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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington

Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys also lie about height !

I prefer guys taller than me when I wear heels so anyone over 5ft 8

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not a deal breaker no matter what the height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men taller than me for the comfort factor but I have met shorter men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With heels, I'm 5'10/11 so yes, height is a factor.

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington


"Guys also lie about height !

I prefer guys taller than me when I wear heels so anyone over 5ft 8

"

Haha. I'm sure many guys lie more than just about their height.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I tend to play horizontally so it's never been an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not a deal breaker for me,but ive found on a regular dating site, men lie about their height a lot....which is odd...becasue unless theyre turning up in cuban heels, i probably will notice...i usually guesstimate anyone saying anything under 6' is usually exagerating by at least 2"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

"
I don't get this height business but I don't want to get into trouble with the dating site police. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to play horizontally so it's never been an issue. "

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I like to wear heels and prefer not to be looking down on a man xx

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

With men I like them taller than me, women shorter. Although I've never been with a woman shorter than me so it's not a turn off just a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is DEFINITELY a factor. I once met someone who said he was 5 10... he was shorter than me

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm 5ft 5 and quite like short guys, find them cute! But probably not shorter than me I'm afraid! ( unless it was Prince...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only just touching 5ft so if someone is 6ft 4 there's some major position obstacles I won't lie

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same size lying down mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not a deal breaker for me,but ive found on a regular dating site, men lie about their height a lot....which is odd...becasue unless theyre turning up in cuban heels, i probably will notice...i usually guesstimate anyone saying anything under 6' is usually exagerating by at least 2".."

By that logic I'm 5.9 which is still reasonable... seriously though if anyone wants to get out a tape measure and invite a group of men for a who's closest to there profile contest I'm in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate "

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

If I want to meet a guy at least 5'8" I need to be looking at profiles that say they are 5'10" then I'll more or less get someone of my preferred height

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington


"I'm only just touching 5ft so if someone is 6ft 4 there's some major position obstacles I won't lie

Mrs x"

Major position obstacles...yeow! hahaha.

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington

Btw, I'm actually 5'6. There's no lying about here before anyone assumes I'm actually shorter than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down?"

Your profile says 5'4", you serious? I'm not being cheeky, I just didn't think there would be that many men that short....

Again sorry if that was an asshole assumption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5ft 8 As long as she is shorter than me without heels I have no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a deal breaker no matter what the height. "

It is for some! As a short ass I've been turned down a number of times

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If I want to meet a guy at least 5'8" I need to be looking at profiles that say they are 5'10" then I'll more or less get someone of my preferred height "

Not in all cases you don't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 5ft 5 and quite like short guys, find them cute! But probably not shorter than me I'm afraid! ( unless it was Prince...) "

Damn it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down?"
Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down?

Your profile says 5'4", you serious? I'm not being cheeky, I just didn't think there would be that many men that short....

Again sorry if that was an asshole assumption. "

It was a bit mate.....

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

"

Very recently I met with someone who usually insists on blokes being over 6'. So don't think about it, be honest and let your personality and other positive factors do the talking..

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"If I want to meet a guy at least 5'8" I need to be looking at profiles that say they are 5'10" then I'll more or less get someone of my preferred height

Not in all cases you don't x"

Well I was generally a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys also lie about height !

I prefer guys taller than me when I wear heels so anyone over 5ft 8

Haha. I'm sure many guys lie more than just about their height. "

As do women!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"If I want to meet a guy at least 5'8" I need to be looking at profiles that say they are 5'10" then I'll more or less get someone of my preferred height

Not in all cases you don't x

Well I was generally a little "

Generalising*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down?

Your profile says 5'4", you serious? I'm not being cheeky, I just didn't think there would be that many men that short....

Again sorry if that was an asshole assumption. "

I like my men over 5'10" as i wear heels a lot. There are many many men under 5'10". Height never used to bother me until the shorter guys started asking me if i could wear smaller heels or flats when we went out. It seemed their height was my issue to resolve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down? Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W "

I dont know what this is supposed to mean frankly. I date short guys and im angry about it? If thats what youre saying then no thats not the case as my veris prove. What angers me is when a guy doesnt read my profile and messages when hes too short. Then when i say no he says "All the same height lying down" like that will change my mind. 100 guys a day say that to me. Its not original.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems lots of guys lie about there height, on pretty much every meet I've had I get... 'wow you really are that tall, most blokes lie' ....be proud of what and who you are I say, that's what makes a person sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down? Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W

I dont know what this is supposed to mean frankly. I date short guys and im angry about it? If thats what youre saying then no thats not the case as my veris prove. What angers me is when a guy doesnt read my profile and messages when hes too short. Then when i say no he says "All the same height lying down" like that will change my mind. 100 guys a day say that to me. Its not original."
So you want a date basically? Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down? Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W

