FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

However when I'm looking through pictures I tend to find that most couple profiles have pictures of the woman but at best only a cock picture of the male. As a single girl I want to feel attracted to both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

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likewise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Amazing photos !! That's the sort of couple profile i would be attracted too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say we have a more equal amount in our private photos x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps we need to review ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Amazing photos !! That's the sort of couple profile i would be attracted too "

Oh stop it! You'll make us blush

P.s

Fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Amazing photos !! That's the sort of couple profile i would be attracted too

Oh stop it! You'll make us blush

P.s

Fancy a shag?

Hehe if I was 10 years younger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say we have a more equal amount in our private photos x"

Yes I've only chatted with 2 couples simply because the person who contacted me stood out. I had looked at their profiles and skipped by because no male photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say we have a more equal amount in our private photos x

Yes I've only chatted with 2 couples simply because the person who contacted me stood out. I had looked at their profiles and skipped by because no male photos "

I think the boys are shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is right, not sure but it seems most hide hubby lol. I guess as most know they would get more offers with the woman showing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That is right, not sure but it seems most hide hubby lol. I guess as most know they would get more offers with the woman showing."

I suppose if they're looking for the mmf most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple who are looking for 'single guys' do we need to show 'him'?? There are face pics of him to share if required .

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a couple who are looking for 'single guys' do we need to show 'him'?? There are face pics of him to share if required .

Her "

As you're looking for a straight male you're looking for a guy to play with you. So no I wouldn't have thought so

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We show more of him, but to be honest, not too much of either ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We show more of him, but to be honest, not too much of either ... "

Omgoshh that chocolate bar picture is fantastic hehe

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

That was my fault, I just could not resist it .... thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

We dont have pics of me but I dont play so dont see the need.

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

I've noticed this too.... and its not just couples who are looking for a guy.

Perhaps its just that its normally the bloke behind the camera....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've noticed this too.... and its not just couples who are looking for a guy.

Perhaps its just that its normally the bloke behind the camera....lol"

Hahah that could be a very true point. For me apart from faces it's a mans chest. Ladies in couples if you're after a single woman to come play get snapping your hubby

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By *airybearCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Under Lyme

Its also true of couples who are looking for couples.

And profiles with no public pics are just as guilty.

I am the straight female in our couple and want at least some visual idea of what the male of the profile looks like to entice me to engage in communication in the first place.

And one cock pic suffices, but it doesn't tell me what the guy looks like, only what his cock looks like, and that he exists (maybe).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its also true of couples who are looking for couples.

And profiles with no public pics are just as guilty.

I am the straight female in our couple and want at least some visual idea of what the male of the profile looks like to entice me to engage in communication in the first place.

And one cock pic suffices, but it doesn't tell me what the guy looks like, only what his cock looks like, and that he exists (maybe)."
just message and hopefully pics come from that

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

Was going to put a photo after reading this, bugger I'm 51 above your age range lol

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

There's a few of me in ours, being a perve, i usually take the photos, when i see something that i think needs capturing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason for this is women and technology.

Photo sessions can go on for days when interrupted with 'where do I press ?' 'What does this do ?' 'It's not working' and so on ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

Was going to put a photo after reading this, bugger I'm 51 above your age range lol "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The reason for this is women and technology.

Photo sessions can go on for days when interrupted with 'where do I press ?' 'What does this do ?' 'It's not working' and so on ...

Slap the man!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples profiles are actually " single" women posing as couples that's what I have noticed .Genuine ones always show both

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Most couples profiles are actually " single" women posing as couples that's what I have noticed .Genuine ones always show both "

Really???

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We use it as a filter. No pictures of the man (where he expects to be having sex with me) and we won't meet. Our experience has shown that if a man has no photos but his partner does its because he doesn't want to be involved the same applies if they attach grainy, blurred pictures of him to a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally if I was looking for couples I would like to see equal good photos of both the male & female. Not all sexy pics of her & cock pics of him.

a lot of couples profiles look like single women ones from the avatar / photo gallery.

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By *otty69Couple
over a year ago

bedford

We have pics of the male in private . But always send to others if intrested in meeting them after all its not blind date lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed this too.... and its not just couples who are looking for a guy.

Perhaps its just that its normally the bloke behind the camera....lol

Hahah that could be a very true point. For me apart from faces it's a mans chest. Ladies in couples if you're after a single woman to come play get snapping your hubby

We are working on this....slowly getting pics of Clarence on lol! He is very camera shy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

We dont have pics of me but I dont play so dont see the need."

