as a single guy. One of the reply got the point

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

I have met some interesting people just by sticking to this."

This is exactly what I think.

However in swinger clubs it is very easy* to get couples, and you will be always something added to them, even for cuckholds couples

...having fun is rare in my 1 month of experience.

The number of single girls are very very low in swinger clubs, and many of them go there on Saturdays

*on the right nights (when club is not empty and not on saturdays events when all the couples look for other couples or girls)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some interesting people just by sticking to this.

This is exactly what I think.

However in swinger clubs it is very easy* to get couples, and you will be always something added to them, even for cuckholds couples

...having fun is rare in my 1 month of experience.

The number of single girls are very very low in swinger clubs, and many of them go there on Saturdays

*on the right nights (when club is not empty and not on saturdays events when all the couples look for other couples or girls)"

as a couple we have nothing against singles. its the clingy, needy. who want to get hooked, we wish to avoid. then they is the ones who try and get one of us to meet behind the others back. just feel they would find what there looking for on a dating site than here

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)"

We like this a lot. It should be the Fabswingers mantra

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

As a single guy, I've had a blast in the clubs. Most recently Infusions.

The best advice I can give, Is treat it like a night out. Talk to people. Have a laugh. If it leads to more then treat it as a bonus.

Why do I use swinging clubs or swinging sites as a single and not just go into clubs to pull?! I was in a LTR and at present just want No Strings fun with no pretence.

If anything I feel I'm being more honest with anyone I hook up with than if I went on the pull. No promising I will call them or ask for another date.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Been here for a while as single guy. It is difficult, especially when you are my age. Like the banter and have had a little success. Patience is the key however frustrating. If only I was 10 years younger

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

I have met some interesting people just by sticking to this.

This is exactly what I think.

However in swinger clubs it is very easy* to get couples, and you will be always something added to them, even for cuckholds couples

...having fun is rare in my 1 month of experience.

The number of single girls are very very low in swinger clubs, and many of them go there on Saturdays

*on the right nights (when club is not empty and not on saturdays events when all the couples look for other couples or girls)

Well I was referring to the quality/lenght of sex. A couple needs to give the single only a certain amount of time, to enjoy afterwards their mutual company.

This cannot apply to me as I need to much time. I am wrong maybe...or maybe not

Of course with a couple is very difficult to create a relationship beyond sex, hence prefer single girls (but it is very difficult too!?)

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Well I was referring to the quality/lenght of sex. A couple needs to give the single only a certain amount of time, to enjoy afterwards their mutual company.

This cannot apply to me as I need to much time. I am wrong maybe...or maybe not

Of course with a couple is very difficult to create a relationship beyond sex, hence prefer single girls (but it is very difficult too!?)"

If I'm reading this right, Then what you are actually looking for is a form of relationship? If that is the case, Then yes this site and swinging clubs probably aren't for you.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

Well I was referring to the quality/lenght of sex. A couple needs to give the single only a certain amount of time, to enjoy afterwards their mutual company.

This cannot apply to me as I need to much time. I am wrong maybe...or maybe not

Of course with a couple is very difficult to create a relationship beyond sex, hence prefer single girls (but it is very difficult too!?)

If I'm reading this right, Then what you are actually looking for is a form of relationship? If that is the case, Then yes this site and swinging clubs probably aren't for you."

Well you read only the last paragraph...out of three...

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

Well I was referring to the quality/lenght of sex. A couple needs to give the single only a certain amount of time, to enjoy afterwards their mutual company.

This cannot apply to me as I need to much time. I am wrong maybe...or maybe not

Of course with a couple is very difficult to create a relationship beyond sex, hence prefer single girls (but it is very difficult too!?)

If I'm reading this right, Then what you are actually looking for is a form of relationship? If that is the case, Then yes this site and swinging clubs probably aren't for you.

Well you read only the last paragraph...out of three..."

Sorry You've lost me. The way (all 3 paragraphs) read to me is you are wanting to spend time with the other person/couple after sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know whether it is just the way you come across but your threads repeatedly show a lack of respect to the people you swing with and I honestly don't think you understand the dynamics of swinging.

Can I ask, when you play with a couple do you _iew it as fucking the woman and their partner is incidental or do you _iew it as 3 people enjoying an experience together?

