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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right this is gonna be a bit of a post an run as I need to get some sleep so might not respond for a few hours.

So I have myself listed as bi as when I joined up long ago I was fully bi.

But it's now been over a year since I was with a man man (it not tv/ts) and tbh I've not felt the slightest attraction to a guy since.

I've also lost my attraction for TVs (except for one specific one but they do identity as female but aren't going to go any further than dressing so not sure what that counts as)

I still do like TS girls be a use on a personal level they are totally female and tbh I'd say they have more in common with a woman with a strap on than a man.

So it seems that now I only really find femininity attractive masculinity and men do nothing for me any more and my focus on here is now pretty much only women.

So am I still bi am I straight or what now?

My current answer is awesomeosexual but that's not really one of the recognised catagories.

Oddly I'm more confused about the correct labeling than my sexuality lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adventurous straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the label really matter? I've recently changed mine from straight to bi-curious because of numerous experiences I've had. But changing that doesn't change me. So in the end, it doesn't matter.

I'll say you're supersexual

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe sexuality is fluid. Put what you feel you are now knowing that you can identify as something different at any point in the future.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

you are spirit having a human experience...just enjoy and put down what you want, as nell said, if it changes then change it, to what you want rather than what you are ..as what you are is really undefinable anyway...

just enjoy yourself xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

You're a bit like an ex-smoker who vapes, or a non-practicing Christian......I would still say Bi would be the most accurate description, but qualify it in text, or put straight but tick 'TV/TS' to alert people to the fact that there are caveats.

They probably need another category for 'in a state of flux' or something, lol.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I thought this was gonna be a question from going for gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is gonna be a bit of a post an run as I need to get some sleep so might not respond for a few hours.

So I have myself listed as bi as when I joined up long ago I was fully bi.

But it's now been over a year since I was with a man man (it not tv/ts) and tbh I've not felt the slightest attraction to a guy since.

I've also lost my attraction for TVs (except for one specific one but they do identity as female but aren't going to go any further than dressing so not sure what that counts as)

I still do like TS girls be a use on a personal level they are totally female and tbh I'd say they have more in common with a woman with a strap on than a man.

So it seems that now I only really find femininity attractive masculinity and men do nothing for me any more and my focus on here is now pretty much only women.

So am I still bi am I straight or what now?

My current answer is awesomeosexual but that's not really one of the recognised catagories.

Oddly I'm more confused about the correct labeling than my sexuality lol."

Why limit yourself to a label then? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi still I'd say. Unless you can say you'll never be attracted to another man again.

I don't really see it as a label. Its just a description that makes other people's decision making easier.

These types of labels are guidelines not rigid Structures imo.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think I'm a bit similar - almost only ever touch men sexually when there's a lady present. Bisexual suggests equal but I'm not equally attracted to both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your you. That's all you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your bi buddy, you have enjoyed sex with men.

And you still enjoy sex with men.

I think the fact that some of those men dress up like a lady is probably irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20% bi but more straight at 80%.

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By *eanutButterJellyTimeCouple
over a year ago

the middle of the world

Kev identifies as bi but goes through stages of wanting to play with and wanting only women. he's currently in a pretty much women only phase at the moment and has been for a while. Status still says bi though as that's how he sees himself, regardless of which gender he's attracted to at any given time.

So I would say go with what you feel best suits you. Not what best suits what you do.

Lynn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're you but you're bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hetero-flexible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi-flexible

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would say, use the label to identify what you're looking for on here. It's the only real purpose I think.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much the same as you OP, not fancied guys in a while but I've left it at bi as I'm not ruling out feeling that way again. Much the same as libido rises and falls so do our sexilual appetites for different things.

Oh and supersexual is the best term ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm much the same as you OP, not fancied guys in a while but I've left it at bi as I'm not ruling out feeling that way again. Much the same as libido rises and falls so do our sexilual appetites for different things.