I dont know what this is supposed to mean frankly. I date short guys and im angry about it? If thats what youre saying then no thats not the case as my veris prove. What angers me is when a guy doesnt read my profile and messages when hes too short. Then when i say no he says "All the same height lying down" like that will change my mind. 100 guys a day say that to me. Its not original. So you want a date basically? Mr W "

Yeah. That's what my entire post boiled down to. Thanks for playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down? Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W

I dont know what this is supposed to mean frankly. I date short guys and im angry about it? If thats what youre saying then no thats not the case as my veris prove. What angers me is when a guy doesnt read my profile and messages when hes too short. Then when i say no he says "All the same height lying down" like that will change my mind. 100 guys a day say that to me. Its not original. So you want a date basically? Mr W

Yeah. That's what my entire post boiled down to. Thanks for playing."
That's fine but if guys are on here for swinging and couples for that matter we don't get the height bit because a social and sexual spark is what matters. By all means have preferences but understand what is happening here. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

"

Yes, it does but it isn't always a deal breaker. In heels I am 6'-6'1" so I don't wanna be meeting someone much below that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down? Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W

I dont know what this is supposed to mean frankly. I date short guys and im angry about it? If thats what youre saying then no thats not the case as my veris prove. What angers me is when a guy doesnt read my profile and messages when hes too short. Then when i say no he says "All the same height lying down" like that will change my mind. 100 guys a day say that to me. Its not original. So you want a date basically? Mr W

Yeah. That's what my entire post boiled down to. Thanks for playing. That's fine but if guys are on here for swinging and couples for that matter we don't get the height bit because a social and sexual spark is what matters. By all means have preferences but understand what is happening here. Mr W "

I dont find short men sexually attractive. I said that very early on. I like my men bigger than me. Its part of the attraction. Im not sure how you dont understand that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not many men shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate

Utter bullshit! I dont care what height you are lying down i care about when youre standing up. I want my man taller than me. Makes me cringe when a guy messages me that. If i dont find you attractive upright, what makes you think you'll get me lying down? Presume you go out with them otherwise you wouldn't have got quite so aggressive. Mr W

I dont know what this is supposed to mean frankly. I date short guys and im angry about it? If thats what youre saying then no thats not the case as my veris prove. What angers me is when a guy doesnt read my profile and messages when hes too short. Then when i say no he says "All the same height lying down" like that will change my mind. 100 guys a day say that to me. Its not original. So you want a date basically? Mr W

Yeah. That's what my entire post boiled down to. Thanks for playing. That's fine but if guys are on here for swinging and couples for that matter we don't get the height bit because a social and sexual spark is what matters. By all means have preferences but understand what is happening here. Mr W

I dont find short men sexually attractive. I said that very early on. I like my men bigger than me. Its part of the attraction. Im not sure how you dont understand that."
Not just me who doesn't understand height preferences on a swinging site. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

"

Be a use they want a guy to be taller than them when they're out wearing their heels.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I'm 6 ft 1 r there abouts n most ladies I've met r all a good bit smaller than me but I've often fantisied about meeting a lady of my height r taller but I don't think it's likely to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

Be a use they want a guy to be taller than them when they're out wearing their heels."

I'm 5ft 8 but nearer 6ft in heels!

I've had playmates from 5ft 8 - 6ft 6!

I'm a few inches taller in my heels than a few of them - but if it doesn't bother them then it doesn't bother me!

I take the heels off when we play - so it doesn't matter then!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Damn did not consider height as a pulling factor.

I've been wasting my best asset.

All 6ft 2 of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

Be a use they want a guy to be taller than them when they're out wearing their heels."
Out where dating? Mr W

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington

I'm sure people like to go around wearing heels all the time, even when they're in bed now don't they?

I think it's ok to be honest about your height and be more proactive in having realistic expectations.

I don't find it much of a deal breaker if the woman is a few inches taller than me. I've been with women who were taller than me and they didn't find it to be a problematic issue now. It more boiled down to having a connection and a spark between each other that we moved past being outright shallow.

But then again, everyone has personal preferences. *Shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all. 6'4" here. Just sayin' -/:

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Hi all. 6'4" here. Just sayin' -/:"

Harlot!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Guys also lie about height !

I prefer guys taller than me when I wear heels so anyone over 5ft 8

"

Same here!

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington

Bloody hell. Seems like they're manufacturing high heels the size of stilts lately if women go out looking for men that are far more taller than them.

Jokes.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Height is a factor.

But it hasn't stopped me!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No factor for us. Both short so used to being towered over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wise old man once said 'You could be the world's greatest novelist, but if she's only interested in footballers, your attention is wasted on her.'