Plenty of single men don't experience the problems you complain of.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As part of couple I thoroughly enjoy playing with single guys in a club, often with two or three at a time. My swinging would not be as much fun without single men !

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By *iss my kittenWoman
over a year ago

wigan

Love this X top advice x

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"As part of couple I thoroughly enjoy playing with single guys in a club, often with two or three at a time. My swinging would not be as much fun without single men ! "

You see, if I had the possibility each time to play with 3 girls I wouldn't be here discussing*. Just overcome the low quality with quantity. It is a way to solve the situation and I actually like it. Who wouldn't like more partners...?

*there would still be the problem of having a more intimate relationship...but who cares if you can have hundreds of partners in one month? This is how a girl thinks, and I do understand it

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

Well I was referring to the quality/lenght of sex. A couple needs to give the single only a certain amount of time, to enjoy afterwards their mutual company.

This cannot apply to me as I need to much time. I am wrong maybe...or maybe not

Of course with a couple is very difficult to create a relationship beyond sex, hence prefer single girls (but it is very difficult too!?)

If I'm reading this right, Then what you are actually looking for is a form of relationship? If that is the case, Then yes this site and swinging clubs probably aren't for you.

Well you read only the last paragraph...out of three...

Sorry You've lost me. The way (all 3 paragraphs) read to me is you are wanting to spend time with the other person/couple after sex? "

True only for the last paragraph. Also before sex. And mainly DURING sex, as said in the first paragraph

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"but who cares if you can have hundreds of partners in one month? This is how a girl thinks, and I do understand it "

You've got women all wrong, I never think that and find the statement quite disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point in commenting and expressing an opinion because op is always right.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No point in commenting and expressing an opinion because op is always right.

This sure appears to be so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely singles having sex are not swingers, they're just shagging. Swingers are with partners who fuck others with their partners consent?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle. A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read many of your comments on multiple threads, started by you, OP.

I'm not saying this in a confrontational or hostile way, but you often sound like you have a mysogenistic streak.

You seem to feel a great deal of contempt and hostility towards women, particularly those who actively swing.

What do you think?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Some couples need to get off their high horses

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Surely singles having sex are not swingers, they're just shagging. Swingers are with partners who fuck others with their partners consent? "

I consider myself a swinger as I am an active participant in the swinging lifestyle. I attend clubs, socials, and events, and socialise with many other swingers.

If someone is on here for one on one shags then I would tend to agree with you, but someone who treats the lifestyle as more than just a way just to get shags is a swinger.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don't know whether it is just the way you come across but your threads repeatedly show a lack of respect to the people you swing with and I honestly don't think you understand the dynamics of swinging.

Can I ask, when you play with a couple do you _iew it as fucking the woman and their partner is incidental or do you _iew it as 3 people enjoying an experience together?

Plenty of single men don't experience the problems you complain of."

They just want a super quick shag with a random hole.

Usually I see it as a service I provide. I hoped to change my _iew in this month of holiday on this swinger world, but it felt always like a service I provided. Maybe a nice couple will make me change my mind one day

...or maybe not as I will find a partner. Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had an extraordinary time - I've met couples and singles both from FAB and in clubs.

Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong"

Lol so wrong.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"but who cares if you can have hundreds of partners in one month? This is how a girl thinks, and I do understand it

You've got women all wrong, I never think that and find the statement quite disrespectful."

Well you see...maybe you are not thinking that, but I can say with confidence that A HELL OF A LOT attractive girls think this. And I understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask, when you play with a couple do you _iew it as fucking the woman and their partner is incidental or do you _iew it as 3 people enjoying an experience together?

Plenty of single men don't experience the problems you complain of.

They just want a super quick shag with a random hole.

...or maybe not as I will find a partner. Who knows?"

Are you only looking to have sex with couples? Fucking the wife of another man with him present does not make you a swinger,neither is being on a website. The couples with women only fucking single men aren't swingers either. If couples make you feel so bad why don't you try having sex with single women. Us single women can provide you with the kind of sex you can't get from a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???

Swinging is for couples and girls. The way swinger club prices are is a clear demonstrations, as well as the fact that on Saturdays single guys are not allowed. "

I wasn't referring to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely singles having sex are not swingers, they're just shagging. Swingers are with partners who fuck others with their partners consent?

