FabSwingers.com forum: offering money

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just us or is there a hell of a lot more guys offering cash to fuck recently,?

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Weirdly we got offered cash this afternoon!!

Wtf was my initial thought then reported and blocked them, and it was a couples profile too

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Must be something in the air tonight had 2 offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think these guys are either on the wrong site or don't understand the concept of swinging.

Either way blocking and reporting is the best way to deal with them.

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By *unky mikeMan
over a year ago

kilburn

Funny a few women ask me to fuck dem for cash 2 lol I said yes

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Whores

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

There a fair amount of adult workers on this site that just use this for fun, those people offering money are definitely on the wrong site.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Whores"

Now now, no need for that... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm poor, why aren't they messaging me?!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We have been asked but never offed

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Nope, never happened to me oddly enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its pretty much a daily occurrence now, I,ve stopped reporting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone offer me cash recently, but that was to stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood paying for company (sex or otherwise)

I recognise that certain circumstances lead to 'desperate' measures.

I also understand that for some, there may be an element of kink or fetish to paying others to meet you.

That said, if I am with someone, I want to know that they are there because they want to be there, because they like me, because they enjoy my company or because they find me attractive.

A monetary transaction just wipes all that away. Everything seems false. That is not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got offered money...blocked and reported...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really ??? not getting any free offers so the likelihood of a cash offer would be pretty miniscule indeed hey Ho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just us or is there a hell of a lot more guys offering cash to fuck recently,?"
no-one has ever offered me it I'm jealous now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling very left out I haven't been offered money what am I doing wrong x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Well .... how much is the going rate ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well .... how much is the going rate .... "
£2.50 an hour

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

I regularly get cash offers, largest was £5000 just to play with my boobs and take a few photos. Needless to say reported, blocked and moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never understood paying for company (sex or otherwise)

I recognise that certain circumstances lead to 'desperate' measures.

I also understand that for some, there may be an element of kink or fetish to paying others to meet you.

That said, if I am with someone, I want to know that they are there because they want to be there, because they like me, because they enjoy my company or because they find me attractive.

A monetary transaction just wipes all that away. Everything seems false. That is not attractive."

If an arrangement between consenting adult has a monetary element there could be lots of valid reasons for that transaction none of which are desperate.

When coercion or trafficking is involved that quite simply is abhorrent and requires the involvement of the authorities.

I agree with some of the respondents that this particular site should not be used for monetary exchanges but it happens in an environment where sex is the main intention or objective.

I was recently asked to pay £40 towards the cost of a hotel room, as it seems so were six other chaps judging by the verifications. I was not aware that a travel tavern (shall we say) charged £240 per night for a standard room? So the "payment" issue has various themes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I have never been offered money/payment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stunt cock available for immediate start good rates (free) " worth a punt ? Lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Everytime someone offers me money, I report them. Sometimes the site administrators do something about it; sometimes they don't

I find it insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never understood paying for company (sex or otherwise)

I recognise that certain circumstances lead to 'desperate' measures.

I also understand that for some, there may be an element of kink or fetish to paying others to meet you.

That said, if I am with someone, I want to know that they are there because they want to be there, because they like me, because they enjoy my company or because they find me attractive.

A monetary transaction just wipes all that away. Everything seems false. That is not attractive.

If an arrangement between consenting adult has a monetary element there could be lots of valid reasons for that transaction none of which are desperate.

Hence why I used 'desperate' not desperate

I was looking for a better way to put it, but in the absence of caffeine in my day so far, it was the best I could come up with

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

"Feeling very left out I haven't been offered money what am I doing wrong x"

I hate to see anyone feeling sad and left out. I'll start the bidding at £0.50 + a packet of crisps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can point to three "private parties" currently being advertised where contributions of varying amounts are being asked for to cover costs of accommodation, food and drinks. Is that not paying for sex? I am not suggesting these get together are profit making for one minute but at £35 contribution for couples and £50 for single men that is a hell of a lot Pringles and tesco gin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I report people for reporting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeling very left out I haven't been offered money what am I doing wrong x

I hate to see anyone feeling sad and left out. I'll start the bidding at £0.50 + a packet of crisps!