Attraction is mostly physical, people like what they like and nothing's going to change that, as I'm in the 5-5.5ft range, I've had to learn that the hard way! Haha

Just be genuine, honest and entertaining! If that's not enough then no worries, you're not for them

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington


"A wise old man once said 'You could be the world's greatest novelist, but if she's only interested in footballers, your attention is wasted on her.'

Attraction is mostly physical, people like what they like and nothing's going to change that, as I'm in the 5-5.5ft range, I've had to learn that the hard way! Haha

Just be genuine, honest and entertaining! If that's not enough then no worries, you're not for them "

Truer words have never been spoken so well than what you described here.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

"

I never give it a second thought. Tallest woman I met here was 5'8" barefoot and we really enjoyed each other's company.

OP, some are looking for tall, dark and handsome. Blame Disney! But some love wearing heels but still want to be petite and feminine standing at 5'10. Also, some are interested in a relationship so attraction and type is vital. They may not admit openly (or more importantly, themselves) but part of them wants to find that perfect guy. So as cliché as it sounds: It's not you, it's them!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I prefer men to be taller than me and I am 178 cms in bare feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5'7, my ex was 6 foot. We were together 15 years. Her friends used to take the piss out of her because before me she would always say she would never hook up anyone shorter than her let alone date them. Then she met me.

She now freely admits her attitude was ridiculous. People have a stereo type image of what they are attracted to but then find themselves attracted to people they would never have dreamt of.

Maybe as you grow older and mature you accept that attraction isn't about height or weight or any other preconception you had. You either find someone attractive physically and mentally or you don't.

Him.

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

I never give it a second thought. Tallest woman I met here was 5'8" barefoot and we really enjoyed each other's company.

OP, some are looking for tall, dark and handsome. Blame Disney! But some love wearing heels but still want to be petite and feminine standing at 5'10. Also, some are interested in a relationship so attraction and type is vital. They may not admit openly (or more importantly, themselves) but part of them wants to find that perfect guy. So as cliché as it sounds: It's not you, it's them!

"

Disney....ruining average height men's lives...not happily ever after I might add!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

"

I met someone who was a lot shorter than me, I defended his height to the taxi driver who was very rude and it took the edge off the meet for me as all i could think about was the height difference, so I will only meet taller men now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height has never been one of my concerns when I'm meeting guys on here.....I'm having sex with them not using them to reach the top shelf

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Q. Why don't short men want to date / meet short women? Are there fewer short women than there are short men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an aversion to midgets.

Midgets are evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Height has never been one of my concerns when I'm meeting guys on here.....I'm having sex with them not using them to reach the top shelf "

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Q. Why don't short men want to date / meet short women? Are there fewer short women than there are short men?"

Because short women want 6ft plus guys too!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Q. Why don't short men want to date / meet short women? Are there fewer short women than there are short men?

Because short women want 6ft plus guys too! "

Oh, OK; I didn't know that

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Q. Why don't short men want to date / meet short women? Are there fewer short women than there are short men?

Because short women want 6ft plus guys too!

Oh, OK; I didn't know that"

Annoying right?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Q. Why don't short men want to date / meet short women? Are there fewer short women than there are short men?

Because short women want 6ft plus guys too!

Oh, OK; I didn't know that

Annoying right?

"

I can see it from your point of view

I thought that most feel like me in that they want someone taller than themselves; did not know that there was a blanket minimum height requirement

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"I can see it from your point of view

I thought that most feel like me in that they want someone taller than themselves; did not know that there was a blanket minimum height requirement"

It's taller women that suffer too. I had a friend who used to be here and she was taller than you barefoot. She used to hate it as meeting was a nightmare sometimes. She felt very sensitive over her height so meeting 6ft plus was set in stone. Trouble was they had already been picked up by women shorter. Many who are shorter than 5'2" and less.

So for me, I see it as an issue that affects men and women for different reasons but people have their preferences that have to be respected. But a lot of the time, we let public opinion dictate what's acceptable.


"I met someone who was a lot shorter than me, I defended his height to the taxi driver who was very rude and it took the edge off the meet for me as all i could think about was the height difference, so I will only meet taller men now"

I'm pretty sure that cab driver wasn't exactly Michelangelo's David but sadly the damage was done.

It's about liking yourself and not giving a shit what others think.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Height doesnt come into it for me i would say most guys are taller than me im only 5ft an petite

so its a given every guy is taller than me lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm a short arse.

I do prefer taller men, but have met men about the same height, or shorter when I wear heels (I tend to wear 6 inch heels most days)

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne


"I tend to play horizontally so it's never been an issue. "
well said

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington


"Q. Why don't short men want to date / meet short women? Are there fewer short women than there are short men?"