I consider myself a swinger as I am an active participant in the swinging lifestyle. I attend clubs, socials, and events, and socialise with many other swingers.

If someone is on here for one on one shags then I would tend to agree with you, but someone who treats the lifestyle as more than just a way just to get shags is a swinger."

Why is the sex I have shagging around and yours isn't? What about your lifestyle makes your sex not shagging around?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Surely singles having sex are not swingers, they're just shagging. Swingers are with partners who fuck others with their partners consent?

I consider myself a swinger as I am an active participant in the swinging lifestyle. I attend clubs, socials, and events, and socialise with many other swingers.

If someone is on here for one on one shags then I would tend to agree with you, but someone who treats the lifestyle as more than just a way just to get shags is a swinger.

Why is the sex I have shagging around and yours isn't? What about your lifestyle makes your sex not shagging around? "

Just my opinion. You are free to disagree. I do think that people who state that couples are the only 'true' swingers are talking bollocks though.

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over a year ago

I think the OP might be looking for more of a connection in his meets than a one off experience?

Connections take time. In one month you wont have actually spent that much time with any of these people. You likely need repeat meets for this familiarity.

Also people are often in the swinging world to fulfil fantasies that require additional persons. Not everyone is looking for a connection but something more face value. You'll need to be clearer in your intentions as to what you want to achieve and not just go along with anyone who offers if it doesn't match what you're after

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

They just want a super quick shag with a random hole.

...or maybe not as I will find a partner. Who knows?"

Again I reiterate,It reads like you are wanting more than just the sexual fun that swinging is. If your wanting a woman to cuddle up to post coitus I think it is a girlfriend you need to be looking for.

Why on earth would the female partner of a couple want to cuddle you after the event instead of her partner?

As for the 'supplying a service' remark. Get over yourself, Yes you are just there for that period to have a bit fun with one,two or more people. Nothing more.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

""The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle. A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger""

We're all swingers on here if we meet people

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP what nationality are you?

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over a year ago

"Surely singles having sex are not swingers, they're just shagging. Swingers are with partners who fuck others with their partners consent?

I consider myself a swinger as I am an active participant in the swinging lifestyle. I attend clubs, socials, and events, and socialise with many other swingers.

If someone is on here for one on one shags then I would tend to agree with you, but someone who treats the lifestyle as more than just a way just to get shags is a swinger.

Why is the sex I have shagging around and yours isn't? What about your lifestyle makes your sex not shagging around?

Just my opinion. You are free to disagree. I do think that people who state that couples are the only 'true' swingers are talking bollocks though."

I'm just wondering what your train of thinking is. I find it funny that people make judgements like the couple above did when they are doing no different to me,except in a club and with more people. It's like they covet the swinger title like it's an accolade.

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over a year ago

""The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle. A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger"

We're all swingers on here if we meet people

The term swinger is just a label stuck on couples from back in the dark ages. I don't care for labels and I wouldn't call myself anything. I'm just an open minded,sexually liberated woman,who doesn't happen to want to go to clubs for sex. That is why people go to clubs isn't it? For sex?

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over a year ago

Also OP as you are looking for repeats and regular meets (a fuckbuddy type thing maybe?) I would suggest being a little more delicate with how you refer to women.

I'm not sure if its deliberate but to say you want a connection with women/couples, you do describe them a little callously. You can't expect a connection from someone you describe with little regard

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've read many of your comments on multiple threads, started by you, OP.

I'm not saying this in a confrontational or hostile way, but you often sound like you have a mysogenistic streak.

You seem to feel a great deal of contempt and hostility towards women, particularly those who actively swing.

What do you think?"

Well yes maybe a little, but swinger/non-swinger makes no difference. I am here to cure myself

...swinging is a sort of therapy for me

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over a year ago

"I've read many of your comments on multiple threads, started by you, OP.

I'm not saying this in a confrontational or hostile way, but you often sound like you have a mysogenistic streak.

You seem to feel a great deal of contempt and hostility towards women, particularly those who actively swing.

What do you think?

Well yes maybe a little, but swinger/non-swinger makes no difference. I am here to cure myself

...swinging is a sort of therapy for me

Cure yourself of what?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Also OP as you are looking for repeats and regular meets (a fuckbuddy type thing maybe?) I would suggest being a little more delicate with how you refer to women.

