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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

There is a mention in The 4 Hour Body book about this very gentle technique. Our lass went through the roof.

Anyone else tried it?

This is the technique and it should be done for no more than 15 minutes with NO GOALS SET.

4. Put your left hand under her buttocks, two fingers under each cheek, with the thumb resting on (not in) the base of the entrance to the vagina (ring of introitus). This will act as an anchor and help the woman to relax.

5. Imagine you are looking directly at the clitoris from between her legs, with the top of the clitoris as 12 o’clock on a clock face. Find 1:00 P.M.—ideally a small indentation or pocket between the hood and her clitoris—with your right hand’s index finger and begin stroking using the lightest touch possible and only 1/16? or so of movement. The tip of the finger is better than the pad, so cut your nails beforehand.

Nicole emphasizes the start: “If I can suggest one thing to the guys: take the time to find the spot. Once you find it, she won’t be able to take more than a very light touch, like brushing satin against her skin.”

Stroke like a metronome at a constant speed for periods of two to three minutes, but feel free to change speed between periods.

Elbow brace variation.

It is not uncommon for the man’s lower back to tire. Fidgeting screws up everything, so I began testing an alternative elbow-brace position.

4. Put your left hand under her buttocks, two fingers under each cheek, with the thumb resting on (not in) the base of the entrance to the vagina (ring of introitus). This will act as an anchor and help the woman to relax.

5. Imagine you are looking directly at the clitoris from between her legs, with the top of the clitoris as 12 o’clock on a clock face. Find 1:00 P.M.—ideally a small indentation or pocket between the hood and her clitoris—with your right hand’s index finger and begin stroking using the lightest touch possible and only 1/16? or so of movement. The tip of the finger is better than the pad, so cut your nails beforehand.

Nicole emphasizes the start: “If I can suggest one thing to the guys: take the time to find the spot. Once you find it, she won’t be able to take more than a very light touch, like brushing satin against her skin.”

Stroke like a metronome at a constant speed for periods of two to three minutes, but feel free to change speed between periods.

Elbow brace variation.

It is not uncommon for the man’s lower back to tire. Fidgeting screws up everything, so I began testing an alternative elbow-brace position.

There is more of course but that is the essence.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just plug in the Wand and give that to her. Miles easier x

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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

Subtle as a brick eh? LOLOL

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This started to read a bit like the instructions for an Ikea wardrobe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This started to read a bit like the instructions for an Ikea wardrobe!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This started to read a bit like the instructions for an Ikea wardrobe!"

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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

As most of can do an Ikea wardrobe then the format is probably not too bad?

Anyway not mine it belongs to Tim Ferris.

L2

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"This started to read a bit like the instructions for an Ikea wardrobe!"

I don't read instructions I just look at the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn..... what time is it on the vagina clock?

Be much easier if yiu rub it 3 times and they grant you 3 wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As most of can do an Ikea wardrobe then the format is probably not too bad?

Anyway not mine it belongs to Tim Ferris.

L2"

Tim needs to get out more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This started to read a bit like the instructions for an Ikea wardrobe!

I don't read instructions I just look at the pictures. "

The pictures are in Swedish!

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By *ouble_CreamCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Ha, loved reading this post as I, myself, just posted on swingers chat a post entitled Orgasmic Meditation with some further website links...basically it's exactly this! Sounds perfect to me! Now just to find the right person to try it with!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Ha, loved reading this post as I, myself, just posted on swingers chat a post entitled Orgasmic Meditation with some further website links...basically it's exactly this! Sounds perfect to me! Now just to find the right person to try it with! "

After reading the OP I just cut my finger nails in preparation.

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By *eachedCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Just plug in the Wand and give that to her. Miles easier x"

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Text book sex

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Text book sex "

Alas not everyone has read the book.

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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

Sadly as many on here have discovered the average male is either unable to or unwilling to read whether to further their own skills or not. Self defeating in spades. LOL

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yawn..... what time is it on the vagina clock?

Be much easier if yiu rub it 3 times and they grant you 3 wishes "

Vagine clock haha!

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By *unlovinguy_68Man
over a year ago

nottingham

You should know what men are like

Never read the instructions

Go arse about tit about

End up taking twice as long as it should've lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should know what men are like

Never read the instructions

Go arse about tit about

End up taking twice as long as it should've lol"

...and then you have to do it yourself anyway when he's gone down the pub in a strop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should know what men are like

Never read the instructions

Go arse about tit about

End up taking twice as long as it should've lol"

Is it a race - I missed that memo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Screw them lot, when are you free L2?? Lol

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By *orders2forU OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hawick

Sadly not for a while as the L2 fem is not too well and we come as a couple.

Did a google earlier and the book is available as a PDF file and the interesting bit starts on page 242.

L2

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By *layne75Couple
over a year ago

New orleans


"Sadly as many on here have discovered the average male is either unable to or unwilling to read whether to further their own skills or not. Self defeating in spades. LOL

L2"

Exactly. Good forbid they take some time to provide some pleasure.

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By *ool11Man
over a year ago

st annes


"You should know what men are like

Never read the instructions

Go arse about tit about

End up taking twice as long as it should've lol

Is it a race - I missed that memo!"

I didn't, and I often win

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By *eally Filthy CoupleCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Got bored after the 3rd sentence and couldn't be bothered to read the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just plug in the Wand and give that to her. Miles easier x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz wake me when your done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got started and it was going well till she noticed the ceiling needs painting...... Arrrggghhhh!!!! x x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Didn't manage to get very far with that. I would have to keep referring to the instructions anyway. Not very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer to use my tongue

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

have tried this tonight and jesus did it work a treat. Mrs was completly out for the count when she came. Usually shes wide awake after orgasm and struggles to sleep. So up from us

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

love this OP..yes had it done and yes it is awesome..

thanks for posting...

we can tell the cavemen from the thread..also great result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the first techniques I learnt! It never fails to please as a starting point. It's all about the moment though

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By *agicfingerslovelyMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Thanks for posting always good to try new techniques with the gf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just plug in the Wand and give that to her. Miles easier x"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh fuck, I've really screwed up on this one. I've been doing metric measurements not imperial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds really good. I have found that a lots of guys think that putting a finger on my clit and wriggling it about abit applying pressure will do it for me and it doesn't!! Might do for some but not me. I actually like mine gently flicked with the tip of a finger like it says in the ops post.

Looks like I'm not abnormal after all

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By *ouble_CreamCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham


"love this OP..yes had it done and yes it is awesome..

thanks for posting...

we can tell the cavemen from the thread..also great result "

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I know a guy on here who actually went to classes to learn about this.. I can't think of anything stranger than going to a class to get my clit played with, but horses for courses and all that!

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