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what kind of message grabs your attention ladies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read profiles, I only message the women I'm interested in and I'm polite.

I avoid "hi there" or any mundane message and I'm certainly not crude! I don't send cock pics and I always include a face pic!!!

Any more help??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do you only message the ones that might be interested in you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read profiles, I only message the women I'm interested in and I'm polite.

I avoid "hi there" or any mundane message and I'm certainly not crude! I don't send cock pics and I always include a face pic!!!

Any more help?? "

I like to see a cock pic .

I also like to help with making fantasies become reality .

So it depends who you message ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have my search to block people whose categories I don't put in. I look at the ones j like. Then it's reading the profile to see if I fit their requirements

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have my search to block people whose categories I don't put in. I look at the ones j like. Then it's reading the profile to see if I fit their requirements "

This is good

Most of us don't want a cock pic. Torso pics are nice as are face pics. With a first message a face pic is good. Your avatar is a bit small to see properly.

Reading the profile is the key. So if you've worked out you'd like them and you'd fit their wants, you should be able to write a message showing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself. I only reply to messages that come from guys i like the look of so it really doesn't matter if you send the perfect message, i won't reply if i don't want to throw you on the bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's where I am stumbling then! My profile pic is private at the moment. I'm very new to this still finding my feet! Rather just share it with the people o make friends with for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past when I did meet up the type of message that was an immediate delete was hi or how's your week or something overly crude. Liked it when a face pic was attached (which I reciprocated) and a bit of an intro that showed some personality. From there was pretty fast to arrange a social as lost interest with ping pong messages. If you can go to a social and get a couple of veri's that's a plus. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's where I am stumbling then! My profile pic is private at the moment. I'm very new to this still finding my feet! Rather just share it with the people o make friends with for now. "

It doesn't have to be a face pic....just something that shows potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you only message the ones that might be interested in you?"

You seem to have missed this point. This is THE point whether you want to acknowledge it or not.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I like something that shows they have read my profile, preferably with something that gives me something to respond and start a conversation with (ie a question that doesn't need just a yes or no answer)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calm down, you've been around a week

Be nice, be yourself, be patient, you'll be just fine.

Also, fewer exclamation marks

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I like something that shows they have read my profile, preferably with something that gives me something to respond and start a conversation with (ie a question that doesn't need just a yes or no answer)"

This and a face and cock pic I like to see what I'm going to get. A bit of humour works well too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Calm down, you've been around a week

Be nice, be yourself, be patient, you'll be just fine.

Also, fewer exclamation marks "
You beat me to it, yes patience is the key lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Calm down, you've been around a week

Be nice, be yourself, be patient, you'll be just fine.

Also, fewer exclamation marks You beat me to it, yes patience is the key lol."

Sorry shag, I know that's your favourite piece of advice to give out...I feel like I've stolen it Sorry big guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Calm down, you've been around a week

Be nice, be yourself, be patient, you'll be just fine.

Also, fewer exclamation marks You beat me to it, yes patience is the key lol.

Sorry shag, I know that's your favourite piece of advice to give out...I feel like I've stolen it Sorry big guy "
lol it is ok, you can use it as well, it is a fun one tho aint it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself, try to include something that shows youve read the profile and one thst i like iswhen a guy tells me which of my pics he likes the best and why.. Maybe im odd for that though or vain..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages with pics of guys I'm attracted to are my favourite

You can send the nicest message on fab if I'm not attracted to the person who's sent it I'm not going to be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself. I only reply to messages that come from guys i like the look of so it really doesn't matter if you send the perfect message, i won't reply if i don't want to throw you on the bed "

THIS!!! (^_^)

I always thought this. On dating sites 90% of the time it doesnt matter how good your first message is, it's irrelvant if the guy or gal doesn't find you attractive at a first glance

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