If you're present when your wife is having sex with people I think you should have a couple of photos on show or to show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What put me off meeting couples was not seeing anything of the man or just a cock. Those profiles were wanting bi ffm with the man watching or taking photos. I stopped looking for couples because of that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Amazing photos !! That's the sort of couple profile i would be attracted too "

Yes, I agree - a pleasing selection of photos in different styles.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I can understand your point, but the other side if the coin is that you are suggesting that other fabbers, who are using their profile in the way that they want, should change their profile to make it more attractive to you. That's not really the point of fab. Profiles belong to the people who post them and if they work for those people there is no reason to change them - if they don't appeal to you personally, accept that and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

Then ignore the ones that don't meet what you are looking for.it's not rocket science.I dare say there are certain elements to your profile that isn't what some are looking for so no doubt they bypass yours and move onto another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How people set up there profile is entirely up to them and you should pass them by, as a point of interest we would just pass your profile by as the pictures don't show anything of you at all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand your point, but the other side if the coin is that you are suggesting that other fabbers, who are using their profile in the way that they want, should change their profile to make it more attractive to you. That's not really the point of fab. Profiles belong to the people who post them and if they work for those people there is no reason to change them - if they don't appeal to you personally, accept that and move on."

This pops up constantly! We're looking to meet guys, I'm not bi, and it's our profile to do with as we see fit. If a couple posted a thread along the lines of 'why aren't there more face/boobs/fanny pics on single women's profiles so we can see what we're getting' I'm sure there'd be a lot of shouting the odds!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, that's what we learned very early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"personally if I was looking for couples I would like to see equal good photos of both the male & female. Not all sexy pics of her & cock pics of him.

a lot of couples profiles look like single women ones from the avatar / photo gallery."

Agreed! Most of the couples who message me don't get a reply since there are only pics of the female on the profile - or pics of her being intimate with so many guys that I'm playing 'guess the husband'!

Rightly or wrongly, I assume that if there are loads of pics of her and none of him then she must be by far the more attractive of the two! As I have to find both attractive as I'd want the guy to have full sex with me - this would put me off!

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I like to think that my sense of humour is my best (well, maybe 'least unattractive') feature, and we show that in the pics of Mrs ddc.

Any pics of me would simply show Mrs ddc's lack of photography skills, (as well as her thumb)

There's no point scaring them away by showing them what I look like, at least not until we have them cornered

Mr ddc

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By *ime 2 CumCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

As the male half of a couple looking for single fems I suppose we could fall into this category, we have a few of me but I suppose the reason we don't have more is it's easier for a women to look sexy in our eyes, lingerie, different poses etc.... For a guy I don't know? How do we sell ourselves?? Try not to fall into the standard "cock pics" apart from that I'm unsure lol

Take a look at our profile and offer suggestions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

We do , but we aren't bothered

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

There are more pics of me than Paul but that's because I can't persuade him to have more of him....I've posted so many of him to later find he's hidden them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

Perhaps worry about your own before you concentrate on others, just a thought

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We are guilty of this I suppose, far more photos of me than him. There is a few in there but think we could do with more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we've got an okay balance in our profile.

But looking through other couples it can be off-putting to see only the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

Perhaps worry about your own before you concentrate on others, just a thought"

I do have good clear pics of me! They show exactly what my body looks like!

I don't have face pics on public show but neither do the majority of swingers - in my case this is because someone kindly printed lots of my fab pics off, put them in a nice big brown envelope and sent them to my ex!! Like many people, I don't particularly relish the idea of someone stopping my kids in the street to tell them that their loving mum is a 'dirty swinging slag' - which was the expression used in the letter my ex husband received with the lovely pics of my smiling face both naked and in lingerie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love her body, hate mine. She is not keen on hers.

Lots of single fit toned men on here then there's me. Who would want to look at that?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

likewise

Here here

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile is the way you advertise yourself to others. If you aren't advertising the man I wouldn't expect him to be there when I met the woman. Obviously more than my foot will turn up when I meet someone,I don't show naked body pics and have a face pic in private. If I saw a single male profile with no pics at all I wouldn't be interested. It's why we look at profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Hot couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love her body, hate mine. She is not keen on hers.

Lots of single fit toned men on here then there's me. Who would want to look at that? "

The person who wants to meet the both of you and not the fir,toned body.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

Perhaps worry about your own before you concentrate on others, just a thought

I do have good clear pics of me! They show exactly what my body looks like!

Thats awful!!

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

As a single guy I don't need to feel attracted to the man however, it is certainly always nice to at least have an idea about what he looks like. Strangely this is not always provided, even privately once corresponding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have a good and varied selection of both of us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

Perhaps worry about your own before you concentrate on others, just a thought

I do have good clear pics of me! They show exactly what my body looks like!

Thats awful!!

Yeah it wasn't the best day I've ever had!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

Perhaps worry about your own before you concentrate on others, just a thought

I do have good clear pics of me! They show exactly what my body looks like!

Either way you're comfortable to dictate what others post but you didn't like it being done to you, so maybe don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

You got ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please couples - have good clear pics of both of you on your public pictures!

Perhaps worry about your own before you concentrate on others, just a thought

I do have good clear pics of me! They show exactly what my body looks like!

