FabSwingers.com forum: HELP

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Charming!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This ought to be interesting.

*sits back, relaxes. waits*

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

report and block.

prob not good idea posting their message on here tho.

and think yourself lucky... you had a narrow escape with them

good luck for the future

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"report and block.

prob not good idea posting their message on here tho.

and think yourself lucky... you had a narrow escape with them

good luck for the future"

Sometimes, you are just NO fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was me i would just report delete and block

on the other hand i may want to take a leaf out of their book and create a fake profile arrange a meet and kick the shit out of him

both work for me

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

you can open their message again and report it from there. You dont have to open their profile

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

When you open the message on the right hand side is a little word report, click on that and you can then send a message to admin explaining what is the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe he was on his period

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them to fab ......... show fab the letter then fingers crossed thay are banded from the site so no others will get this ........ lets face it thay are having One of them Bad hair days .... dont go taking it to heat you get all sorts on sites like this ..... move on..... and smile xxxxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"report and block.

prob not good idea posting their message on here tho.

and think yourself lucky... you had a narrow escape with them

good luck for the future

Sometimes, you are just NO fun."

my sensible head takes over.

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By *athnBobCouple
over a year ago

sandwell

probably a total loser of a single guy who doubles his weight when he gets wet in the shower.

I now some REALLY nasty people and the truth be told they never threaten (apart from a "watch yourself"). They don't need to.

Report, block and forget

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

be reassured tho... when he was typing the violent talk, he was wanking himself silly. Better than a Guy Ritchie movie to him..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report them to fab ......... show fab the letter then fingers crossed thay are banded from the site so no others will get this ........ lets face it thay are having One of them Bad hair days .... dont go taking it to heat you get all sorts on sites like this ..... move on..... and smile xxxxx

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HEART god my spelling and i have not had a drink , lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why would you go through all that effort when someone just tried to pay you and your partner a compliment?!

Some people here can be soooo uptight!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well all the above advice is correct,report the profile to admin

Ive had to take of the original post as its not a good idea to post contents of private messages on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be reassured tho... when he was typing the violent talk, he was wanking himself silly. Better than a Guy Ritchie movie to him.."
do you know you could be right wanking silly some people do get off on all sorts i know here lol wish i had said that here ,, spot on i bet , x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Harumph.

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Ok fair enough, and thanks.

Could I have just editted it?

I will try the reporting process now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"probably a total loser of a single guy who doubles his weight when he gets wet in the shower.

I now some REALLY nasty people and the truth be told they never threaten (apart from a "watch yourself"). They don't need to.

Report, block and forget"

Oh no. You are not pinning this on a single guy! lol.

Yep, it was a couple. They can be assholes too!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Oh no. You are not pinning this on a single guy! lol.

Yep, it was a couple. They can be assholes too!

High Five!

I'm getting to like you bud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok fair enough, and thanks.

Could I have just editted it?

I will try the reporting process now"
Can tell us how you get on ,, sure lots here will help if you cant sort it x

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yeah, sorry, I have reported them now.

I just hope that nothing bad has happened to anyone else they have spoken too.......

Is that as dark as it gets on here, or have people heard of people being worse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, sorry, I have reported them now.

I just hope that nothing bad has happened to anyone else they have spoken too.......

Is that as dark as it gets on here, or have people heard of people being worse?"
its right what _iew said he could be wanking over that. You get all sorts here some have hang-ups and take it out on others ... its not right people should do that as we are here not for that but for fun and making new friends .. So far i have not had this but first thing i would do is report and block .

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Yeah, sorry, I have reported them now.

I just hope that nothing bad has happened to anyone else they have spoken too.......

Is that as dark as it gets on here, or have people heard of people being worse? its right what _iew said he could be wanking over that. You get all sorts here some have hang-ups and take it out on others ... its not right people should do that as we are here not for that but for fun and making new friends .. So far i have not had this but first thing i would do is report and block ."

