FabSwingers.com forum: Sleep Over

By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

So we've never slept in a bed with anyone else before as we were each others only partners.

Has any couples tried this on Fab?

A complete swap for the night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we would never ever do. It's one thing swapping for sex but swapping beds for the night too we think is tempting fate and asking for serious problems.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"This is something we would never ever do. It's one thing swapping for sex but swapping beds for the night too we think is tempting fate and asking for serious problems. "

If we were tempted by fate we would just seperate. What serious problems could it cause? Xx

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

not done this but would never rule it out and no it would not cause problems with us we arse secure in our swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple a few times in the past and on one occassion she stayed at mine overnight.

She said it was her husbands idea and the thought of her being with another man all night was a turn on for him.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I met a couple a few times in the past and on one occassion she stayed at mine overnight.

She said it was her husbands idea and the thought of her being with another man all night was a turn on for him."

Not really about a turn on xx

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"not done this but would never rule it out and no it would not cause problems with us we arse secure in our swinging"

Had you slept with other people before you moved in together? X

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

yes I had

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"yes I had"

Well neither of us have, which is the point of this exercise. Tricky huh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something we would never ever do. It's one thing swapping for sex but swapping beds for the night too we think is tempting fate and asking for serious problems.

If we were tempted by fate we would just seperate. What serious problems could it cause? Xx"

Sometimes is best not to allow temptation, thats only my opinion of course. A lot can happen in a single night. But if you feel that your a strong enough couple then why the hell not!!

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"This is something we would never ever do. It's one thing swapping for sex but swapping beds for the night too we think is tempting fate and asking for serious problems.

If we were tempted by fate we would just seperate. What serious problems could it cause? Xx

Sometimes is best not to allow temptation, thats only my opinion of course. A lot can happen in a single night. But if you feel that your a strong enough couple then why the hell not!!

Strong enough? They based a film on my life called: Man of Steel lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Sometimes is best not to allow temptation, thats only my opinion of course. A lot can happen in a single night. But if you feel that your a strong enough couple then why the hell not!!

Someone is not quite secure here

, swinging is for those in very strong relationships dude , what can happen in your absence that wouldn't except your partner telling the other swinger that they are not really satisfied or happy with you ?

Don't do it if either of you think you are not good enough for your other half .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Well neither of us have, which is the point of this exercise. Tricky huh lol"

You mean to say you were both virgins when you met

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

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Well neither of us have, which is the point of this exercise. Tricky huh lol

You mean to say you were both virgins when you met

Yes, E was a church crazy and I was a late bloomer, no sex till 24 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a big no no for us x we are secure and happy but no thats a nogo area xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some insecure people on this thread. Stands back and waits for a trolling! Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And once again each to his own both done this but doesn't mean anything just another swinging experience. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us , the experience , whatever that may be is wonderful . But the going home together and re living the night together when we get home is a major part of why we swing .

So spending the night apart has no appeal at all . We would feel like we would be missing the best part of the experience .

And no , we aren't insecure , we simply know what we like and enjoy it .

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

We're not insecure LooooooooooooL

We just started late and want to fill in the gaps xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I "hubby" want a guy to stay over after the meet has finished so to so to speak and would allow the Mrs to be sandwiched between us in bed and continue the naughtiness or be woken up to her moans and growns whilst riding him.

We are just in the process of her meeting alone and i would be happy for her to stay overnight at his hotel. I've met him twice socially and trust him so guess it's each to there own. What feels right for some may not be right for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us , the experience , whatever that may be is wonderful . But the going home together and re living the night together when we get home is a major part of why we swing .

So spending the night apart has no appeal at all . We would feel like we would be missing the best part of the experience .

And no , we aren't insecure , we simply know what we like and enjoy it ."

This, we enjoy playing and meeting people but we love the sex we have when we get home, we would never spend the night with other people alone or together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you want to learn the hard way that most men fart in their sleep?

I think the snoring and farting might make this less exciting than you think but go for it if you're that curious...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Sometimes is best not to allow temptation, thats only my opinion of course. A lot can happen in a single night. But if you feel that your a strong enough couple then why the hell not!!

