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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen?" sounds like it was cleverly noncommittal | |||
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"Yes it was a gangbang, so said person could have as many as they wanted I've no issues with that. just thought the advertising by the club wasn't good. " It makes it sound as though the person being gangbanged doesn't have a choice!!! Where we all know in this lifestyle choice is everything.. Bad advertising I think. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen?" It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? sounds like it was cleverly noncommittal " Yep! Like the huge 50% off signs with the tiny "up to" in the corner. There is no way sex could be guaranteed simply because a proportion of men will suffer from stage fright but my guess is that if you questioned them they would say they guarantee that sex with happen on the premises not that you will be involved in any capacity other than as an audience member. | |||
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"So I saw a club advertising an event and claiming it guarantees sex. Is it just me or does this claim seem irresponsible? Yes they might somehow guarantee sex at that event, but doesn't it give people the wrong impression of clubs. Clubs can have a hard enough time instilling club etiquette in newbies without one club making it look like you pay your money you get to play scenario. Just wondered about other people's opinions on this?" it may have been inferring that they had provided couples themselves to make sure sex in public rooms could be definitely viewed ,that would be the only sure thing and a nice touch for the single guys who paid a fortune to get in xx | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed." There's a difference between them saying 'guaranteed sex', and 'guaranteed sex with (woman)'. Which was it that the club actually said? | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed. There's a difference between them saying 'guaranteed sex', and 'guaranteed sex with (woman)'. Which was it that the club actually said?" Friday 6th November 2-5pm ***** is back in *********** for her own gang-bang sex is guaranteed on this event xxxxx Copies this from the post but deleted the names. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed." Not something I would want to be involved in but if it is as it says and all parties are in agreement.... I agree that it could give the wrong impression of clubs but so many people have that already. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed. There's a difference between them saying 'guaranteed sex', and 'guaranteed sex with (woman)'. Which was it that the club actually said? Friday 6th November 2-5pm ***** is back in *********** for her own gang-bang sex is guaranteed on this event xxxxx Copies this from the post but deleted the names. " So they're clearly defining the parameters of the event. I don't think its contributing to the idea that all clubs guarantee sex. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed. There's a difference between them saying 'guaranteed sex', and 'guaranteed sex with (woman)'. Which was it that the club actually said? Friday 6th November 2-5pm ***** is back in *********** for her own gang-bang sex is guaranteed on this event xxxxx Copies this from the post but deleted the names. " Ambiguous I feel. If it said everyone is guaranteed to have sex that would be one thing but "sex is guaranteed" could be interpreted in many ways. However it does give the impression that anyone who walks in the door will get sex. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed. There's a difference between them saying 'guaranteed sex', and 'guaranteed sex with (woman)'. Which was it that the club actually said? Friday 6th November 2-5pm ***** is back in *********** for her own gang-bang sex is guaranteed on this event xxxxx Copies this from the post but deleted the names. So they're clearly defining the parameters of the event. I don't think its contributing to the idea that all clubs guarantee sex." This is my view too. If it's who And where I think it is.... It is made very clear that it's with just the one person and at this event only x | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed." I think I know the club you mentioned, my partner and I go there sometimes. The lady in question (if it's the club I am thinking about) is "owned" by an older gentleman who supervises her parties. The club gives free admission to him and her but charges men £25 entrance fee including their own club members, there was talk about her having fun with 48 men on past occasions so that's an extra £1200 in their kitty. It turns the club into a thinly disguised brothel. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed. I think I know the club you mentioned, my partner and I go there sometimes. The lady in question (if it's the club I am thinking about) is "owned" by an older gentleman who supervises her parties. The club gives free admission to him and her but charges men £25 entrance fee including their own club members, there was talk about her having fun with 48 men on past occasions so that's an extra £1200 in their kitty. It turns the club into a thinly disguised brothel." Why does it..... She is doing what she wants to do. It's hard if your a gg to get good numbers. Gg nights often allow free entry to those playing x | |||
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" Why does it..... She is doing what she wants to do. It's hard if your a gg to get good numbers. Gg nights often allow free entry to those playing x " I have sex with lots of different people. I do it because I want to. The moment I start charging people for it, it's called prostitution. That's the difference. | |||
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" Why does it..... She is doing what she wants to do. It's hard if your a gg to get good numbers. Gg nights often allow free entry to those playing x I have sex with lots of different people. I do it because I want to. The moment I start charging people for it, it's called prostitution. That's the difference. " | |||