Well yeah, that's why I signed up. For abit of fun, some sex, and to meet some new friends. But I must be doing something drastically wrong, as I have got none of the above so far, and a couple of offensive messages for no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Just looked at your profile lots here dont like reading loads and like to look at pics first before thay read most of the time . May help getting 2 or 3 more pics..

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

yeah, I do want to get some more public pictures up, but I just dont have any that I think are suitable, I need someone to help me take some more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, sorry, I have reported them now.

I just hope that nothing bad has happened to anyone else they have spoken too.......

I just looked at your profile, not everyone on here has a short attention span or need pictures to help them. Your profile reflects you, you're not asking for advice on it so there's no need to change it.

People on site are not psychotic, they're unlikely to send you abusive messages for no reason I'd have thought.

Just make sure you're contacting people who are looking for you so you don't annoy them.

Good luck!

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

People on site are not psychotic, they're unlikely to send you abusive messages for no reason I'd have thought.

Just make sure you're contacting people who are looking for you so you don't annoy them.

Good luck!"

The details were taken off by the mod's, which I can understand. But basically, I sent a message to a couple who were looking for a guy along the lines off 'Hi and wow, she looks stunning. I'm sure you won't have any difficulty in finding the meet you're after'. I wasn't too direct, as I am quite a distance away. But I am more than happy to travel, so was really just registering my interest. So of the respondents above actually saw the message they sent back, and it was very abusive and completely un-called for. I don't send messages to wind people up, and if they aren't interested, my message normally gets deleted, and that will be that. This one was just WAY over the top. I know most people on here aren't psychotic, but I think whoever sent me this message was an exception to that lol.

Thanks for your response though

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Well yeah, that's why I signed up. For abit of fun, some sex, and to meet some new friends. ("

Urgh! You fucking sicko!

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Well yeah, that's why I signed up. For abit of fun, some sex, and to meet some new friends. (

Urgh! You fucking sicko!

I know, I'm such a bad man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im confused, was there more to this message that i can see, perhaps he wrote it in invisible ink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im confused, was there more to this message that i can see, perhaps he wrote it in invisible ink

lol I think we were too late to read it before it was obviously removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt see it either, Im assuming the original post has been taken off, reading between the lines it was a copy and pasted message received I think - bloody hell I hope it wasnt mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no. You are not pinning this on a single guy! lol.

Yep, it was a couple. They can be assholes too!

High Five!

I'm getting to like you bud!

High five back. Don't want to leave you hanging!

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

it wasn't a copy and pasted message I sent, I don't do those.

I'm not too convinced it was a copy and pasted one I received either....but yeah, the orignal post with the message in it was deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im confused, was there more to this message that i can see, perhaps he wrote it in invisible ink

lol I think we were too late to read it before it was obviously removed"

15th post explains it all ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im confused, was there more to this message that i can see, perhaps he wrote it in invisible ink

lol I think we were too late to read it before it was obviously removed

15th post explains it all ladies

xx"

yeah I noticed lol still would have liked to have seen the original post though

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"it wasn't a copy and pasted message I sent, I don't do those.

I'm not too convinced it was a copy and pasted one I received either....but yeah, the orignal post with the message in it was deleted"

Nah, mate. I think they mean that you copied and pasted the PM you received here. Not that you copied and pasted the message you sent them, nor that their reply was a copy and paste job either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im confused, was there more to this message that i can see, perhaps he wrote it in invisible ink

lol I think we were too late to read it before it was obviously removed

15th post explains it all ladies

yeah I noticed lol still would have liked to have seen the original post though"

Ooohh... Voyeure...

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By *ominantPerv85Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"it wasn't a copy and pasted message I sent, I don't do those.

I'm not too convinced it was a copy and pasted one I received either....but yeah, the orignal post with the message in it was deleted

Nah, mate. I think they mean that you copied and pasted the PM you received here. Not that you copied and pasted the message you sent them, nor that their reply was a copy and paste job either."

oh right, and yeah, thats correct

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didnt see it either, Im assuming the original post has been taken off, reading between the lines it was a copy and pasted message received I think - bloody hell I hope it wasnt mine

Been sending nasty emails, hmmmmm?

I doubt it. It was pretty mean.

