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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anybody wear a lifestyle ring?

For those who don't know, it's a black ring worn on the right hand to show your are part of the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard of that one

What with the pampas grass,the car sticker,the ankle chain,the tattoo and the swing pin I don't think I have room for any more subtle hints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never heard of that one

What with the pampas grass,the car sticker,the ankle chain,the tattoo and the swing pin I don't think I have room for any more subtle hints "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read about this the other day,so no we dont,but have discussed it between ourselves, we are still pretty new so thats probably why we have never heard of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never heard of that one

What with the pampas grass,the car sticker,the ankle chain,the tattoo and the swing pin I don't think I have room for any more subtle hints "

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Never heard of that one

What with the pampas grass,the car sticker,the ankle chain,the tattoo and the swing pin I don't think I have room for any more subtle hints "

But does anyone know or take the hints?

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"I read about this the other day,so no we dont,but have discussed it between ourselves, we are still pretty new so thats probably why we have never heard of it"

We been playing 14 years and never heard of it so think it's a myth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HANKIE CODE : lack: Heavy S&M (Indicates the wearer's interest in hardcore S&M play, especially whipping.)

Red: Fisting

Dark Red: Two-handed Anal fisting

Brick Red: Blood play

Teal: Cock and ball torture

Dark blue: Anal sex

Light blue: Oral sex

Medium Blue: Uniform fetish

Yellow: Watersports

Light Yellow: Spitting

Beige: Anal-oral sex, Anilingus

Brown: Scat

Burnt Umber: Extreme sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pineapple placed upside down in a shopping cart

A pineapple door knocker

A woman wears an anklet on her right leg

A woman wears an anklet on her left leg

White landscaping rocks in someone’s front yard

Wearing a thumb ring

Wearing a toe ring

A man or woman wearing a red ball cap

Switching the wedding ring to the right hand

Yin-Yang tattoo

Pampas grass in the front yard garden

Pink or purple decorations in the front yard

A fire pit in the yard

A hot tub in the yard

Now I have to watch everything I do in case I give the game away

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ive never heard of a lifestyle ring

i wouldn't wear one tbh to advertise i was in the lifestyle

as it reminds me of my wedding ring an since im newly divorced i dont want to wear any ring as it reminds me of marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women with tight curly perms

Men with massive taches and a medallion

Men wearing flares and an open necked shirt

Women with carpet burns on their elbows and forehead

Men (and women) that struggle to talk due to tongue strain

Couples over 40 that talk to each other in public

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By *ary_JosephCouple
over a year ago

South Shields


"Does anybody wear a lifestyle ring?

For those who don't know, it's a black ring worn on the right hand to show your are part of the lifestyle.

"

Yup, we wear them with pride....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women with tight curly perms

Men with massive taches and a medallion

Men wearing flares and an open necked shirt

Women with carpet burns on their elbows and forehead

Men (and women) that struggle to talk due to tongue strain

Couples over 40 that talk to each other in public

"

Ha-ha, yes, - laughing so much thanks for sharing ! Remind me to take cushion to kneel on next time I go to clud! x

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

weve got an old hot tub strapped onto the car roof rack ,,,, as we drive around every one says 'ohhh look they must be swingers ',,,,,, tis a bugger in multistorey car parks tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody wear a lifestyle ring?

For those who don't know, it's a black ring worn on the right hand to show your are part of the lifestyle.

"

Ive just bought some ankle chains as I used to wear them as a teenager and fancied it again. Didn't know they were indicators of swinging, I quite like the sound of the black ring as a accessory, regardless of what it means. Where can I get one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with massive taches and a medallion

Men wearing flares and an open necked shirt

Next you will be telling me the mullet has gone out of fashion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to wear an ankle chain all the time till it broke grrr. Need a new one . Might have a look at rings see if there's any pretty ones ....it is nearly Xmas so might treat myself

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If your mobile phone rings with music that sounds like a 70s porno track?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

These sort of 'codes' are just nonsense.

You can understand why people want them to be true, because it's very difficult to say the least to broach the subject of someone potentially being a swinger in 'normal' life...but it's just not the case.

