FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with you ! I accept the fact that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and a polite no thank you is fine ! No point in getting arsey about it X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some just don't like rejection. It's best to have a thick skin in this lifestyle as you can't be everyone's cup of tea...we certainly don't get upset when rejected.

We've received some very nasty messages but just delete, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because that's how they get their kicks?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's just swinging - you can't please everyone but there is no need for rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?"

What do you say when you don't fancy them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?

What do you say when you don't fancy them?"

we always say thank you but you are not for us have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expectations.

Maybe they're not used to being rejected.

Maybe they think everyone on this site fucks anything and are now wondering what's wrong with them.

May be just a dickhead.

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By *uper GranWoman
over a year ago

Lichfield

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?"

your choice who you like if others get childish at rejection is their problem and you have avoided someone both unattractive on the inside as well as out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?"

We've never come across this. But then again we don't meet people through Fab as a general rule.

We prefer to meet people at a club and, if they have a Fab account, use that to communicate to arrange future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just figure if they don't fancy me.....

THERES SOMETHING FRICKING WRONG WITH THEM AND THEY NEED TELLING!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The therapy really isn't working for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how you word the rejection, if you just say your not my type its fine lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of asshats around who seem to think the world revolves around them. These people are not worth a second thought, focus on the good egg's.

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I just say not what we're looking for but happy swinging and always get a polite ok thanks for reply back! Some people just can't take rejection on obviously think there gods gift!

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By *uncpl83Couple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"There are a lot of asshats around who seem to think the world revolves around them. These people are not worth a second thought, focus on the good egg's."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immature or lacking self confidence maybe ? Speaks volumes about them as a person though. My fuck buddy just blocks after a polite no thanks, no comeback then.

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

I had this from a couple at the weekend they messaged saying we are looking for a meet could they see photos. I explained that they had already seen them and I wasnt for them after I posted them the last time. Real nasty reply we might off changed our minds was they answer then blocked me. Thing is I hadn't changed my mind. Some people really need a reality check and use the site for what it is a fun sex site

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

No matter how many threads we get on this subject, some people will always be rude and inconsiderate.

They are far outweighed by the lovely and polite ones though. At least we think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter how many threads we get on this subject, some people will always be rude and inconsiderate.

They are far outweighed by the lovely and polite ones though. At least we think so!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?"

We dont we're used to it and just move on. Weve had lots of guys get arsey when u say no though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?

We dont we're used to it and just move on. Weve had lots of guys get arsey when u say no though."

Some people are that far up their own arse they struggle to see daylight

Dont let it phase loads of great people here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?

We dont we're used to it and just move on. Weve had lots of guys get arsey when u say no though.

Some people are that far up their own arse they struggle to see daylight

Dont let it phase loads of great people here."

I wear an ass hat with a light on it so when I'm up my ass I don't need daylight

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Like most things in life the minority spoil it for the majority. Keep having fun and forget about the idiots, concentrate on the genuine ppl

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

It happens to most of us then your a waster just move on

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We don't give it a seconds thought. We're not everyones cup of tea, vice versa, there's no need to be nasty on here, if there's no mutual liking just find a mutual liking elsewhere without the drama.

Him

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No matter how many threads we get on this subject, some people will always be rude and inconsiderate.

They are far outweighed by the lovely and polite ones though. At least we think so!

Yup we agree.

We've been very fortunate not to have had any nasty replies to our "sorry but you're not for us" replies.

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Everyone is an individual and has a personal choice to meet or not

However manners cost nothing and simple "thanks bout no thanks" would be polite.

Sadly for a lot on here basic manners is beyond their skill set

What else are the lacking as well ?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?

What do you say when you don't fancy them?"

That's the most important and wise question Scarlet (as always).

Yes it's wrong to be rude when rejected but the way the rejection is being delivered should be taken into consideration too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i get rejected all the time and block so i do not care anymore but i take it with a pich of salt and get on with life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only answer for myself, but if I get a thanks but no thanks, I'll either delete that message and not give it a second thought, or give a quick polite reply saying thanks anyway and good luck...

The only reason I'll block is purely for my own admin, so that someone who is blatantly disinterested doesn't come up in any searches again and I'm then not going to make an arse of myself by sending another message!

Never any need to get petty or vindictive, life's just too short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's rejection..???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's rejection..???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs never gets rejected

if it was not for me being old and ugly we would be fine lol

No we don't get upset when we more me are not there cup of tea and we would prefer them to block us saves us contacting us again

However we have been blocked by people who when they see us at a club want to play maybe my pics are not good then again they may be pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just write "no munters" on your profile. And enjoy plain sailing from there on in....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded?"
you have a right yes but of course people get offended to so they have a right and I have a right to post this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded? you have a right yes but of course people get offended to so they have a right and I have a right to post this

They don't have a right to be offensive which is different to being offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the assumption that because you're on a site like this you will fuck everything. I've been called every name under the sun for saying,politely, thanks but no thanks. With that comes the usual "all single blokes are the same" "you're a fake" and then the block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone especially couples please answer this simple question?

When you don't find someone or a couple attractive why do they get all offensive! Send a nasty message! Then block you!

Surly we have a right to fancy who we like!

Is it just us or are we been narrow minded? you have a right yes but of course people get offended to so they have a right and I have a right to post this

They don't have a right to be offensive which is different to being offended."
showing their disdain in disappointment is a natural reaction my personal shadow pitstop !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never had anyone be nasty to us if we've said no thank you but we do get lots of them message us over and over again asking if we're sure and why not etc that gets annoying!

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