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salt and vinegar and a can of tizer and you have a deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whores"

Who is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its pretty much a daily occurrence now, I,ve stopped reporting them."

Nobodys ever offered me any money lol!!!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

never offered money for sex, but had a few "will pay you to strip while I photo you" offers, just blocked those, vaguely creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had someone offer me cash recently, but that was to stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy offer to pay me to skype with him. Just reported him and blocked him.

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By *um and get it.Couple
over a year ago

Spalding

No such luck here.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just you. I've never been offered money for sex. Dint know if o should be sad or happy about that lol

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

"Feeling very left out I haven't been offered money what am I doing wrong x

I hate to see anyone feeling sad and left out. I'll start the bidding at £0.50 + a packet of crisps!

salt and vinegar and a can of tizer and you have a deal "

Now you are just pushing your luck. Salt and vinegar I can agree to, but it'll have to be a glass of tap water!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can point to three "private parties" currently being advertised where contributions of varying amounts are being asked for to cover costs of accommodation, food and drinks. Is that not paying for sex? I am not suggesting these get together are profit making for one minute but at £35 contribution for couples and £50 for single men that is a hell of a lot Pringles and tesco gin!"

I think this is different but without full knowledge of the parties you refer to its hard to justify, but some private parties food and drinks are provided, some also provide lubs and condoms and dont forget the washing of all the sheets and towels if provided so in this instance your paying to use the facilities not actually paying for sex as in some instances you wont get sex.

Paying upfront a fee just to fuck a perso is wrong especially o a swinger site

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

"I had someone offer me cash recently, but that was to stay away

Join the club bud, I'm still trying to overturn the restraining order, the ungrateful buggers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how these threads get people hinting they would accept payment.

*Advertising feature alert*

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

I thought a woman on here was offering me two shags for the price of one...but when I re read her message carefully she really was telling me to bog off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paying upfront a fee just to fuck a perso is wrong especially o a swinger site"
The fact is a fee for sex is involved. Would you expect to pay for attending a vanilla party?

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By *orethancurvesWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

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By *orethancurvesWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I thought a woman on here was offering me two shags for the price of one...but when I re read her message carefully she really was telling me to bog off..

Hahahaha! Oh that just made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny how these threads get people hinting they would accept payment.

*Advertising feature alert*"
I cannot see who is dropping those hints? The majority of respondents are quite vociferous in condemning the practice of charging on what is a recreational sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

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and your point is?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

offering sex in return for recompense comes in many guises in swinging.

if people didn't offer, people wouldn't accept

if people didn't accept, people may not offer

chicken and egg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just us or is there a hell of a lot more guys offering cash to fuck recently,?"

i think its because we have a lot of members also on that A W site maybe the men get confused xxx

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

and your point is?"
I think the Op asked a question about whether people had been offered money for sex and the lady answered the question

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yes had this twice felt sleazy and a bit creepy to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeling very left out I haven't been offered money what am I doing wrong x

I hate to see anyone feeling sad and left out. I'll start the bidding at £0.50 + a packet of crisps!

salt and vinegar and a can of tizer and you have a deal "
I have the salt and the vinegar but damn it no tizer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny how these threads get people hinting they would accept payment.

*Advertising feature alert* I cannot see who is dropping those hints? The majority of respondents are quite vociferous in condemning the practice of charging on what is a recreational sex site?"
My light hearted response is in no way an implication I would accept money. If I wanted to ask for money I would think this site would be a bad choice. Like joining Facebook when you wanted to buy stocks and shares

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By *orethancurvesWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

and your point is?"

My point is nothing. I was adding to the replys about who has been offered.

Your point in being rude is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they're paying for their half of the hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was offered money last week to post a pair of my worn panties... I politely declined his offer and blocked him lol. He was offering £4000!!! Ha ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened quite a few times .

We don't report , we just block .

