FabSwingers.com forum: Take one for the team

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so I know men do it sometimes (allegedly) but would a woman do it or would you walk away? I've walked before ( well ran, he looked like Freddie Kruger)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done a few

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done a few

were you just too nice to say no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty shallow so don't think i could do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got me don't have a clue what you're going on about so airing on the side of caution don't do it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Nope wouldn't "take one for the team" ... I want to have sexy fun not be trying to imagine they're someone else

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allways thought about that. If a guy pays for a hotel then meets the lady and she aint what he was expecting. Would he still fuck her or end the meet

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I play solo so I get to choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done a few

were you just too nice to say no?"

Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .

And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .

So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done a few

were you just too nice to say no?

Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .

And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .

So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear .....

That made me laugh, sorry! I love how liberated you are

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By *om and kellyCouple
over a year ago

dundee

We have in the past each taken one when the other has been keen to play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've walked away. . Taking 'him' with me,obviously

We'd driven a pretty long way too.

Her. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Attraction is key for both of us.

And there is no need. There are enough couples we are both attracted to that its never been an issue.

-Courtney

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By *emmdaveMan
over a year ago

Kent

When I'm on a meet I'm told I give good date (whatever that means). I don't assume sex. I do assume a good time but if I'm not feeling it I won't go through with it and I wouldn't expect my date to do it either. Sex is as much a mind game as a physical thing. If the two elements aren't working it is likely to be "forgettable" and that's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done a few

were you just too nice to say no?

Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .

And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .

So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear .....

Hahaha... It's a moment of Opps isn't it... X

Yes I will as I enjoy the whole experience and my pure attraction is such a limited band. Also I do not need to be attracted physically to have a good time as part of a group thing. I obviously have my limitations and do refuse people but yes I would x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play solo, but I've still taken a few for the team.

Once I meet someone, I'm often too polite (or gutless) to say if they're hideous.

Turn the lights down and think of England, Cleo.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I play solo, but I've still taken a few for the team.

Once I meet someone, I'm often too polite (or gutless) to say if they're hideous.

Turn the lights down and think of England, Cleo....."

I'm by no means an oil painting, but even I have taken one for the team. Primarily because I didn't want to hurt the lady's feelings, and also as I believe everyone deserves good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done a few

were you just too nice to say no?

Sometimes when dogging , I don't really get to see the people properly .

And despite meeting most people we play with from fab , they aren't always the same in the flesh as a pic shows .

So when we play and it's lighter and I say no , occasionally they say " but it was ok last week " and I think , oh dear .....

Hahaha... It's a moment of Opps isn't it... X

I guess ladies like us and Cleo give everyone a chance huh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did on my old couples account. Just so my ex fb could screw another woman. And hated myself for it afterwards. It wouldn't have been so bad if she had been half decent but she wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this the reason balaclavas still exist?

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I'm pretty shallow so don't think i could do it."

I'm pretty shallow too and I've done it more than once..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is hope for me yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't expect C to 'Take one for the team' and knowing C as I do I'm certain she wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've took one for the team before. Just bend over and use your imagination.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I've took one for the team before. Just bend over and use your imagination.

And possibly some lube...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 charity given in this area. Subjective attraction is for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gross. Why would anyone sleep with someone they didn't want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of how we play, I probably havent seen the faces of at least half the men I have had sex with - my head is usually occupied with men at the other end of the bed!!

The situation and the environment turns me on, if the guys add to it then great!

If we played one on one then I may have a different take on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty shallow so don't think i could do it.

I'm pretty shallow too and I've done it more than once..

Saying that, i've been in 5 relationships and i only found 2 of those guys physically attractive when i first met them. Suppose i could apply that kind of thinking to taking one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha ive done this a few times being on lads holidays and rugby tours they always turn out to be the best laughs and most friendly and in the end they get through all the boys so they do very well in my eyes these not so good looking people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went through with a meet few months back because I was too embarrassed and nice to say that I didn't fancy him

Awful experience

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By *uper GranWoman
over a year ago

Lichfield

"Ok so I know men do it sometimes (allegedly) but would a woman do it or would you walk away? I've walked before ( well ran, he looked like Freddie Kruger)"

I can't run my fast but there is no way I would take one for the team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went through with a meet few months back because I was too embarrassed and nice to say that I didn't fancy him

Awful experience "

Fancy a meet. At night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past

when I first started this I met a guy who looked nothing like his pics, I was new to this and just didn't know how to tell him I didn't want to go back to his hotel, so I went through with it, soon as he had finished I got dressed and legged it, I hated myself after for just not saying but I felt awkward when put on the spot

I wouldn't do it now, I guess you toughen up with time

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

Really couldn't put it anywhere so I'd have to politely say no then run lol x

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over a year ago

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

When we were fresh out of the box we had a meet at our home and the couple looked nothing like their profile pics. She went to the loo, as soon as she left the room, he practically grabbed Jacky's hand and said "Come on, let's get cracking" and with that, they went upstairs to the bedroom. She reappeared from the loo, and appeared surprised to find her partner gone. That made for an awkward evening and when I suggested going upstairs she said "No" twice. It was only when I said it was a separate room that she agreed.

Difficult evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm,note taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the sound of you x lol

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

There's no I in team......

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

"When we were fresh out of the box we had a meet at our home and the couple looked nothing like their profile pics. She went to the loo, as soon as she left the room, he practically grabbed Jacky's hand and said "Come on, let's get cracking" and with that, they went upstairs to the bedroom. She reappeared from the loo, and appeared surprised to find her partner gone. That made for an awkward evening and when I suggested going upstairs she said "No" twice. It was only when I said it was a separate room that she agreed.

Difficult evening."

I rest my case for always having a social meeting somewhere first...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said sync. A social first every time!

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

"I rest my case for always having a social meeting somewhere first...lol"

Oddly enough, always a social first since....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away xx

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We've never taken one for the team as it's usually me 'taking' and he joins in

'Him' has sometimes told me that I won't be playing with a particular someone as he doesn't like them or they've said something wrong etc. I always do as Him tells me single guy wise, as it's for US not just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Social first in future then!

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster

"We've never taken one for the team as it's usually me 'taking' and he joins in

I'd love to be considered xx

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