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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i recently met a couple at a non-swinging party, and i have to say, it nearly turned out like one. i got talking to a lady for most the night, who seemed to be attracted to my soft voice and congruence. she was very sexy, and though i respected she was with her fella and friends, she was very overly flirty. i didn't take the bait, and her fella watched closely all night. later on she came over and said she would be leaving soon, and kissed my cheek whilst placing her leg against my groin, and asking if i wanted her number. i declined and said your fella looks a nice guy, and maybe she should go and keep him company. long story short, i was very proud that i never made an idiot of me and her fella, though my mates(some girls also) now slate me for it. i repsect couples who swing, and i wont stray over to couples that clearly dont. pat on the back for me i think haha.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

New Years Honours have already been given out so you too late for an OBE

but I think you did the right thing so RESPECT to you sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like they wanted you to take the bate and were swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i recently met a couple at a non-swinging party, and i have to say, it nearly turned out like one. i got talking to a lady for most the night, who seemed to be attracted to my soft voice and congruence. she was very sexy, and though i respected she was with her fella and friends, she was very overly flirty. i didn't take the bait, and her fella watched closely all night. later on she came over and said she would be leaving soon, and kissed my cheek whilst placing her leg against my groin, and asking if i wanted her number. i declined and said your fella looks a nice guy, and maybe she should go and keep him company. long story short, i was very proud that i never made an idiot of me and her fella, though my mates(some girls also) now slate me for it. i repsect couples who swing, and i wont stray over to couples that clearly dont. pat on the back for me i think haha. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no not at all. her fella was not all that forthcoming. you can usually tell the swingers. or should be able to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what's with the ?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"what's with the ? "

At a guess?

He's trying to work out why you didnt fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thought would be plain to understand by actually reading what i wrote. pummff

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

nah well done you for being able to read the signs so well !

this is the difference between the lifestyles , you flirt with another guys woman in a packed bar then all hell would break loose and then on the other hand a bit of flirting at a swingers club bar and its the norm and accepted,

ok probably stating the obvious but hey

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"thought would be plain to understand by actually reading what i wrote. pummff"

It was plain.

You didnt. But he would have.

And i'm not saying either of you is right or wrong.

Everyone gets to make their own decisions about what they do.

Including the lady in question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i recently met a couple at a non-swinging party, and i have to say, it nearly turned out like one. i got talking to a lady for most the night, who seemed to be attracted to my soft voice and congruence. she was very sexy, and though i respected she was with her fella and friends, she was very overly flirty. i didn't take the bait, and her fella watched closely all night. later on she came over and said she would be leaving soon, and kissed my cheek whilst placing her leg against my groin, and asking if i wanted her number. i declined and said your fella looks a nice guy, and maybe she should go and keep him company. long story short, i was very proud that i never made an idiot of me and her fella, though my mates(some girls also) now slate me for it. i repsect couples who swing, and i wont stray over to couples that clearly dont. pat on the back for me i think haha. "

got any photos of your conguence?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it surprising that you talked for so long but you did not broach the subject gently about their take on relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it surprising people expect a pat on the back for doing the right thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think you need to practice your decoding skills........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok, positive reinforcement is certainly not on the up!

nothing wrong with feeling good about ones self for not acting like most men would of done in the same circumstance. you know,. the same type of men most women type cast across the board.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Credit OP for an original approach to the thorny subject of self-promotion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is your congruence ??

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Pat on the back? What for? For crying out loud, you reckoned she was flirting with you, lovely, it was in a 'vanilla' environment and you really couldn't do much else than walk away. Hey, in every day life, lots of people flirt with each other - I think I'm just used to it so don't take it too seriously! (tongue very firmly in cheek there!). take care. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the lady found you atractive and liked the attention.

Her fella got a "thrill" knowing that his partner was still attractive to the opposite sex.

I think that was it. You read it right. A nice bit of flirting but it was going no further. She was just stoking her fire for later when she got home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Credit OP for an original approach to the thorny subject of self-promotion."

second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your congruence ??

"

stop this incongruence for goodness sakes tch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

claire rayner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

puts away his crystal ball, and pours another cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like they wanted you to take the bate and were swingers"

really?

sounds to me like she was after a bit on the side lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

she was indeed, and most people on here cant seem to grasp that.

her fella was none too pleased, and that was quite apparent for the duration we was in the pub. i did feel a bit awkward, but not as much as i was if i had been completely sober. it was just a happy little moment when i refused to take her on, and felt a little sorry for the guy to be honest. hence i told her to go and give him some attention.

'self promotion' hahaha some sour pusses on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with NN that she was probably looking for a bit on the side!

Perhaps you should carry some business cards in future, to point peeps to this site if and when opportunities present themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to hear her version first.

What is YOUR congruence ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ahhhh a cynic. well if i had taken her number off her,i could of forwarded it to you.haha

its a true event, but nowt so funny as folk!.

business cards eh haha....hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of ravished her, but hey ho I am a tart lol

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