Well, whether he fit their criteria or not is irrelevant. There's no need for nasty emails. If you're not interested, politely decline or delete. If you feel harassed, report it and let the site operators investigate. simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on site are not psychotic, they're unlikely to send you abusive messages for no reason I'd have thought.

Just make sure you're contacting people who are looking for you so you don't annoy them.

Good luck!

Thanks for your response though

Hmmmm...from what you say he seems to have taken offence at your approach. I think, for future reference, if your contacting a couple tailor your message to BOTH of them!

You're not admiring Farmer Giles' prize heifer but a man's wife.

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People on site are not psychotic, they're unlikely to send you abusive messages for no reason I'd have thought.

Just make sure you're contacting people who are looking for you so you don't annoy them.

Good luck!

Thanks for your response though

Hmmmm...from what you say he seems to have taken offence at your approach. I think, for future reference, if your contacting a couple tailor your message to BOTH of them!

You're not admiring Farmer Giles' prize heifer but a man's wife.

Just a thought!"

I agree with addressing both members of a couple but he still meant no harm and it didn't warrant such a reply.

We all recieve nasty emails/emails that we don't want but that's what the delete and block button is for.

Besides, he was trying to pay a compliment. No offence was intended.

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By *teve196301Man
over a year ago

northumberland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on site are not psychotic, they're unlikely to send you abusive messages for no reason I'd have thought.

Just make sure you're contacting people who are looking for you so you don't annoy them.

Good luck!

Thanks for your response though

Hmmmm...from what you say he seems to have taken offence at your approach. I think, for future reference, if your contacting a couple tailor your message to BOTH of them!

You're not admiring Farmer Giles' prize heifer but a man's wife.

Just a thought!

I agree with addressing both members of a couple but he still meant no harm and it didn't warrant such a reply.

We all recieve nasty emails/emails that we don't want but that's what the delete and block button is for.

Besides, he was trying to pay a compliment. No offence was intended.

I agree: I don't think the OP meant any disrespect, but the couple obviously did take offence.

Personally, if I were the wife I'd have just blocked him, but we don't know how many crass messages they'd trawled through and the OP's message was the one that broke the camels back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it wasn't a copy and pasted message I sent, I don't do those.

I'm not too convinced it was a copy and pasted one I received either....but yeah, the orignal post with the message in it was deleted

Nah, mate. I think they mean that you copied and pasted the PM you received here. Not that you copied and pasted the message you sent them, nor that their reply was a copy and paste job either."

Oy stop confusing us trying to make out you men and intelligent, good grief whatever next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on site are not psychotic, they're unlikely to send you abusive messages for no reason I'd have thought.

Just make sure you're contacting people who are looking for you so you don't annoy them.

Good luck!

Thanks for your response though

Hmmmm...from what you say he seems to have taken offence at your approach. I think, for future reference, if your contacting a couple tailor your message to BOTH of them!

You're not admiring Farmer Giles' prize heifer but a man's wife.

Just a thought!

I agree with addressing both members of a couple but he still meant no harm and it didn't warrant such a reply.

We all recieve nasty emails/emails that we don't want but that's what the delete and block button is for.

Besides, he was trying to pay a compliment. No offence was intended.

I agree: I don't think the OP meant any disrespect, but the couple obviously did take offence.

Personally, if I were the wife I'd have just blocked him, but we don't know how many crass messages they'd trawled through and the OP's message was the one that broke the camels back!

Heifer now camels, you got a thing about animals Sassy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw the original post and agree it was uncalled for, smacked of an insecure prick who shouldn't be on here with his partner

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Ah well, it's a shame that some people feel the need to be nasty, don't worry about it, we had a message earlier in the week saying I needed a make over, our kitchen is a mess and I'm also a tramp! Report and block - there are loads of nice people here too. Z

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Ah well, it's a shame that some people feel the need to be nasty, don't worry about it, we had a message earlier in the week saying I needed a make over, our kitchen is a mess and I'm also a tramp!"

Was it from Steve? He obviously didn't like the Christmas present you got him...

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