Someone is not quite secure here

Don't do it if either of you think you are not good enough for your other half ."

It was our opinion, doesn't mean we're not secure! I'm sure we're long past that stage since we have been swinging for approx 4 years and are as strong as we have ever been!

Please spare us the lecture my friend as it really isn't warranted in this case ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something we would never ever do. It's one thing swapping for sex but swapping beds for the night too we think is tempting fate and asking for serious problems. "

lunacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..........

Sometimes is best not to allow temptation......

Someone is not quite secure here

, swinging is for those in very strong relationships ..............

It was our opinion, doesn't mean we're not secure! I'm sure we're long past that stage since we have been swinging for approx 4 years and are as strong as we have ever been!

Please spare us the lecture my friend as it really isn't warranted in this case ??"

Looks like I touched a raw nerve here , I am outa here , one man for himself

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have never stayed over and have no wish to. Whilst I am happy to chat and get to know the man before we do the dirty deed

once I have finished with him I don't even like to cuddle. Just get my breath back, find where I flung my clothes and be on my merry way... to the next victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..........

Sometimes is best not to allow temptation, thats only my opinion of course. A lot can happen in a single night. But if you feel that your a strong enough couple then why the hell not!!

Someone is not quite secure here

Don't do it if either of you think you are not good enough for your other half .

It was our opinion, doesn't mean we're not secure! I'm sure we're long past that stage since we have been swinging for approx 4 years and are as strong as we have ever been!

Please spare us the lecture my friend as it really isn't warranted in this case ??"

This.

If you love and cherish your partner, you want to know they're safe, want to be with them, share experiences - not farm them out.

In complete agreement with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"............Just get my breath back, find where I flung my clothes and be on my merry way... to the next victim

, that's more like me , I don't do victims though , I would say to the next ". ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent the night with my bf a few weeks ago. Not sure I will again. Felt way too good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no never its just sex nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never 'stayed over' after a meet. It's just about the only restriction my hubby has put on me regarding meeting other guys. To be honest I have no inclination to do it either, just have fun then leave, best all round I think.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I have never 'stayed over' after a meet. It's just about the only restriction my hubby has put on me regarding meeting other guys. To be honest I have no inclination to do it either, just have fun then leave, best all round I think."

Yes but have you ever slept in a bed with some other than him?

We have not, our first time of sleeping in the same bed with a non family was member was our wedding night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you want to learn the hard way that most men fart in their sleep?

I think the snoring and farting might make this less exciting than you think but go for it if you're that curious... "

I'm insulted. I've never farted in bed with a lady in it

In answer to your question op two of the meets I've had with the same couple I've slept in the same bed as both with her in between us.

I've also slept on the couch of another couple after I missed my train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no way we'd do this.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"So you want to learn the hard way that most men fart in their sleep?

I think the snoring and farting might make this less exciting than you think but go for it if you're that curious...

I'm insulted. I've never farted in bed with a lady in it

In answer to your question op two of the meets I've had with the same couple I've slept in the same bed as both with her in between us.

I've also slept on the couch of another couple after I missed my train"

Not quite what we had in mind xx

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By *w214Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

"not done this but would never rule it out and no it would not cause problems with us we arse secure in our swinging"

A secure arse is essential for swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you want to learn the hard way that most men fart in their sleep?

I think the snoring and farting might make this less exciting than you think but go for it if you're that curious...

I'm insulted. I've never farted in bed with a lady in it

In answer to your question op two of the meets I've had with the same couple I've slept in the same bed as both with her in between us.

I've also slept on the couch of another couple after I missed my train"

So you're blaming the dog then? Men fart in their sleep - you wouldn't even know you'd done it! Unless you have some kind of 'paranormal activity' camera setup in the bedroom...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

See I must be strange I love waking up next too someone....

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By *andp01Couple
over a year ago

here n there

"So you want to learn the hard way that most men fart in their sleep?

I think the snoring and farting might make this less exciting than you think but go for it if you're that curious...

