FabSwingers.com forum: First time.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're finding it difficult to decide if we would like a female or a male to join us for our first experience(hoping to try both at some point) were looking for NSA but we would maybe meet again with someone if it suited us all.we feel a party/club environment where we could dance an mingle would suit us to get the feel for it all.were in the west of Scotland,can anyone recommend anywhere.thanks Amy x

By *sontopMan
over a year ago

Billericay

For my first time I went with a couple.

The advantage of you going with a couple is you can both have fun without feeling guilty.

You might find clubs can be a little bit of a click so be careful.

But what ever you decide Have FUN

By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Meet socially initially, talk to as many people as you can and see what feels most right

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet socially initially, talk to as many people as you can and see what feels most right

I would suggest a local party club or social event

I would also say a decent verification would help . But if you do clubs and socials it doesn't matter how many you have or your pics or your profile as they. Can see you in person and there is always someone who wants to play

There's plenty of dreamers and idiots at least you know if you are at the above you won't have a wasted journey with cancellation etc

It's so disheartening to keep having cancels and no shows especially after paying baby sitters

By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

We'd say: start with a club. Just get used to the idea of being surrounded with sexy sex, then you can ease yourself into as "deep" a situation as you feel comfortable with:

* playing just the two of you in a private room

* playing just the two of you where you can be watched

* chatting to other people

* soft swinging with other people

* 10-man gangbang

Just go with what you feel comfortable with, to help find your own limits through careful boundary testing.