Some guys we know have paid women on here , and certain women are quite upfront about what they are doing . It's a shame , but that's life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regularly get cash offers, largest was £5000 just to play with my boobs and take a few photos. Needless to say reported, blocked and moved on

5k??? I'd let him play with whatever he wanted for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes offered money a couple of times

Just ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, we have also been offered cash. i find it quite flattering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

and your point is?

My point is nothing. I was adding to the replys about who has been offered.

Your point in being rude is?"
I was not being intentionally rude I was just asking what your point was in the debate as your statement was inconclusive? Apologies if you thought me rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny how these threads get people hinting they would accept payment.

*Advertising feature alert* I cannot see who is dropping those hints? The majority of respondents are quite vociferous in condemning the practice of charging on what is a recreational sex site?"

There's loads dropping hints.

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

"Funny how these threads get people hinting they would accept payment.

*Advertising feature alert* I cannot see who is dropping those hints? The majority of respondents are quite vociferous in condemning the practice of charging on what is a recreational sex site?

There's loads dropping hints. "

Any woman can have me if she brings a good supply of Lindt chocolate balls!

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By *orethancurvesWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

and your point is?

My point is nothing. I was adding to the replys about who has been offered.

Your point in being rude is? I was not being intentionally rude I was just asking what your point was in the debate as your statement was inconclusive? Apologies if you thought me rude."

Yes u were being rude. Have u asked anyone else who posted a reply what there point was cause quite a few also havent given a "conclusion" to there post either.

If myself and someone else hadnt of stuck up for me then i doubt u would have appologised for your rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

and your point is?

My point is nothing. I was adding to the replys about who has been offered.

Your point in being rude is? I was not being intentionally rude I was just asking what your point was in the debate as your statement was inconclusive? Apologies if you thought me rude.

Yes u were being rude. Have u asked anyone else who posted a reply what there point was cause quite a few also havent given a "conclusion" to there post either.

If myself and someone else hadnt of stuck up for me then i doubt u would have appologised for your rudeness."

He wasn't being rude he was just asking a simple question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message the other day from a guy offering to sort out a gangbang for me. Said he organises a serviced apartment, would pay for my travel in a luxary car and then pay me for my time.

So can only guess that when he does that he charges the guys for attending the gangbang.

i forgot to ask how much id get for my time tho damn.

and your point is?

My point is nothing. I was adding to the replys about who has been offered.

Your point in being rude is? I was not being intentionally rude I was just asking what your point was in the debate as your statement was inconclusive? Apologies if you thought me rude.

Yes u were being rude. Have u asked anyone else who posted a reply what there point was cause quite a few also havent given a "conclusion" to there post either.

If myself and someone else hadnt of stuck up for me then i doubt u would have appologised for your rudeness."
then we agree to disagree!

The apology stands if you don't accept it that your prerogative

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

we have not been offered cash, mind you i suppose we probably too old to attract the affluent members who can pick and chose lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have not been offered cash, mind you i suppose we probably too old to attract the affluent members who can pick and chose lol

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look just so you don't feel out of it I offer you cash ,pat and johnny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 2/3 people ( couples ) say they are only happy to meet if I make a ' payment offer - new shoes etc ' to the women...

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Well .... how much is the going rate .... "

He offered us £100

We'd be rich if we got offered that much for every time we had sex and deffo into the thousands every day lol

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"I was offered money last week to post a pair of my worn panties... I politely declined his offer and blocked him lol. He was offering £4000!!! Ha ha ha x"

I would happily send someone my soiled gruds for four grand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had 2/3 people ( couples ) say they are only happy to meet if I make a ' payment offer - new shoes etc ' to the women..."
This quite a regular occurrence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get offered money and just block and report.

I also had some guy offer to send me lingerie in exchange for pictures "but I would need your address"... Just blocked him.

I know a few guys who have got chatting to women and then been sent a link to an online "wishlist" and been asked to select a gift before the woman will agree to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not only guys...some women want money before they meet

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Been offered money a few times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy message,saying he would pay to meet us,I kindly told him where to stick it..think he misunderstood..

blocked

Her

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"There a fair amount of adult workers on this site that just use this for fun "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Offering or asking for money for sex is not allowed so the best thing to do is report it and let Admin do their stuff

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