I'm insulted. I've never farted in bed with a lady in it

In answer to your question op two of the meets I've had with the same couple I've slept in the same bed as both with her in between us.

I've also slept on the couch of another couple after I missed my train

So you're blaming the dog then? Men fart in their sleep - you wouldn't even know you'd done it! Unless you have some kind of 'paranormal activity' camera setup in the bedroom..."

So do girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..........

Sometimes is best not to allow temptation......

Someone is not quite secure here

, swinging is for those in very strong relationships ..............

It was our opinion, doesn't mean we're not secure! I'm sure we're long past that stage since we have been swinging for approx 4 years and are as strong as we have ever been!

Please spare us the lecture my friend as it really isn't warranted in this case ??

Looks like I touched a raw nerve here , I am outa here , one man for himself

Being told that we are not secure by a complete stranger on a forum tends to "touch a raw nerve" yes. But you are entitled to your opinion, this is a public forum after all, and we respect that

Now please shut the door on your way out your letting a cold draft in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP, what I'm not getting is what you expect to be different about sleeping with someone new?

I'm genuinely curious and interested in the answer. But it is ultimately an unconscious activity hence why I'm not really sure what differences you are expected?

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"So OP, what I'm not getting is what you expect to be different about sleeping with someone new?

I'm genuinely curious and interested in the answer. But it is ultimately an unconscious activity hence why I'm not really sure what differences you are expected? "

I'm bored of receiving PM so I'll spell it out.

The first time either of us slept in a bed with a non family member was our wedding night and we're curious about this experience xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine for me. I imagine it ducks for them cause ei snore ^_^

Oh and I sleep hug lol

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"It's fine for me. I imagine it ducks for them cause ei snore ^_^

Oh and I sleep hug lol"

Yeah but single so not want we want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you want to learn the hard way that most men fart in their sleep?

I think the snoring and farting might make this less exciting than you think but go for it if you're that curious...

I'm insulted. I've never farted in bed with a lady in it

In answer to your question op two of the meets I've had with the same couple I've slept in the same bed as both with her in between us.

I've also slept on the couch of another couple after I missed my train

So you're blaming the dog then? Men fart in their sleep - you wouldn't even know you'd done it! Unless you have some kind of 'paranormal activity' camera setup in the bedroom..."

No I'm not blaming the dog....... It was the cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's fine for me. I imagine it ducks for them cause ei snore ^_^

Oh and I sleep hug lol

Yeah but single so not want we want

I wasn't offering lol

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"It's fine for me. I imagine it ducks for them cause ei snore ^_^

Oh and I sleep hug lol

Yeah but single so not want we want

I wasn't offering lol"

I meant as an opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So OP, what I'm not getting is what you expect to be different about sleeping with someone new?

I'm genuinely curious and interested in the answer. But it is ultimately an unconscious activity hence why I'm not really sure what differences you are expected?

I'm bored of receiving PM so I'll spell it out.

The first time either of us slept in a bed with a non family member was our wedding night and we're curious about this experience xx"

I got that much, I just don't get what you think is appealing or different about it?

I've never cleaned my mates toilet but I guess it would be very similar to cleaning our toilet, hence I'm not bothered about trying it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So OP, what I'm not getting is what you expect to be different about sleeping with someone new?

I'm genuinely curious and interested in the answer. But it is ultimately an unconscious activity hence why I'm not really sure what differences you are expected?

I'm bored of receiving PM so I'll spell it out.

The first time either of us slept in a bed with a non family member was our wedding night and we're curious about this experience xx

I got that much, I just don't get what you think is appealing or different about it?

I've never cleaned my mates toilet but I guess it would be very similar to cleaning our toilet, hence I'm not bothered about trying it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we've never slept in a bed with anyone else before as we were each others only partners.

Has any couples tried this on Fab?

A complete swap for the night xx"
Ignore the trolls. If it's something you are curious about you give it a go. Doesn't affect your relationship or the way you feel about each other at all. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely no way we'd do this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us but we did meet a single female at a hotel she stayed all night and shared our bed

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Thanks for all the comments and the stories.

However we are only looking for a whole couple to swap with, not any other variation xx

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