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" Why does it..... She is doing what she wants to do. It's hard if your a gg to get good numbers. Gg nights often allow free entry to those playing x I have sex with lots of different people. I do it because I want to. The moment I start charging people for it, it's called prostitution. That's the difference. " She isn't charging though. She is using a club because sneaking 40plus guys into a hotel maybe difficult and its safe And easy in a club. | |||
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"The club I regularly attend charges men, women and couples an entry fee but does not "guarantee" sex. I just googled "prostitute. Dictionary dot com - a person who engages in sexually activity for payment. Would you like the dictionary definition of pimp as well, or do you think you can work that one out for yourselves?" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... | |||
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"Just to re iterate, I've no problem with the event itself. It's just guys can get a hard enough time and wouldn't want them being led to believe that sex is guaranteed at other times or at other clubs as I am a club goer myself in the north west. " Read what is actually written rather than what you want it to say. “Friday 6th November 2-5pm ***** is back in *********** for her own gang-bang sex is guaranteed on this event xxxxx” All it says is a certain female is back for her own gang-bang and that sex is guaranteed to take place at the event. It does not say other people are guaranteed to be able to join in the gang-bang or the sex is guaranteed for other people. | |||
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"The club I regularly attend charges men, women and couples an entry fee but does not "guarantee" sex. I just googled "prostitute. Dictionary dot com - a person who engages in sexually activity for payment. Would you like the dictionary definition of pimp as well, or do you think you can work that one out for yourselves?" | |||
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"Yes it was a gangbang, so said person could have as many as they wanted I've no issues with that. just thought the advertising by the club wasn't good. " The lady whose gangbang it was let's the club advertise it as such because she has told them she is guaranteeing sex to whoever wants to be involved with it. Not everyone at the club on that afternoon is there to be involved so the club scene and it's focus never alters they are just accommodating someones requirements I guess | |||
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" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... " Good.. Saves me time explaining then. I've had multiple GBs over the years. I've organised them for myself and had other people organise them for me. I have NEVER charged anyone joining in the fun. And I have NEVER had sex with anyone I didn't want to, even if they have been invited to or were present at one of my events. So. With that in mind. I would be interested to know, if you "guarantee" anyone sex and charge money for it, what else it should be called? | |||
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"Yes it was a gangbang, so said person could have as many as they wanted I've no issues with that. just thought the advertising by the club wasn't good. The lady whose gangbang it was let's the club advertise it as such because she has told them she is guaranteeing sex to whoever wants to be involved with it. Not everyone at the club on that afternoon is there to be involved so the club scene and it's focus never alters they are just accommodating someones requirements I guess" Well that sounds much more reasonable.. But then I do agree with the OP feeling uncomfortable with the idea of it all. | |||
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" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... Good.. Saves me time explaining then. I've had multiple GBs over the years. I've organised them for myself and had other people organise them for me. I have NEVER charged anyone joining in the fun. And I have NEVER had sex with anyone I didn't want to, even if they have been invited to or were present at one of my events. So. With that in mind. I would be interested to know, if you "guarantee" anyone sex and charge money for it, what else it should be called? " Yes like you we are experienced at both organising and doing our own gangbangs And gg sessions. The lady isn't charging. She is going to a club that charges guys entry but that particular lady guarantees sex as That's what she wants. Many gg I know will take on most guys because that is the thrill for them. I've got picky in my old age. So unless your saying charging to get into clubs is prostitution, then I don't get your point It's a club providing a place for someone to have their sexual wish. | |||
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" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... Good.. Saves me time explaining then. I've had multiple GBs over the years. I've organised them for myself and had other people organise them for me. I have NEVER charged anyone joining in the fun. And I have NEVER had sex with anyone I didn't want to, even if they have been invited to or were present at one of my events. So. With that in mind. I would be interested to know, if you "guarantee" anyone sex and charge money for it, what else it should be called? " She's not charging for it. The club is charging admittance, which they would do anyway. You are combining two separate issues. | |||
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"did they guarantee that you would get sex or that sex would happen? It said a certain lady was there for her own gang bang and sex was guaranteed." What's that the exact wording as that just means there will be sec there not that you'll get any | |||