Oh and supersexual is the best term ever! "

Why, thank you. I should trademark it

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say, use the label to identify what you're looking for on here. It's the only real purpose I think.

Cal"

This.

Just remember though that some people will have a hissy fit if you put straight and you have tv veri's.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If it's a Fab type you want to select then curious would be the best.

Shows you're not totally bi but won't rule it out at some point.

Which sums you up I think?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You are you and attracted to people. It's the person your attracted to not their sex. So labels make no difference. Red

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bi still I'd say. Unless you can say you'll never be attracted to another man again.

"

Can anyone predict their future?

I've certainly not found or seen any man I'd want to have sex with in a long time and no longer really have any desire or feelings towards looking for one.

I'm just curious on others views really is it like you've expressed that one bi encounter marks you as forever bisexual or does it come and go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are you and attracted to people. It's the person your attracted to not their sex. So labels make no difference. Red "

True,although as an interesting people I have never felt any attraction or desire towards any FTM person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are you and attracted to people. It's the person your attracted to not their sex. So labels make no difference. Red "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I put myself down as bi because I wouldn't rule out meeting a guy off here although I haven't for about 6 yrs. I can go to the sauna for a bit of man on man fun if I get the urge, but have not done that for well over 18 months. I wouldn't call myself straight though and am obviously well past the curious stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is gonna be a bit of a post an run as I need to get some sleep so might not respond for a few hours.

So I have myself listed as bi as when I joined up long ago I was fully bi.

But it's now been over a year since I was with a man man (it not tv/ts) and tbh I've not felt the slightest attraction to a guy since.

I've also lost my attraction for TVs (except for one specific one but they do identity as female but aren't going to go any further than dressing so not sure what that counts as)

I still do like TS girls be a use on a personal level they are totally female and tbh I'd say they have more in common with a woman with a strap on than a man.

So it seems that now I only really find femininity attractive masculinity and men do nothing for me any more and my focus on here is now pretty much only women.

So am I still bi am I straight or what now?

My current answer is awesomeosexual but that's not really one of the recognised catagories.

Oddly I'm more confused about the correct labeling than my sexuality lol."
in the words of a song " you're likea likea sex machine baby " hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely up to you

Speaking from personal experience, my only decent serious relationship was with another woman... but we split up four years ago and I've mainly been involved with men since, with only a bit of playing with a couple of women since and not being particularly attracted to another woman since, though I still say I'm bisexual.

But... I believe sexuality is fluid and doesn't really require labels... though, I personally think that for this site you might try the 'bi curious' label.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

My first two relationships were with guys but that was 32 years ago; since then I've only had sex with woman - I never considered myself gay or bi, just straight.

I did however get a BJ of a guy about 2 months ago when I was playing with him and his wife - I didn't reciprocate though.

It was a very enjoyable experience but as much as I liked it, I haven't changed my sexuality, I was just going with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel exactly the same about women!

I have no desire to be with women right now and haven't for a long time - but I still won't rule it out so I'm sticking with bi - just to satisfy the label police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'll say you're supersexual

-Courtney"

Nicking that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this is gonna be a bit of a post an run as I need to get some sleep so might not respond for a few hours.

So I have myself listed as bi as when I joined up long ago I was fully bi.

But it's now been over a year since I was with a man man (it not tv/ts) and tbh I've not felt the slightest attraction to a guy since.

I've also lost my attraction for TVs (except for one specific one but they do identity as female but aren't going to go any further than dressing so not sure what that counts as)

I still do like TS girls be a use on a personal level they are totally female and tbh I'd say they have more in common with a woman with a strap on than a man.

So it seems that now I only really find femininity attractive masculinity and men do nothing for me any more and my focus on here is now pretty much only women.

So am I still bi am I straight or what now?

My current answer is awesomeosexual but that's not really one of the recognised catagories.

Oddly I'm more confused about the correct labeling than my sexuality lol."

Good body mate, I'd suck you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dirty fooker. Like most of us on here who play together with others.

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