I'm not sure if its deliberate but to say you want a connection with women/couples, you do describe them a little callously. You can't expect a connection from someone you describe with little regard"

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Also OP as you are looking for repeats and regular meets (a fuckbuddy type thing maybe?) I would suggest being a little more delicate with how you refer to women.

Oh well I love women. Way too much. Do they deserve it...? Maybe

If a women will be influenced from what I say in one of the milions of forums online...well she is not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be grateful then that a lot don't use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is therapy. Really how can it be? Sex is sex.. After all. As for it being therapy. Its a turn off.. For me. Most here think it is a sex site.. Meet after a five min chat and shag. Not how it is

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"That is why people go to clubs isn't it? For sex? "

No people go to clubs to discuss about the problems of the human kind. Hunger, crime, terrorism. Do not expect sex, it is a sin

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over a year ago

"I've read many of your comments on multiple threads, started by you, OP.

I'm not saying this in a confrontational or hostile way, but you often sound like you have a mysogenistic streak.

You seem to feel a great deal of contempt and hostility towards women, particularly those who actively swing.

What do you think?

Well yes maybe a little, but swinger/non-swinger makes no difference. I am here to cure myself

...swinging is a sort of therapy for me

You swing to 'cure' mysogeny?

So sex with lots of women will help you to stop hating women?

That's....food for thought.

It doesn't seem to be improving the way you see women, if you don't mind me saying so?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The term swinger is just a label stuck on couples from back in the dark ages. I don't care for labels and I wouldn't call myself anything. I'm just an open minded,sexually liberated woman,who doesn't happen to want to go to clubs for sex. That is why people go to clubs isn't it? For sex? "

I agree about the labels, I don't think of myself as a swinger. I only go to clubs occasionally and for social reasons, never to play.

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over a year ago

"I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)"

That's pretty good dude X well done

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Just be grateful then that a lot don't use the forums

Well I hope they do. It would be another filter. Filters are never too much

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over a year ago

"Just be grateful then that a lot don't use the forums

Well I hope they do. It would be another filter. Filters are never too much

I think you may actually be gay but are embarrassed to admit it.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You want a woman or women to have lasting feelings...but you are a self-confessed mysogynist.

What's wrong with this picture?

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By *apperpapiMan
over a year ago

Chester

I think you're expecting too much bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Well this got interesting very quickly...

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've read many of your comments on multiple threads, started by you, OP.

I'm not saying this in a confrontational or hostile way, but you often sound like you have a mysogenistic streak.

You seem to feel a great deal of contempt and hostility towards women, particularly those who actively swing.

What do you think?

Well yes maybe a little, but swinger/non-swinger makes no difference. I am here to cure myself

...swinging is a sort of therapy for me

You swing to 'cure' mysogeny?

So sex with lots of women will help you to stop hating women?

That's....food for thought.

It doesn't seem to be improving the way you see women, if you don't mind me saying so?

No sex with the right girls would cure myself

...I do not hate anyone. I am not a hater like many on this forum

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

Ideally only one girl, using only one night. So simple, but so difficult to achieve

Where are you? I will ask Santa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you think your sex will improve by going to a club as a couple?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Ideally only one girl, using only one night. So simple, but so difficult to achieve

Where are you? I will ask Santa

You need Match.com not Fab

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian? "

I'm thinking further east

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east"

Cockney?

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over a year ago

"I used the site for 1 month and half, and I attended swinging clubs for one full month as a single guy now. Maybe it is too early to judge, but I do not have time to try more

It was nice to meet new people and it was what I needed really, however this world is clearly made for couples "who want to swing"

The only thing you can get as a sigle guy is quick shags with couples, rarely acceptable. This is pretty easy on the right nights. Making friends is possible, but very difficult.

I like to stay alone, but I think I will need to find a sexy partner if I will take another month for a swinging club full immersion

Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?"

Done both the single guy one is harder, but if you are confident and know yourself, just be yourself woman will find you and you will have fun, the couple one was slightly easier, but also not straight forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east"

Outer Mongolia ? Timbuktu ? Or button moon?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east

Outer Mongolia ? Timbuktu ? Or button moon?

I am from Mars, the planet of men. Girls are from Venus.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east

Cockney?

