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By *eally Filthy Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I feel for you there. I know how it feels to be discriminated when reading "no indians" but its their personal preference and they have made preferences clear which is not wrong. But its not right for people to question or have a go because of your preferences.

Chin up

Xx

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report any abuse to admin and block them.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"Report any abuse to admin and block them."

Well said.. xx and i agree

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because some may hide their 'hate' behind preferences and people react wrongly to it....

now before the 'outraged' circle, I did say some and may and if you don't do that.... I am not meaning you

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ? "

VWE Black guys = BBC; please use correct nomenclature

I bet the people who are criticising have their own preferences too. It may be that your preference excludes them and that makes them angry

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By *eally Filthy Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ?

VWE Black guys = BBC; please use correct nomenclature

I bet the people who are criticising have their own preferences too. It may be that your preference excludes them and that makes them angry "

Nomenclawhat??????

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ?

VWE Black guys = BBC; please use correct nomenclature

I bet the people who are criticising have their own preferences too. It may be that your preference excludes them and that makes them angry

Nomenclawhat?????? "
....wording....

Don't worry about it. Loads of people say no bi guys or married men or folk from Brighton. It's the way it is.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ?

VWE Black guys = BBC; please use correct nomenclature

I bet the people who are criticising have their own preferences too. It may be that your preference excludes them and that makes them angry

Nomenclawhat?????? ....wording....

Don't worry about it. Loads of people say no bi guys or married men or folk from Brighton. It's the way it is. "

Well, the rest I cannot understand but can about the folk from Brighton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ? "

I sympathise, why cant couples and married or attached women take the hint, I'm not desperate, I'm actually doing very well thank you very much, Stick with the 'any hole a goal' brigade, I'm not a fucking member ok !!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You're perfectly within your rights to choose who you spend time with.

As has been said, if someone is being abusive then report the profile to Admin.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ? "

People often get offended when other people's preference will exclude them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preference for blackmen and dont get negativity, abuse and very little critism in private messages

I read your profile can't see anything about wanting bbc, you have written well endowed, that's a white man's thrase so mite attract whitemen

negativity attracts negativity in profiles

Everybody is entitled to their preferences, can't say I take alot of notice about what other people think, I know what I want,I am very clear on my profile in a positive way

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By *eally Filthy Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I have a preference for blackmen and dont get negativity, abuse and very little critism in private messages

I read your profile can't see anything about wanting bbc, you have written well endowed, that's a white man's thrase so mite attract whitemen

negativity attracts negativity in profiles

Everybody is entitled to their preferences, can't say I take alot of notice about what other people think, I know what I want,I am very clear on my profile in a positive way

"

That's a valid point about stating BBC on the profile. Pics of me getting gangbanged by 4 BBCs are a bit of a giveaway though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can fuck anyone you want!

( consenting adults )

Why do you care what other people think!?

Happy swinging x

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By *angermiceCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

well said OP we get te odd bit of abuse re our 100% soft swing preferences we understand its not for everyone and we are very cool with that BUT why give us a hard time just because we feel differently lol anyway takes all sorts eh lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people respect preferences. I currently have a preference for VWE black guys. That's my personal choice isn't it ? Part of being on a site like this is to fulfil fantasies and that's all I am doing ? Don't see why people should think it's ok to criticise or abuse us for that do you ? "

This isn't directed at the OP, but too many people are rude and even aggressive about their preferences and their right to have their preferences.

As with a he'll of a lot of things on Fab; it's not what you mean or say or think, but how you communicate it.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I have a preference for blackmen and dont get negativity, abuse and very little critism in private messages

I read your profile can't see anything about wanting bbc, you have written well endowed, that's a white man's thrase so mite attract whitemen

negativity attracts negativity in profiles

Everybody is entitled to their preferences, can't say I take alot of notice about what other people think, I know what I want,I am very clear on my profile in a positive way

That's a valid point about stating BBC on the profile. Pics of me getting gangbanged by 4 BBCs are a bit of a giveaway though "

There's also pics of you playing with a white penis, it maybe your FB but not all read profiles, I have and I'm 'assuming' it indeed is your FB but I don't know for sure. I do think if you put in your profile exactly who you're looking for you will attract those people but you'll always get contact from those who don't fit your criteria, that's part and parcel of fab.

Enjoy the site.

Him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others said it's good to have a preference but make it clear so you may not have to suffer much abuse easily.

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