FabSwingers.com forum: "Who has looked at my profile" and "Hotlist"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people often check who has looked at their profiles? I had a weird one where this lady kept looking at me like everyday and as soon as I sent a wink , I got blocked

What about Hotlist? After my experience of being blocked for winking , I now keep my Hotlist to see what the people I will be "stalking" will be up to without the risk of being blocked, does anyone else do the same

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we have our setting that allows us not to show who we've looked at enabled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever check who's looked at me, I don't see the point to be honest all it does is show who's not interested in you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't look often. Sometimes look at your cock, George.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't look often. Sometimes look at your cock, George.

Actually my cock is normal at only 9 inches but looks big in pictures , its photogenic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't look often. Sometimes look at your cock, George.

Actually my cock is normal at only 9 inches but looks big in pictures , its photogenic"

Oh stop it

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I think I have hidden who I look at because sometimes I am curious about what people say on their profiles, but very unlikely to meet them - I have had occasions where men and couples have moaned that I have looked but then not sent a message ... I will look and note if the guys are bi or not, as that is a pre-requisite for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use either of those and don't look at winks either. I receive more winks than messages, so rather go through my messages and reply, than having to go through all the profiles that have winked.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Don't look often. Sometimes look at your cock, George.

Actually my cock is normal at only 9 inches but looks big in pictures , its photogenic

Oh stop it

No, tell me more.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them a lot. Nice to see who's watching me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I see someone who keeps looking it means they like what they are seeing so I normally wink or send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I see someone who keeps looking it means they like what they are seeing so I normally wink or send a message

If somebody looks at me and don't message I take that as they are not interested regardless of how many times they have looked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I see someone who keeps looking it means they like what they are seeing so I normally wink

If somebody looks at me and don't message I take that as they are not interested regardless of how many times they have looked "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I browse in secret, she may have just been perving at your pics rather than want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I don't pay I can't see who has looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as I don't pay I can't see who has looked

Im in the same boat

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By *inecrestMan
over a year ago

West Yorks

I can see who looks at me, but I never expect that the ones who look will message me, and I'm nearly always right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a couple of regular viewers who tend to drop in at least once or twice a week but in all that time they've never contacted me once. I'm guessing this is because they have absolutely no interest in meeting me, but if you're reading this come say hello anyway, it would be nice to have a little natter even if you don't want to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few couples view my profile regular but never reply to my message strange

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"A few couples view my profile regular but never reply to my message strange"

I wouldn't worry about it.

People look at others' profiles for all sorts of reasons...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few couples view my profile regular but never reply to my message strange"

If you see someone coming back a few times then they are definitely interested and you are most likely you are on their Hotlist , give them a wink

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"A few couples view my profile regular but never reply to my message strange

If you see someone coming back a few times then they are definitely interested and you are most likely you are on their Hotlist , give them a wink "

Well he sent a message and got no reply, so a wink won't do much good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few couples view my profile regular but never reply to my message strange

If you see someone coming back a few times then they are definitely interested and you are most likely you are on their Hotlist , give them a wink

Well he sent a message and got no reply, so a wink won't do much good..."

Thanks gordon wasnt going to explain but you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy not knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at mine sometimes

Im nosy and like to see who's been looking,although most people use the function where you don't show on the list

I once sent a message saying Boo! to someone who had been looking constantly for days

They then deleted their account

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"............

I once sent a message saying Boo! to someone who had been looking constantly for days

They then deleted their account

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"If I see someone who keeps looking it means they like what they are seeing so I normally wink or send a message "

We are on a small island so a little different , iF someone look a few times and we like there profile then we send a short message, sometimes it will start an exchange of message which have led to a meet.. bit like the "who's near app" if any within a few miles message sent if its deleted then time to move on ..Connie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody's looked at mine in over a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I once sent a message saying Boo! to someone who had been looking constantly for days

They then deleted their account

People scare easy on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody's looked at mine in over a day.

I tried but is hidden lol

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Do people often check who has looked at their profiles? I had a weird one where this lady kept looking at me like everyday and as soon as I sent a wink , I got blocked

I use them a lot, but eventually had to block all men from contacting me as that way they don't show on the 'who's looked at me list'. Before that I was trawling through endless guys just to find the women and couple who had looked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Hahaha , that's what I do as well , I will block all males and that way I won't need to scan through , good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look to see who's looked and don't use hotlist

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I look at mine sometimes

Im nosy and like to see who's been looking,although most people use the function where you don't show on the list

I once sent a message saying Boo! to someone who had been looking constantly for days

They then deleted their account

I regularly have a look in yours....just checking to see if you've made any additions to your scorching hot pics!!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

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Hahaha , that's what I do as well , I will block all males and that way I won't need to scan through , good idea

Yeah, I don't mind the fellas looking it just got too frustrating trying to pick the women and couples out from amongst their endless 'looks'. My profile gets a good number of hits each day from the right kind of traffic, so non stop male traffic just becomes a head ache.