Ahahah is it an actually a place?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Just be grateful then that a lot don't use the forums

Well I hope they do. It would be another filter. Filters are never too much

I think you may actually be gay but are embarrassed to admit it."

My life would have been so much easier. I really thought about that. The answer is no unfortunately

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)

That's pretty good dude X well done "

Yes it needs a lot of creativity. Really nice acronim

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east

Cockney?

His question tells me he's definitely not Cockney....and the way it's phrased, probably not English

Ahahah is it an actually a place?"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

To the OP:

Whilst it is true that most of the clubs open their doors on Saturdays to single women and couples only, there are some which also welcome single men

The only time I now go to a club on a Saturday evening is either when I go as a couple with a male friend or to clubs which welcome single men on Saturday evenings

Although I meet couples I know and we sometimes have fun, I am looking for single men and women only

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east

His question tells me he's definitely not Cockney....and the way it's phrased, probably not English "

Exactly, plus the attitude.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Ideally only one girl, using only one night. So simple, but so difficult to achieve

Where are you? I will ask Santa

You need Match.com not Fab"

I was thinking to try. Will I find a girlfriend there who will let me sleep with other girls sometimes...? I could try

Will I just break her heart? Yes...or maybe I will just change my own lifestyle.

Who knows. Do you think it is a working site?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Well this got interesting very quickly...

My threads are always interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP what nationality are you?

Still wondering

Italian?

I'm thinking further east

Cockney?

Ahahah is it an actually a place?"

To be a Cockney you have to be born in a certain part of London

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Within the sound of Bow Bells I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing alone .its lot better that way.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy enough to swing, as a single or not. If you do like it, keep doing it. If you don't, simply change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not English...im betting Middle Eastern

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I used the site for 1 month and half, and I attended swinging clubs for one full month as a single guy now. Maybe it is too early to judge, but I do not have time to try more

It was nice to meet new people and it was what I needed really, however this world is clearly made for couples "who want to swing"

The only thing you can get as a sigle guy is quick shags with couples, rarely acceptable. This is pretty easy on the right nights. Making friends is possible, but very difficult.

I like to stay alone, but I think I will need to find a sexy partner if I will take another month for a swinging club full immersion

Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?

Yeah well. At least if you are a couple they think you are not interested in Sex only.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Definitely not English...im betting Middle Eastern

Ahahahah Janetee read this please!?!?!?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I swing alone .its lot better that way.!"

I was thinking that too. But I was blind. Now I see

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Definitely not English...im betting Middle Eastern

Ahahahah Janetee read this please!?!?!?"

The ha has are written back to front. That's a big clue...

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over a year ago

"Definitely not English...im betting Middle Eastern

What makes you say that?

And why the shocked face?

I'm thinking Eastern European. But I am impressed with his command of English. It's not faultless, but it's very good.

Let's go on the Hungarian Fab and see how good we sound on the forums!

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not English...im betting Middle Eastern

Italian

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"To the OP:

Whilst it is true that most of the clubs open their doors on Saturdays to single women and couples only, there are some which also welcome single men

The only time I now go to a club on a Saturday evening is either when I go as a couple with a male friend or to clubs which welcome single men on Saturday evenings

Although I meet couples I know and we sometimes have fun, I am looking for single men and women only"

Do you go alone to clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why didn't we just read his profile?

Swiss/Italian!

Xxxx

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Why didn't we just read his profile?

Swiss/Italian!

Xxxx"

Damm..i was close lol

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Why didn't we just read his profile?

Swiss/Italian!

Xxxx"

Oh well. I met a girl from here who did not know I was looking for a regular partner. She told me she looked to my pics only. It is a good thing in some way

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"To the OP:

Whilst it is true that most of the clubs open their doors on Saturdays to single women and couples only, there are some which also welcome single men

The only time I now go to a club on a Saturday evening is either when I go as a couple with a male friend or to clubs which welcome single men on Saturday evenings

Although I meet couples I know and we sometimes have fun, I am looking for single men and women only

Do you go alone to clubs?"

Sometimes I go alone; sometimes with a girlfriend; sometimes with a male friend; depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why didn't we just read his profile?

Swiss/Italian!

Xxxx

Oh well. I met a girl from here who did not know I was looking for a regular partner. She told me she looked to my pics only. It is a good thing in some way

The pics are great and the profile, too.

