FabSwingers.com forum: Orgasmic Meditation

By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Hi all, ok so over the last few months I've heard quite a bit about Orgasmic Meditation. (You can read about it if you Google turnonbritain or onetaste.us they also have a Facebook page) but essentially It's a meditation practice like yoga or mindfulness where a 'stroker' (male or female) fully clothed repeatedly strokes a woman's clit in the specific place for fifteen minutes while she focuses on the sensation only without the goal of climax (which may or may not happen, but is not the point of it). It's apparently supposed to heighten sexual experience and satisfaction for the long term. At the moment the community of people promoting this in the UK is currently in London only. I wonde_ed if anyone has any 'hands on' experience of this, or has been to any events or just has any thoughts on it. The one other post about this on here that I can find just seems to misunderstand the essence of it as a meditative practice rather than a purely sexual act. I think finding people who are open to the meditation side of this, to deepen sexual experience a bit like Tantra, to try this out with, is potentially difficult...any thoughts anyone!??

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

First I've heard about it but after a little perusing the web, going to check out a workshop on Wednesday.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you ho to a workshop to flick the bean for 15 minutes with no orgasm ?

Might just give that a miss

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By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

"First I've heard about it but after a little perusing the web, going to check out a workshop on Wednesday.

Thanks

Oooh, I'm really jealous now! London isn't that far from me by train, but for a one hour workshop it's a bit of a trek. Would be interested in hearing how you find it if you want to share after Wednesday. Have fun! X

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By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

"So you ho to a workshop to flick the bean for 15 minutes with no orgasm ?

Might just give that a miss

Haha, I do understand where you're coming from, but I think this is my point about it, finding the right people to connect with to go underneath the pure sexual aspect...because yes of course you can do that with anyone anywhere which is why fab is so great. But to access the underlying connection stuff is a different and more vulnerable thing.

Anyway, luckily the world is full of allsorts of things for all the different sorts of people

was just wondering if OM had infiltrated many people in the world of fab yet. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it sounds wonderful. I could really give myself over to that. Would love to hear how people who have experienced it get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you ho to a workshop to flick the bean for 15 minutes with no orgasm ?

Might just give that a miss

Anyway, luckily the world is full of allsorts of things for all the different sorts of people

was just wondering if OM had infiltrated many people in the world of fab yet. X "

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By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

How weird, someone else just posted about this in 'The Lounge' called it 'clitoral tapping'. It must be the day for it! Glad that I'm not the only one interested

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By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

"How weird, someone else just posted about this in 'The Lounge' called it 'clitoral tapping'. It must be the day for it! Glad that I'm not the only one interested

Oops, no they didn't...they posted it in here in 'swingers chat'

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"First I've heard about it but after a little perusing the web, going to check out a workshop on Wednesday.

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I'll let you know

Always interested in different ways to enjoy myself

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Ok...so I went last night to an introductory workshop/initiation.

No practice but group therapy type games (lots of openness about sexuality, American style) before the big sell to go on the day or weekend course.

The technique sounds very interesting, a lot of men would benefit in how to please a woman in a more conside_ed way but whole thing came across a little bit cultish.

Gonna read about it some more before offering up my clit

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By *ilowCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

Have tried this. Was a free session and my partner and i were open to whatever was involved. Found it relaxing but very strange. Laying legs akimbo while him and the teacher looked on. He was only to move his finger a mm either way and both to focus on that spot.

We both came way saying been there tried that and wtf. Never again

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By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Great to hear how you both found it, one ' no never again' and one 'interesting maybe'. Also interesting to hear about the 'cultush' side. Hmmm, I guess one can only know if it's for them by going along themselves. Maybe I should just bite the bullet and give it a crack, what's the worst that can happen... Just never wanting to go again! Not the worst thing in the world! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have.

It is not for either of us, for a variety of reasons, two of which were listing below:

Too cultish

Attracts too many strange men, and women.

But also...if you're curious go check it out...it's not cultish in a dangerous way....

There are loads of sex positive workshops (including Tantra) happening...mostly London centric but not entirely.

PM us if you want some details of other things you might like.

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Have tried this. Was a free session and my partner and i were open to whatever was involved. Found it relaxing but very strange. Laying legs akimbo while him and the teacher looked on. He was only to move his finger a mm either way and both to focus on that spot.

We both came way saying been there tried that and wtf. Never again"

OK.. First guy to get involved. I was thinking that it sounded like very specific caressing. This post I'm replying to is the point where I thought the idea might be missing something. The experience I had, with a make up brush and feather, gently wandering between inner thigh and clitoris, not missing anywhere else that seems to want attention, seemed to be more likely to cause pleasure.

Unashamedly, the intention was to help an orgasm. Terribly selfish of me, I know...

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Yep.

I'm a stroker.

Get in touch. Literally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id cum 3 times in the 15 minutes lol..sounds nice though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgasmic Meditation sounds amazing. And at just $15,000 for a OneTaste coaching certificate, It's a smart career choice for anyone who wants to get paid for fingering women.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I went to a one day workshop with Nicole Daedone in London and did the practice session. Personally it'd help someone like me who struggles to orgasm but can't find a local/regular stroker at Heathrow or up north. Not keen on the hard sell either but having read her book slow sex I think a lot of people might benefit from the practice

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Orgasmic Meditation sounds amazing. And at just $15,000 for a OneTaste coaching certificate, It's a smart career choice for anyone who wants to get paid for fingering women.

OneTaste seems a funny name for fingering...

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

It was us that posted and it got taken down as we quoted the book and author we got it from.

No need to go to a workshop, or join a cult as we read the info and tried it out and she went through the roof.

For more info pm us.

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By *ouble_Cream OP Couple
over a year ago

cheltenham

"It was us that posted and it got taken down as we quoted the book and author we got it from.

No need to go to a workshop, or join a cult as we read the info and tried it out and she went through the roof.

For more info pm us.

L2"

Do you mean your post clitoral tapping got taken down? I can still see it...or do you mean a previous post where you mentioned the name and author?

Anyway, interesting to hear there's a book with the information in .Thank you.

And yes, I really agree with secretly a softie that for those who struggle to orgasm it could be helpful...those who cum easily may be less interested or have less need to seek it out in the first place.....lucky buggers!

Although I guess the suggestion of it all is the same as any meditation method to shut the busy brain down and just concentrate on the sensations instead. Doing a daily meditation like this, is one way of building that up. But like all meditation I guess it could even be effective alone.

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