I'm more than happy to date short women. I've never taken height as a huge factor in my meets.

Whether they're taller, shorter or the same height. It just doesn't matter to me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Same size lying down mate "
No we're not. A short guy lying on top of me is going to have his head in my boobs. Fine for him, but what if I want a snog?

And don't get me started about short guys trying to do doggy with me. My legs are so long they need a run up.

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By *tallionExotica OP   Man
over a year ago

Islington


"Height has never been one of my concerns when I'm meeting guys on here.....I'm having sex with them not using them to reach the top shelf "

Plus I'm sure mutual co-operation works well when helping each other out. (Giving someone a boost by lifting them up to reach those places....which....could also turn out to be a kinky foreplay act?)

I have too much of a wild imagination running here now. hahaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hopes for me then at 4'11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to be presented by a girl bent over and my crotch level. Although heels help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never been a problem for me

If it has been for others they have been polite enough to knock me back for other reasons

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Height is s big thing for me, I love really tall men.

I'm also good at height and have met 2 guys who said they were 6' and I called them on it. One was 5'11" (I measured him) and the other was 5'11.5" and was shocked I could tell.

However, I have met guys of other heights because in the end, personality matters most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate No we're not. A short guy lying on top of me is going to have his head in my boobs. Fine for him, but what if I want a snog?

And don't get me started about short guys trying to do doggy with me. My legs are so long they need a run up. "

I can agree with this

Having short legs definately throws up challenges with 'doggy'

My attempts usually end up looking like a game of twister

On the other hand I have got to shag some lovely knees

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Same size lying down mate No we're not. A short guy lying on top of me is going to have his head in my boobs. Fine for him, but what if I want a snog?

And don't get me started about short guys trying to do doggy with me. My legs are so long they need a run up. "

This is soooo true

I've also, sadly, found that shorter guys are way more obnoxious. They are the ones who often send hate messages when you say no thanks. Never had that from a tall guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is a big thing for me as I'm 5ft11 barefoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm tall enough...apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same size lying down mate No we're not. A short guy lying on top of me is going to have his head in my boobs. Fine for him, but what if I want a snog?

And don't get me started about short guys trying to do doggy with me. My legs are so long they need a run up.

This is soooo true

I've also, sadly, found that shorter guys are way more obnoxious. They are the ones who often send hate messages when you say no thanks. Never had that from a tall guy."

i do think a certain element of short men have a bit of a complex..my ex was very tall and said he'd never been in an argument or fight that wasn't started by some short guy trying to get a rise out of him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other hand, there are those amongst us that are not bothered in the slightest by it.

My only niggle being that I wish my legs were longer. Not to be taller, but to save me having to get everything taken up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No hopes for me then at 4'11 "

I feel you, girl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've carried a full blown relationship with someone 4 inches taller than me in trainers and I'm not short.

I've also dated a girl who was 4 foot 8 with a Glaswegian accent... (god I miss the tiny pvc dresses she used to wear)

No point to the post... just reminiscing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6'2, I've dated a girl who was 5'0 and I've dated a girl at 6' so height really isn't a factor for me although I don't know how I'd feel about someone taller than me...any 6'3+ women out there want to help me test a boundary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the question of someone's height affected you when looking for potential meets?

I'm not exactly the tallest guy out there, but do women still stick to the old adage saying of searching for the stereotypical 'Tall, Dark and Handsome' types? Just curious.

There are some women who've even lied about their height (Usually putting their height measurements when they have their heels on).

Why would anyone even do something like that?

Be a use they want a guy to be taller than them when they're out wearing their heels. Out where dating? Mr W "

Clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with another poster I've met a few men who had their height down at 6ft yet were shorter than me the fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, height matters, don't want her taller than me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see it from your point of view

I thought that most feel like me in that they want someone taller than themselves; did not know that there was a blanket minimum height requirement

It's taller women that suffer too. I had a friend who used to be here and she was taller than you barefoot. She used to hate it as meeting was a nightmare sometimes. She felt very sensitive over her height so meeting 6ft plus was set in stone. Trouble was they had already been picked up by women shorter. Many who are shorter than 5'2" and less.

So for me, I see it as an issue that affects men and women for different reasons but people have their preferences that have to be respected. But a lot of the time, we let public opinion dictate what's acceptable.

I met someone who was a lot shorter than me, I defended his height to the taxi driver who was very rude and it took the edge off the meet for me as all i could think about was the height difference, so I will only meet taller men now

I'm pretty sure that cab driver wasn't exactly Michelangelo's David but sadly the damage was done.

It's about liking yourself and not giving a shit what others think.

"

He was one of my earlier meets. Liking myself, sometimes I do

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