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"guaranteed sex does not mean said individual just sex in the venue lol" She was guaranteeing anyone who was joining her gangbang sex. | |||
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" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... Good.. Saves me time explaining then. I've had multiple GBs over the years. I've organised them for myself and had other people organise them for me. I have NEVER charged anyone joining in the fun. And I have NEVER had sex with anyone I didn't want to, even if they have been invited to or were present at one of my events. So. With that in mind. I would be interested to know, if you "guarantee" anyone sex and charge money for it, what else it should be called? She's not charging for it. The club is charging admittance, which they would do anyway. You are combining two separate issues." Yes, that's fair enough. I was overlapping the two issues slightly. I do still feel very uncomfortable that a club is using a particular person to advertise a night though, rather than saying "greedy girls night" like most clubs do. And also saying Guaranteed sex. Others have pointed out that it's all in the wording, but come on!! Let's be realistic, even if they are being sly, I don't think it takes a brain surgeon to understand what they are implying by that wording. Lastly, as I said before- the only clubs that I personally know of that offer ££ entry to gangbang nights of that nature employ the women to "host" the parties. | |||
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"Just to re iterate, I've no problem with the event itself. It's just guys can get a hard enough time and wouldn't want them being led to believe that sex is guaranteed at other times or at other clubs as I am a club goer myself in the north west. " | |||
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"So I saw a club advertising an event and claiming it guarantees sex. Is it just me or does this claim seem irresponsible?" Yes | |||
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" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... Good.. Saves me time explaining then. I've had multiple GBs over the years. I've organised them for myself and had other people organise them for me. I have NEVER charged anyone joining in the fun. And I have NEVER had sex with anyone I didn't want to, even if they have been invited to or were present at one of my events. So. With that in mind. I would be interested to know, if you "guarantee" anyone sex and charge money for it, what else it should be called? She's not charging for it. The club is charging admittance, which they would do anyway. You are combining two separate issues. Yes, that's fair enough. I was overlapping the two issues slightly. I do still feel very uncomfortable that a club is using a particular person to advertise a night though, rather than saying "greedy girls night" like most clubs do. And also saying Guaranteed sex. Others have pointed out that it's all in the wording, but come on!! Let's be realistic, even if they are being sly, I don't think it takes a brain surgeon to understand what they are implying by that wording. Lastly, as I said before- the only clubs that I personally know of that offer ££ entry to gangbang nights of that nature employ the women to "host" the parties. " The club let this lady hold her own gangbang there. She does not work for them at all. She is the one telling them to put on the posters etc that she is guaranteeing sex to all who wish to join in. It is not a greedy girls event as it is purely just this lady involved. It's not my scene at all so I wouldn't be there while it's occurin but if that's what floats her boat then fair play to her. | |||
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" Ohhh you know what I never knew that. As a gg I don't see a problem with ladies wanting to say they will take on all comers.. as long as people accept some of us don't ... Good.. Saves me time explaining then. I've had multiple GBs over the years. I've organised them for myself and had other people organise them for me. I have NEVER charged anyone joining in the fun. And I have NEVER had sex with anyone I didn't want to, even if they have been invited to or were present at one of my events. So. With that in mind. I would be interested to know, if you "guarantee" anyone sex and charge money for it, what else it should be called? She's not charging for it. The club is charging admittance, which they would do anyway. You are combining two separate issues. Yes, that's fair enough. I was overlapping the two issues slightly. I do still feel very uncomfortable that a club is using a particular person to advertise a night though, rather than saying "greedy girls night" like most clubs do. And also saying Guaranteed sex. Others have pointed out that it's all in the wording, but come on!! Let's be realistic, even if they are being sly, I don't think it takes a brain surgeon to understand what they are implying by that wording. Lastly, as I said before- the only clubs that I personally know of that offer ££ entry to gangbang nights of that nature employ the women to "host" the parties. The club let this lady hold her own gangbang there. She does not work for them at all. She is the one telling them to put on the posters etc that she is guaranteeing sex to all who wish to join in. It is not a greedy girls event as it is purely just this lady involved. It's not my scene at all so I wouldn't be there while it's occurin but if that's what floats her boat then fair play to her. " | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. " there will be other people there. Guys pay their entry but they know this one lady wants all... Of course after this people can enjoy the club and actually we wouldn't attend as we prefer their to be more couples even though we enjoy gg nights/days | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. " But that's no different to paying to get into a club and if you're lucky enough to play you've paid to play only difference it wasn't stated to be a guaranteed