Either way you're comfortable to dictate what others post but you didn't like it being done to you, so maybe don't do it

Sorry but I'm not with you! When I asked for clear pics of them both I meant clear pics to show what BOTH bodies look like from foot to shoulder - just like I do! If his torso interests me along with her body - and their profile text is good - then we all swap face pics like any other proposed meet!

My profile shows people exactly what I'm like in body and, equally important, in personality!! X

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

The only photo of me (M) on our public profile went up on Saturday, because I was asking if people thought pink pants were acceptable for a meet!

Hadn't really thought about it before, but we do send out a clear picture of us both together when we are messaging someone, so there is no doubt as to what we look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a single male and i have to admit i love the pics of couples, sorts of gives me a buzz knowing they like to have fun togather

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"personally if I was looking for couples I would like to see equal good photos of both the male & female. Not all sexy pics of her & cock pics of him.

a lot of couples profiles look like single women ones from the avatar / photo gallery."

Exactly my point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As the male half of a couple looking for single fems I suppose we could fall into this category, we have a few of me but I suppose the reason we don't have more is it's easier for a women to look sexy in our eyes, lingerie, different poses etc.... For a guy I don't know? How do we sell ourselves?? Try not to fall into the standard "cock pics" apart from that I'm unsure lol

There's nothing wrong with yours. I never expect face pics on public view. These are easily shared. But the pictures you do have show me your body type And sexy pics of men. For me it has to be the suit or shirt pictures nom nom

Take a look at our profile and offer suggestions lol "

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By *usty roseCouple
over a year ago

Filthy F**ks x

Ours only has female on show because I am heavily inked and wouldn't want to be recognised by them. But if we contacted anyone we would and do attach pictures of both of us. And if someone were to think we were a fake profile they would only have to check verification list from our previous meets. Although we've always prefered the spontaneity of visiting localish swing club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love her body, hate mine. She is not keen on hers.

Lots of single fit toned men on here then there's me. Who would want to look at that? "

You'd be very surprised. I have lots of curves something I thought would only be of interest to a few. How wrong can you be. We're all

Normal

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By *usty roseCouple
over a year ago

Filthy F**ks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A profile is the way you advertise yourself to others. If you aren't advertising the man I wouldn't expect him to be there when I met the woman. Obviously more than my foot will turn up when I meet someone,I don't show naked body pics and have a face pic in private. If I saw a single male profile with no pics at all I wouldn't be interested. It's why we look at profiles. "

Exactly. I hear lots of couples say that the single girl is hard to find. Yet some of the profiles that are looking for the single girl are mainly showing single girls!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The only photo of me (M) on our public profile went up on Saturday, because I was asking if people thought pink pants were acceptable for a meet!

Hadn't really thought about it before, but we do send out a clear picture of us both together when we are messaging someone, so there is no doubt as to what we look like. "

I'm essentially a straight female who will play with couples. So to interest me I like to see the male as much as the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think that for the few photos On our profile, we have a nice balance.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"The only photo of me (M) on our public profile went up on Saturday, because I was asking if people thought pink pants were acceptable for a meet!

Hadn't really thought about it before, but we do send out a clear picture of us both together when we are messaging someone, so there is no doubt as to what we look like.

I'm essentially a straight female who will play with couples. So to interest me I like to see the male as much as the female "

Sure, that's the same as with a bi female, which is what we look for.

I think when we signed up to Fab and we looked at profiles similar to ours we saw mainly pictures of the women in the couple, so we did the same.

I don't think it's affected us negatively, mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to have mostly Nat. But have been putting more of me and both of us lately. Even had a face pic as our avatar briefly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having said that, they are still weighted towards her

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

You got ours

Indeed I do and he's a very dashing fella - still you I'd like to do out of the two of you though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like to think that for the few photos On our profile, we have a nice balance. "

Perfect couples profile in my eyes

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Amazing photos !! That's the sort of couple profile i would be attracted too "

I agree, great pics!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having said that, they are still weighted towards her

Yes I just saw she has a nice bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have in our opinion a good profile but its up to you to decide that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've recently started looking through couple profiles. Yes I'm that single girl

You got ours

Indeed I do and he's a very dashing fella - still you I'd like to do out of the two of you though

Is it wrong to just want to touch your body it looks so damn hard!! Torso torso !!!!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We have some of both, however we are a Beauty and the Beast couple, so most of the pics are of Beauty rather than Beast.

I don't have any cock shots on public, I'm sure everyone on fab has seen enough cocks to last a lifetime! But if people are really interested in my size then there is one or maybe even two in our friends gallery.

Another thing that drives me crazy, is when you do get a photo of the man, the have that psycho look in their eyes. Smiles really do help!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Happy to say we don't fall into that category of couples

Amazing photos !! That's the sort of couple profile i would be attracted too "

I agree, great pics!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to think that for the few photos On our profile, we have a nice balance.

Perfect couples profile in my eyes "

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