FabSwingers.com forum: Pic requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone here had requests for pics, with the accompanying ' I just want to see if I'm attracted to you first' line? We appreciate that attraction is important, and a photograph gives you some idea of who you're meeting, but can you get the 'chemistry' by just looking at a picture without actually meeting someone? Or is the send us a pic line just a pic collector chancing his arm?

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"Has anyone here had requests for pics, with the accompanying ' I just want to see if I'm attracted to you first' line? We appreciate that attraction is important, and a photograph gives you some idea of who you're meeting, but can you get the 'chemistry' by just looking at a picture without actually meeting someone? Or is the send us a pic line just a pic collector chancing his arm?

We've had a chemistry one, didnt reply, unslos the next day. As I always say, Why bother? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time!

I put at the end of my profile if asking for face pic first then please have yours attached... Likewise if i was to ask first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a 'normal' dating site that is exactly what I do, I look at the pics and if I think they are attractive to me then I read their profile..its not so easy on here as very few have public face pics..but I do have to be attracted to them physically yes, and if I don't like what they look like I don't believe the chemistry would be there to play..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely ignore requests for pictures if they have instigated the messaging and haven't sent me one

If I've contacted someone then I'm happy to send a picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A picture or a chat on here dont meen a great deal its about meeting someone first only then can you decide if you actually like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I completely ignore requests for pictures if they have instigated the messaging and haven't sent me one

If I've contacted someone then I'm happy to send a picture "

Initial attraction can be found by looking at a picture but for me chemistry is something that is discovered when meeting face to face

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

It might well be a pic collector chancing his arm, but they may also be genuine - you say attraction is important, for some its a necessity. No matter how much chemistry I have with someone, if I am not attracted to them, I won't be doing anything sexual with them. For me at least, attraction and chemistry are mutually inclusive.

Its just the timing of when to ask for a face pic, I like to do it early, but then provide one with my first message anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile and the message to try to see if there is the beginning of a potential interesting connection first before swapping pics. But I get so many requests for pics with no effort put into a communicative message or even a pic of themselves attached! It's rude and I just ignore and delete.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Yep.

I just said OK bye then.

If they aren't happy with the pics I have on show then there are thousands of other profiles on here, I am sure they can find someone more to their liking. I have the pics up that I choose to, I don't take requests, nor do I make them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make it clear on our profile we don't meet without seeing a face pic,we also make it clear we don't send ours.up to others if they want to get in contact,and as you can see from our verification summary,we do ok.

Nobody is under any obligation to do anything on this site they don't feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We make it clear on our profile we don't meet without seeing a face pic,we also make it clear we don't send ours.up to others if they want to get in contact,and as you can see from our verification summary,we do ok.

Nobody is under any obligation to do anything on this site they don't feel comfortable with."

Quite obviously this works for you and thats great, but may I ask why you have made that choice? And what happens if people meet you and decide they are not attracted because they have not seen your face..im just intrigued..and no worries if you don't want to answer

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By *layboy1Man
over a year ago

coventry

Honestly maybe we have to redefine the word attraction. Most of us here have pics of our bits and bodies not faces. So If i like a pic of a nice bum,boobs or pussy on here then im surely attracted to that person. For me Face pics are only to see who im chating with in case of a meet. At the end we only looking foward for great sex session with some1 we barely know.as such face pics are really irrelevant to me.A nice body is good enough for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is under any obligation to do anything on this site they don't feel comfortable with.

To be honest that hasn't happened, yet,if and when it does we will deal with it,we know we can't be attractive to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't think oooouuuufffff to their pic what is the point? If your not attracted to them they can't turn you on surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose if you don't like the look of them and their profile doesn't state "happy to wear a paper bag over head when playing" then it's good to see what people actually look like. I think chemistry is more than physical attraction though, I'd rather have a laugh to be honest but then I'm no oil painting!

We have face pics for friends only so prefer to chat a bit then add a friend. No offence is taken if we get told we aren't what someone's after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose if you don't like the look of them and their profile doesn't state "happy to wear a paper bag over head when playing" then it's good to see what people actually look like. I think chemistry is more than physical attraction though, I'd rather have a laugh to be honest but then I'm no oil painting!

We have face pics for friends only so prefer to chat a bit then add a friend. No offence is taken if we get told we aren't what someone's after. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I wait till I get a face pic. Then, if I like the look of them AND don't recognise them, I return one.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

But yes, guys do ask first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have face pics for friends only so prefer to chat a bit then add a friend. No offence is taken if we get told we aren't what someone's after.

I was replying to the general thread not directly to your comment. We are all different at the end of the day.

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