outcome. | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. " Yes I know what you mean there, as if it is guaranteed sex, there have to be something else added to the mix | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. there will be other people there. Guys pay their entry but they know this one lady wants all... Of course after this people can enjoy the club and actually we wouldn't attend as we prefer their to be more couples even though we enjoy gg nights/days " So you are essentially agreeing with me that at least some of the guys are paying to go fuck this girl, as advertised then? | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. But that's no different to paying to get into a club and if you're lucky enough to play you've paid to play only difference it wasn't stated to be a guaranteed outcome." Well actually it is, because no club I have been to ever guarantees sex or specifically mentions a particular person that will guarantee sex unless it's with someone who is paid to "host" there. | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. But that's no different to paying to get into a club and if you're lucky enough to play you've paid to play only difference it wasn't stated to be a guaranteed outcome. Well actually it is, because no club I have been to ever guarantees sex or specifically mentions a particular person that will guarantee sex unless it's with someone who is paid to "host" there. " In this case all the club have done is provide the space for this lady to fulfill one of her fantasys where she herself has specified any body that's wanting to play will be given the opportunity to do so the club itself isn't guaranteeing anything. The club does not do this on a regular basis and are very very good at making their rules of play known to all who attend on any other occasion. This is the only club I've ever felt that the no means no rule will be fully adhered to and if a guy or girl are breaking that rule they will be asked to leave. | |||
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"By the way, if it's not a greedy girl event, and it's just this girl, and by paying entry you are guaranteed sex........ I don't know.... Maybe... Maybe I am crazy here, but it does kind of sound like you are paying to get in and fuck this girl. there will be other people there. Guys pay their entry but they know this one lady wants all... Of course after this people can enjoy the club and actually we wouldn't attend as we prefer their to be more couples even though we enjoy gg nights/days So you are essentially agreeing with me that at least some of the guys are paying to go fuck this girl, as advertised then? " No ... I'm saying the lady wants to do this and is not being paid by the club. The club are not charging the guys extra... But as she wants 40 plus guys we know that may put other couples off... So we would go on a different night. Gg has lots of variations... This lady just has her own fantasy. | |||
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"That's fair enough, but then it goes back to what the original OP is saying, doesn't it?" Was asked If it was irresponsible.. And I'd say no.. because its made very clear that its for this event and this event only | |||
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"That's fair enough, but then it goes back to what the original OP is saying, doesn't it? Was asked If it was irresponsible.. And I'd say no.. because its made very clear that its for this event and this event only " You tell that to the dirty old men that turn up tonight that next week. Obce the cock takes over they wont be capable of remembering rules | |||
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"The club know when they advertise said gangbang that guys will flock there. Its clever marketing and using the said women as bait " It's one woman and it was at her suggestion. | |||
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"That's fair enough, but then it goes back to what the original OP is saying, doesn't it? Was asked If it was irresponsible.. And I'd say no.. because its made very clear that its for this event and this event only You tell that to the dirty old men that turn up tonight that next week. Obce the cock takes over they wont be capable of remembering rules " The club is very strict on their policy and we have found that despite being a male heavy club that the single guys are very well behaved .... We know that this isn't thy first time that this lady has had a gb there and it doesn't seem to cause a problem. | |||
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"That's fair enough, but then it goes back to what the original OP is saying, doesn't it? Was asked If it was irresponsible.. And I'd say no.. because its made very clear that its for this event and this event only You tell that to the dirty old men that turn up tonight that next week. Obce the cock takes over they wont be capable of remembering rules The club is very strict on their policy and we have found that despite being a male heavy club that the single guys are very well behaved .... We know that this isn't thy first time that this lady has had a gb there and it doesn't seem to cause a problem. " oh i bet it aint a problem. I can hear the till rolling over from here | |||
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"That's fair enough, but then it goes back to what the original OP is saying, doesn't it? Was asked If it was irresponsible.. And I'd say no.. because its made very clear that its for this event and this event only You tell that to the dirty old men that turn up tonight that next week. Obce the cock takes over they wont be capable of remembering rules The club is very strict on their policy and we have found that despite being a male heavy club that the single guys are very well behaved .... We know that this isn't thy first time that this lady has had a gb there and it doesn't seem to cause a problem. oh i bet it aint a problem. I can hear the till rolling over from here " Chu Ching | |||
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