The forum input might not be to every lady's liking, however...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Let's go on the Hungarian Fab and see how good we sound on the forums!"

Én egy többnyelvu szex mániákus

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over a year ago

"Let's go on the Hungarian Fab and see how good we sound on the forums!

Én egy többnyelvu szex mániákus"

I stand corrected!

Clever lady!

Xxxxx

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over a year ago

London

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Why didn't we just read his profile?

Swiss/Italian!

Xxxx

Oh well. I met a girl from here who did not know I was looking for a regular partner. She told me she looked to my pics only. It is a good thing in some way

The pics are great and the profile, too.

The forum input might not be to every lady's liking, however..."

Thanks

Yes but the Forum filter works well. I can avoid timewasters and mainly the girls who are after my cock, muscles...and skills

Sometimes I cannot have sex with a lot of girls because I need to rest, so it is perfect!!

PS: If someone thinks what it is left of me...well...think again

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Let's go on the Hungarian Fab and see how good we sound on the forums!

Én egy többnyelvu szex mániákus"

"Sex maniac"

"En egy" maybe sounds like "I am" or "another"

"Tobbnyelvu"

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???"

We love MMF we need the single guys.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???

We love MMF we need the single guys. "

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over a year ago

As a single guy going to clubs I find them to be exactly what o expect them to be.... just like a nightclub but with the possibility of some fun should I want it.

I have got on very well in the last 5 months due to putting myself out and going to social meets, expect nothing, and if anything does happen then it's the added bonus of being on such a site.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"As a single guy going to clubs I find them to be exactly what o expect them to be.... just like a nightclub but with the possibility of some fun should I want it.

Normal clubs worldwide are like that. Apart UK maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you don't want to take the advice from anyone on here, having read most of your replies.

Oh well, UNLOS soon i guess.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

Oh I do. Useful advices are welcome. Thank you very much anyway.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think it's just about managing your expectations and not let disappointment/rejection get to you. For me I work on the HAPPINESS acronym

H is for honest, it is so important

A is for active, be active in the community, forum posts, club visits

PP is for patiently polite, if things don't work out, take it with good grace

I is for inovative, those first messages you send are important, rise above the crowd

N is for negativity, avoid it, like the plague

E is for expectations, manage yours, by stating in your profile who you are, really who you are, avoids nasty surprises

SS is for Super Sexy (well it had to be!)"

This is great!!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Anyone who experienced swinging as a single guy and and as a couple? Opinions?"

Well, I have a simply mind blowing time as a result of being on fab as a single male swinger!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

""The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle. A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger"

We're all swingers on here if we meet people

Strange that you don't care for labels but immediately give yourself three. We all use labels, how else do we define ourselves?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Ideally only one girl, using only one night. So simple, but so difficult to achieve

Where are you? I will ask Santa

You need Match.com not Fab

I was thinking to try. Will I find a girlfriend there who will let me sleep with other girls sometimes...? I could try

Will I just break her heart? Yes...or maybe I will just change my own lifestyle.

Who knows. Do you think it is a working site?"

If this is what you are looking for why not just get out into the real world and start to develop real relationships with real women instead of being lazy and trying to take short cuts on the Web. You appear to be looking for relationships amongst swingers, most of whom are looking for no strings fun.

Additionally your antagonistic and misogynistic attitude on these forum threads are not going to attract many potential partners.

This site works for thousands of people. If it, and the lifestyle it supports, doesn't work for you then perhaps the problem is with you.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

Ahahah I am always in the real world, which sort of advice is it?

Also Swinger clubs are the real world. I meet real people!?

Then it is funny how in this forum you can be judged by people who explicitly say they are swingers just to avoid to be judged. Or they put in your mount things you did not say

I think this month and half in this forum was enough too

Anyway it is useful to do some surveys at least

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over a year ago

Best thing is to play in both worlds which is what i $very done the past 3 -4 years . Swing a year or so ,take a break go back to the other side then switch between both as you like .

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

" You appear to be looking for relationships amongst swingers, most of whom are looking for no strings fun."

My other comment covers everything else. About this sentence, ideally I am searching for an open relationship. I think this site is the best place to search. I am searching of course everywhere, not only here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" You appear to be looking for relationships amongst swingers, most of whom are looking for no strings fun.