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

My 'who looked at me' seems to be 98% guys!!

Maybe I'm sending out the wrong messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely bothered with 'who's looked at me' & I use my hot list for a variety of different reasons...

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

Though I have to say.....it's nice being popular with one of the groups on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao, man am in stitches. I honestly don't know why I find it funny but i can understand how confusing that could be.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Lots of people may have looked at me today; I did not look back at them

I am talking about the real world; I treat the FabS world similarly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lots of people may have looked at me today; I did not look back at them

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C'mon give them a wink

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Lots of people may have looked at me today; I did not look back at them

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C'mon give them a wink

Since it is you who said it; done; but I am doing that walking down the street

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Lots of people may have looked at me today; I did not look back at them

I am talking about the real world; I treat the FabS world similarly"

I can't resist having a little gander at anyone that I can see has perused my profile

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Lots of people may have looked at me today; I did not look back at them

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C'mon give them a wink

Since it is you who said it; done; but I am doing that walking down the street

Damn; I typed too fast; I meant, I am NOT doing that walking .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look most days to see who has looked at me. There is one who looks daily and more than once but he doesn't message and looking at his pic, I think I'm out of his league

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I look most days to see who has looked at me. There is one who looks daily and more than once but he doesn't message and looking at his pic, I think I'm out of his league "

Ahh pop him a little 'hi' message, you won't know until you do?? He may be sitting there thinking he'd love to message you but he thinks you're out of his league!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get people who view my profile several times a day - sometimes more!

I assume that they either have early onset Alzheimer's and forget what I look like, they need a good long read on the loo, or they want a wank and don't subscribe to porn channels!

Either way I really don't mind! My profile and public pics are there for people to do with as they will!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look most days to see who has looked at me. There is one who looks daily and more than once but he doesn't message and looking at his pic, I think I'm out of his league "

Oh?

I didn't know we had fab 'leagues'!

So what division would everyone put themselves in?

I'd be in the current Division one - the old division three!

Too old for the premiership!

Not got the tits for the championship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use most of the functions on here if not all, fab this, block, hotlist, who has looked, Local updates, forums, perve invisible, chat forums, wink, hide profile etc all in moderation. Why not I pay my fiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get people who view my profile several times a day - sometimes more!

I assume that they either have early onset Alzheimer's and forget what I look like, they need a good long read on the loo, or they want a wank and don't subscribe to porn channels!

Either way I really don't mind! My profile and public pics are there for people to do with as they will!! "

Maybe you have quality wank material, just fabed one of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look most days to see who has looked at me. There is one who looks daily and more than once but he doesn't message and looking at his pic, I think I'm out of his league

Oh?

I didn't know we had fab 'leagues'!

So what division would everyone put themselves in?

I'd be in the current Division one - the old division three!

Too old for the premiership!

Not got the tits for the championship!

I don't understand football stuff but if he wanted to he could message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look most days to see who has looked at me. There is one who looks daily and more than once but he doesn't message and looking at his pic, I think I'm out of his league

Ahh pop him a little 'hi' message, you won't know until you do?? He may be sitting there thinking he'd love to message you but he thinks you're out of his league!!

Maybe I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get people who view my profile several times a day - sometimes more!

I assume that they either have early onset Alzheimer's and forget what I look like, they need a good long read on the loo, or they want a wank and don't subscribe to porn channels!

Either way I really don't mind! My profile and public pics are there for people to do with as they will!!

Maybe you have quality wank material, just fabed one of yours"

Most kind! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many time wasters on this site all people do is look at pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many time wasters on this site all people do is look at pictures"

How are people who look at your profile and fab your pictures wasting your time or theirs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look but no one messages me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually deliberately look to see the profile behind a forum post, that could be any gender or inclination no matter if I am interested sexually or not.

I more frequently look when my thumb hits the name when I am scrolling through the posts, no particular reason at all.

Sometimes I will perv pictures, but not often. and other times I may be interested and look to find I am too old or in the wrong part of the country...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hardly ever check who's looked at me, I don't see the point to be honest all it does is show who's not interested in you

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