Unless you meet them in a swingers' club, of course. Then you can probably take them as a sign they are a swinger with some confidence!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I've got a ring for kink but these are old old notions (pre t'web)

I think the hanky one is listed in screw the roses,

I wear a collar openly and even have handcuff earrings that I wear in nilla settings. Walking round Manchester City centre a few weeks ago I saw people wearing tails on the street. (Not Bütt plug ones that would have made me more)

The world's a much more diverse place now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was a sign of some sort to identify swingers we would use it. Not all the time but when on holiday or the odd night out in town.

Has anyone actually seen someone wearing black rings in a vanilla setting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never knew such things existed. Seems I have a hell of a lot to learn which is why I hired myself innocence as a mentor.

Bloody lot of good she has turned out to be it seems. To busy getting rodgered no doubt.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I wear a thumb ring and have done since the age of 16 but I wasn't swinging then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HANKIE CODE : lack: Heavy S&M (Indicates the wearer's interest in hardcore S&M play, especially whipping.)

Red: Fisting

Dark Red: Two-handed Anal fisting

Brick Red: Blood play

Teal: Cock and ball torture

Dark blue: Anal sex

Light blue: Oral sex

Medium Blue: Uniform fetish

Yellow: Watersports

Light Yellow: Spitting

Beige: Anal-oral sex, Anilingus

Brown: Scat

Burnt Umber: Extreme sex

"

Err the "hankie" code used to be a gay thing you're gonna be giving some mixed signals lol

Problem is any code widespread enough to be useful will be widespread enough to be common knowledge and out you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HANKIE CODE : lack: Heavy S&M (Indicates the wearer's interest in hardcore S&M play, especially whipping.)

Red: Fisting

Dark Red: Two-handed Anal fisting

Brick Red: Blood play

Teal: Cock and ball torture

Dark blue: Anal sex

Light blue: Oral sex

Medium Blue: Uniform fetish

Yellow: Watersports

Light Yellow: Spitting

Beige: Anal-oral sex, Anilingus

Brown: Scat

Burnt Umber: Extreme sex

"

I'd need a multi colour one then apart from the brown!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Is it any black ring as I have a few black rings, this was the first I've heard of it.

Where did the information come from Op?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I just Googled it and there is a website about it selling these black rings. If I'm allowed I will post the link, as I'm not sure if we can post links or not on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never knew such things existed. Seems I have a hell of a lot to learn which is why I hired myself innocence as a mentor.

Bloody lot of good she has turned out to be it seems. To busy getting rodgered no doubt."

Yes I was busy lol and I'd like a black ring lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never heard of that one

What with the pampas grass,the car sticker,the ankle chain,the tattoo and the swing pin I don't think I have room for any more subtle hints "
I never knew about the pampas grass, got an enormous growth on my front lawn but no one has come knocking on the door seeking me.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Tried the black ring thing a few years ago but no reaction from anyone. She always wears an ankle bracelet for a swinging meet or a club visit, and always on beaches (nude or textile).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is very amusing to read

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Problem is any code widespread enough to be useful will be widespread enough to be common knowledge and out you."

Exactly. Which is why they don't exist! It should be quite a clue that whenever these threads come up on Fab, the majority of people here have never heard of them.

And we know they are swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a gold wedding band seems to suggest to most people that I can be had! I didn't know that was an alternative lifestyle sign lol.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I find a gold wedding band seems to suggest to most people that I can be had! I didn't know that was an alternative lifestyle sign lol. "

I must admit, I got more offers as a much larger lady with a wedding band on... now I get about as much interest as a white crayon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a gold wedding band seems to suggest to most people that I can be had! I didn't know that was an alternative lifestyle sign lol.

I must admit, I got more offers as a much larger lady with a wedding band on... now I get about as much interest as a white crayon "
It's like a red rag to a bull lol!

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

I deliver hot tubs swing them from my crane over the pampas grass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women with tight curly perms

Men with massive taches and a medallion

Men wearing flares and an open necked shirt

Women with carpet burns on their elbows and forehead

Men (and women) that struggle to talk due to tongue strain

Couples over 40 that talk to each other in public

Ha-ha, yes, - laughing so much thanks for sharing ! Remind me to take cushion to kneel on next time I go to clud! x"

Women that carry cushions.

Mullets.

More to watch out for.

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