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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if Males in couples find it difficult. Besides the many many messages from males asking "does she meet alone", do you find it difficult to attract single females. We will both play separate depending on the person but want to be treated as a couple from the start, but it is difficult for me because single females may assume I am cheating or just a man pretending to be a couple, It may be my imagination or lack of sleep and low caffeine levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men pretend to be a couple to get a fuck. Some people don't like that.

Some women won't meet attached guys, whether his partner knows or not.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

The only thing we experience is Mr Law getting ignored when he messages from his single profile and then, perhaps a few weeks later, the couple or single woman he messaged messaging us as a couple - he is the same person, whether he is in a couple or not - yes I get the point that couples and single ladies get loads of messages (I have both of those profiles) but I do find it ironic and make no bones about letting the person know - if you can't bee bothered to show you are civil when he messages you (and his profile verifications clearly show that despite him being a single guy, there is a woman around) then didn't expect us to be civil either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a woman messaged us to say shed like to meet the wife as soon as i said we are a couple we were blocked,it is annoying some times,we also have a specific purpose for being here and we also have males from couples being rude when they find out the wife will only play with their wives,thing like what the point of you being here,your time wasters,although it says what we are after clearly in the first paragraph of our profile, but we just move on

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We get the same in that I don't often play with guys, and we get a fair few messages from guys thinking they are the exception ... for meeting women alone I have a single profile, separate from this one. I guess everyone wants what they want and, to be honest, if we meet at a party or a club, depending on the vibe and how we get on, things may be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In short yes.

Even when we start dialogue with a couple pretty much 99% of the time both are only interested in jools.

Trying to find a single woman who wants to play with a couple but is straight seems to be near on impossible.

I don't want to meet women alone and a mff is not my holy grail, more than happy to let jools have the lion's share of the fun.

However it would be nice to be included and participate now and then.

Tbh

Be happy to meet up with a lady or couple who include me in anything.

Endless messages from guy's who think the word couple actually means single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if Males in couples find it difficult. Besides the many many messages from males asking "does she meet alone", do you find it difficult to attract single females. We will both play separate depending on the person but want to be treated as a couple from the start, but it is difficult for me because single females may assume I am cheating or just a man pretending to be a couple, It may be my imagination or lack of sleep and low caffeine levels. "

Yes. I used to be angry now i just dont bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wont make single profiles as we are a couple been together for over 20years and have no intention of parting company for a fuck ,we either meet as a couple or we just wont meet ,funny how ppl mostly male think they know wot my wife needs,iv been called controlling before but its not my choice its down to the wife i cant make her play with other men and she don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet the male half of a couple regularly with his wives approval and have played with them both on occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet the male half of a couple regularly with his wives approval and have played with them both on occasions "

haha i haven't even had an offer i think all we speak to are after the wife

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Some people will always ignore whatever you say in your profile.

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet the male half of a couple regularly with his wives approval and have played with them both on occasions

haha i haven't even had an offer i think all we speak to are after the wife "

Like I said I had met them a few times together first before solo meets be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wont meet half couples. If your profile says your a couple we expect to meet a couple. If the guy says hes allowed to come alone we always say no. One guy asked and I told him that so he set up a single guy profile claiming he suddennly had her permission to play alone...he got quite narky when we still said no

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

We both get so tired of "couples" who contact us, start a discourse and the say... "Well we will meet your wife, maybe even both of you, but we are going to double-team your wife and you have to just wait in another room"...

Then they block us when we say "NO"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both get so tired of "couples" who contact us, start a discourse and the say... "Well we will meet your wife, maybe even both of you, but we are going to double-team your wife and you have to just wait in another room"...

Then they block us when we say "NO"!"

We would have you visit. You two could double team MY wife while I film you all

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

Sounds like a good idea, but would that not make us hypocrites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a good idea, but would that not make us hypocrites? "

No because its what I want and we look for. Ive no wish to join in on meets I just want to watch and film Emily playing then I have her later while we watch the film together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet the male half of a couple regularly with his wives approval and have played with them both on occasions

haha i haven't even had an offer i think all we speak to are after the wife

Like I said I had met them a few times together first before solo meets be patient "

no need i wouldn't meet without her i was just saying that its the wife that most are looking to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing we experience is Mr Law getting ignored when he messages from his single profile and then, perhaps a few weeks later, the couple or single woman he messaged messaging us as a couple - he is the same person, whether he is in a couple or not - yes I get the point that couples and single ladies get loads of messages (I have both of those profiles) but I do find it ironic and make no bones about letting the person know - if you can't bee bothered to show you are civil when he messages you (and his profile verifications clearly show that despite him being a single guy, there is a woman around) then didn't expect us to be civil either. "

Yep, I get that my "singles" account gets 100's of hits. My couples next to none. I'm the same person. But when were out as a couple plenty of action.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have never had a message asking if C plays alone from men.

We have had it a few times from single women, though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never had a single female ask but have blocked a couple of males for asking.

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