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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious. Lately we have had a few guys that in either messages or on person have proceeded to assure Lee that he will get the best he has ever had when with their partber.

Now that doesn't make me feel interior or anything but I just think if Lee was saying that to other couples I would cringe...it makes me laugh if its in the middle of playing.

But guys if you do it... Do you not realise what your technically saying is my woman is better than yours and can be a bit insulting...

I have actually refused to meet couples that have said things like this on the lead up to a meet

So have you had similar said to you during or before a meet .

What would you do/ say

And why if you say it do you...

For the record I'm crap, so I practice a lot

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Does sound a bit odd.

If it's so great, why do you have to sell it?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was asked if I wanted 'the best blow job ever' and I said no. When the person asked why I said because it would mean all the others ever after would be shit and I didn't want that. Then the person was blocked for being an unimaginative bore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious. Lately we have had a few guys that in either messages or on person have proceeded to assure Lee that he will get the best he has ever had when with their partber.

Now that doesn't make me feel interior or anything but I just think if Lee was saying that to other couples I would cringe...it makes me laugh if its in the middle of playing.

But guys if you do it... Do you not realise what your technically saying is my woman is better than yours and can be a bit insulting...

I have actually refused to meet couples that have said things like this on the lead up to a meet

So have you had similar said to you during or before a meet .

What would you do/ say

And why if you say it do you...

For the record I'm crap, so I practice a lot "
hey they are just trying to sell themselves and not everyone is good at it hopefully actions always speak louder than words oh and do you have good interiors then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to be quite a new thing we are coming across... But has happened a couple of times in the past month.

One couple the guy was even telling Lee while we were trying to swap... I then took it upon myself to keep bringing him the edge and stopping... But I wanted to actually say " I'd best not bother giving you one then as don't want to disappoint" but where as I would have meant it as a take the piss reply there is a risk to it being seen as being mardy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was asked if I wanted 'the best blow job ever' and I said no. When the person asked why I said because it would mean all the others ever after would be shit and I didn't want that. Then the person was blocked for being an unimaginative bore. "

Love that reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked if I wanted 'the best blow job ever' and I said no. When the person asked why I said because it would mean all the others ever after would be shit and I didn't want that. Then the person was blocked for being an unimaginative bore.

Love that reply x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty crass statement to make. Will put that one on the shelf alongside "your loss" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thoughtless and pointless.

How do you even quantify it? Everyone likes different things. No one's wife is 'better' than anyone else's!

When people ask how 'dirty' or kinky I am, on a scale of 1-10, the conversation is over.

No one should wheedle or tout their wife to get meets. Instant turn-off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thoughtless and pointless.

How do you even quantify it? Everyone likes different things. No one's wife is 'better' than anyone else's!

When people ask how 'dirty' or kinky I am, on a scale of 1-10, the conversation is over.

No one should wheedle or tout their wife to get meets. Instant turn-off."

This is my thoughts too... I mean I never expect to be better than someone else's partner as they know them.. although I may have one or two tricks up my sleave x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just sounds creepy to me. Makes me think they're going to kill you afterwards.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple and the guy said to my partner (while I was right there) "my wife will give you the best bj you've ever had". It was one of our first meets and it made me feel a bit shit.

Afterwards my guy said she was too full on with it and almost hurt him so he stopped her mid bj, and that he preferred the way I did it. It made me feel better, even though I knew he maybe was just being tactful.

I realised that of course everyone is different and likes different things. No-one is 'better', just different. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Alabama) have had a few guy's say that and then go on to say my husband will never be able to sayisfy after I've had sex with them!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met a couple and the guy said to my partner (while I was right there) "my wife will give you the best bj you've ever had". It was one of our first meets and it made me feel a bit shit.

Afterwards my guy said she was too full on with it and almost hurt him so he stopped her mid bj, and that he preferred the way I did it. It made me feel better, even though I knew he maybe was just being tactful.

I realised that of course everyone is different and likes different things. No-one is 'better', just different. x"

This is exactly what I mean... And although it doesn't worry me now... If they say it before we meet I actually will say sorry but not for us x if they say it during It depends on the day I've had as to how I deal with it. Luckily so far its been on good days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me laugh when someone says something similar. Just setting themselves up for a fall in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (Alabama) have had a few guy's say that and then go on to say my husband will never be able to sayisfy after I've had sex with them!! "

Oh yes.. had that one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met a couple and the guy said to my partner (while I was right there) "my wife will give you the best bj you've ever had". It was one of our first meets and it made me feel a bit shit.

Afterwards my guy said she was too full on with it and almost hurt him so he stopped her mid bj, and that he preferred the way I did it. It made me feel better, even though I knew he maybe was just being tactful.

I realised that of course everyone is different and likes different things. No-one is 'better', just different. x

This is exactly what I mean... And although it doesn't worry me now... If they say it before we meet I actually will say sorry but not for us x if they say it during It depends on the day I've had as to how I deal with it. Luckily so far its been on good days. "

I'm more confident now because of stuff like this.

I would love to see you tell them on a bad day. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I would love to see you tell them on a bad day. x"

You would hear me from where ever you were...

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