Would you be OK with your girlfriend having sex with other people too?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

" You appear to be looking for relationships amongst swingers, most of whom are looking for no strings fun.

Would you be OK with your girlfriend having sex with other people too?"

It is an open relationship

we will behave as singles, unless we are together.

In the case we are together we could have sex with other people too. But I do like to think that we will be enough for each other when we are together. So it will happen rarely, like once/twice per month as a maximum.

Maybe it is an utopistic _iew of an open relationship. I like to dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???"

I agree its a broad church,just about having adult fun with whoever you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle. A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger"

We're all swingers on here if we meet people

Strange that you don't care for labels but immediately give yourself three. We all use labels, how else do we define ourselves? "

Those aren't labels,they are descriptors.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

""The definition of a swinger is slang for someone who lives an uninhibited lifestyle. A person who engages freely in experimental sexual behavior is an example of a swinger"

We're all swingers on here if we meet people

Strange that you don't care for labels but immediately give yourself three. We all use labels, how else do we define ourselves?

Those aren't labels,they are descriptors. "

the question is why confine yourself to labels and descriptions

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By *methyst01Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common

"Can not understand single people swinging always thought you were a couple who both went and had sex with other both go together. Single,s on there own your just out shagging am i right or wrong

If it wasn't for singles there would be a lot of swinging couples unable to indulge in their threesome fantasies am I right or wrong?

If Fab was just for ''couples'' how come singles are allowed to join???"

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

I did not get abused much. You are learning how to behave. Good

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I did not get abused much. You are learning how to behave. Good

Patronising arrogant twit - is that ok?

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"I did not get abused much. You are learning how to behave. Good

Patronising arrogant twit - is that ok?"

Thats not how you spell Twat!

Actually think this guy is getting nothing and he just cannot figure why.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I did not get abused much. You are learning how to behave. Good

Patronising arrogant twit - is that ok?"

Ahahahah now I feel at home

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I did not get abused much. You are learning how to behave. Good

Patronising arrogant twit - is that ok?

Thats not how you spell Twat!

Actually think this guy is getting nothing and he just cannot figure why."

Are you serious...?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No point in commenting and expressing an opinion because op is always right.

This sure appears to be so "

I do not understand why these comments

...You know already I am an oracle of wisdom

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"How do you think your sex will improve by going to a club as a couple? "

Because

1) following the OP, from a club prospective single guys are not seen well at all. They are used.

2) if I find the right partner it would be fun to have sex in public sometimes and also with other people.

The status of "couple" is VERY important in the swinging world. Again I would have preferred to stay alone. But it is not worth...

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"How do you think your sex will improve by going to a club as a couple?

Because

1) following the OP, from a club prospective single guys are not seen well at all. They are used.

2) if I find the right partner it would be fun to have sex in public sometimes and also with other people.

The status of "couple" is VERY important in the swinging world. Again I would have preferred to stay alone. But it is not worth...

You probably aren't concerned but I am totally affronted by your suggestion that single men are "used" at clubs. We, and all the couples we know, do not use anybody whether male or female. We share an enjoyable experience with willing playmates.

I have said it before but will say it again: you have a perverted and distorted _iew of the swinging community - it is reflection of you not of swingers.

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries

"How do you think your sex will improve by going to a club as a couple?

Because

1) following the OP, from a club prospective single guys are not seen well at all. They are used.

2) if I find the right partner it would be fun to have sex in public sometimes and also with other people.

The status of "couple" is VERY important in the swinging world. Again I would have preferred to stay alone. But it is not worth...

I have said it before but will say it again: you have a perverted and distorted _iew of the swinging community - it is reflection of you not of swingers. "

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By *eonardoLove OP Man
over a year ago

London

"How do you think your sex will improve by going to a club as a couple?

Because

1) following the OP, from a club prospective single guys are not seen well at all. They are used.

2) if I find the right partner it would be fun to have sex in public sometimes and also with other people.

The status of "couple" is VERY important in the swinging world. Again I would have preferred to stay alone. But it is not worth...

I have said it before but will say it again: you have a perverted and distorted _iew of the swinging community - it is reflection of you not of swingers. "

Single guys are used BY CLUBS. You cannot deny it. It is a fact

Well I would correct you saying that some couples are like you said. From what I saw other couples use single guys. Another fact...

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