FabSwingers.com forum: where do you prefer to meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering do people prefer to meet at clubs,at home , or out

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Hotels or club. Neutral Venues...

Less pressure all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pubs.

It's a giggle with the locals pretending not to be listening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my place or theirs

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Clubs.

I love the social aspect and if I'm feeling greedy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pubs definitely more relaxed also the sense of naughtiness ????????

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Clubs.

I love the social aspect and if I'm feeling greedy.....

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always out,never at home

Always a club if I've never met the person before,clubs or hotels with people I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels for me when i meet alone. Hubby doesn't like hotels so that narrows down our options to clubs.....or someone else's house. Never at home

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By *hyguyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Pubs.

It's a giggle with the locals pretending not to be listening. "

OMG was that why everyone in the pub was standing quietly near us at my last pub meet

Am personally happy to meet at clubs, pubs or where ever is suggested by the couple I'm meeting

.. But from now on will remember to speak quieter and stop mentioning "swinging" loudly and frequently lol

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley

At mine or at yours, though Hotel meets are often very tantalising and erotic.

As a single Male, Clubs are now the last place I'd go - been there, done that and I've discovered that I much prefer the intimacy of more private get-togethers...

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

McDonalds.I like to impress...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paralia Beach Bar in Cap D'Agde.. a chilled ber at the end of a long hot sunny day.. serious grooves from the DJ and a little naked dancing.. doesn't get any better...

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Pubs. they are fun to get the night started.

Outdoors. nothing like a bit of kink in the woods.

Hotels. really good fun for relaxed uninhibited kink.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Clubs - we always have a great time and aren't troubled by timewasters. Once we have got to know people and played with them in a club we will meet in a hotel. The exception to club meets is the beach at Cap d'Agde!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotel room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs - we always have a great time and aren't troubled by timewasters. Once we have got to know people and played with them in a club we will meet in a hotel. The exception to club meets is the beach at Cap d'Agde!"

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We always meet in a pub first

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, but not a pre arranged meet. Going to a club saves time, can see if I'm attracted to someone and hopefully take things further. Whereas, if met in pub/cafe then there's the chance I may not want to go any further.

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By *appypear12Couple
over a year ago

huntingdon

Clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub initially, or ours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs.

I love the social aspect and if I'm feeling greedy.....

This definitely

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Club for us. Planned or unplanned, if you don't click you can move on.

I fancy trying a pub meet but Frisky worries she will feel pressure to play. She knows that the pressure would be in her head.

Also if we go to a pub, don't click, we know we will be gutted that we hadn't gone to a club...

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Club definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home, mine or theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a dark secluded allyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

club

much better

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By *tumpy guyMan
over a year ago

dewsbury

oh my god I can only meet at mine as my profile states lol you will see why if you read it x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *assageGiverMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Pubs are good, no pressure, and delicious naughty fun can be had if all click ????

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Hotels

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"Clubs.

I love the social aspect and if I'm feeling greedy.....

^^ this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clubs.

I love the social aspect and if I'm feeling greedy.....

^^ this ^^"
a hotel for me

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

First couple of times, in a club

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

In a pub or a hotel bar on the first meet would never invite any one to our house or go to there house without meeting them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neutral venue's for us,pubs or cafes for social meets hotels for the fun meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet for social in the pub, and your own place for play much comfy and relaxed. That's how we did it

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Clubs for us. There is less pressure and stress. If people don't turn up or you find out in person that you don't have the right chemistry, then the night is still young and someone else might take your fancy.

Also stops the single men pretending to be a couple as they don't get past the door on a couples only night.

Think we've only been to a club once and not found another cpl to play with. Even then we had fun just using all the beds and overhead mirrors that we don't have at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hotels or clubs for me please

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Always the club for us and don't arrange to meet there...just go with the flow...much more relaxed and no let downs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are our first choice - always some fun to be found and the 3 we go to regularly are so clean, friendly and atmospheric. Occasionally have had hotel or house meet once we know the people well enough- that was pk for a change but was not as sexually charged. Maybe due to the lack of that extra frission of watchers and the random possibilities of other swingers hoping to join in ???

When its a social first meet then a local cafe or bar is a suitable place - feels deliciously naughty discussing sexual preferences and fantasies M xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There's no adult club per se in Brighton and I don't like the idea of outside sex so that leaves people's homes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club xx

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Pub or my place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My place I know its clean, tidy and have all the things needed to feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This for me too

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By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

Never at home. Hotels just in case the others are not very clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering do people prefer to meet at clubs,at home , or out "
oh a club everytime

hugs

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By *expuss2015Woman
over a year ago

Planet Sex

A club for first meets then maybe elsewhere for further meets. I just prefer this way as I feel safer on the first meet and if they weren't what I expected or didn't turn up I can easily find others to have fun with

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