FabSwingers.com forum: He wants to play with couples but she refuse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We ve been together for quite long time about year and half start swinging so far met for threesomes FFM play she seems to like it a lot

But recently we had a conversation about meeting up with couples but she strongly refusing saying that having sex with another man would be wrong and could spoil future relationship between us for what

Any suggestions?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

respect her wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ignore what she's saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"respect her wishes?"

Sometimes it's just sounds wrong from my point of view ffm

She was not jelious but seem like she think that i will so can't cross this line yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't ignore what she's saying. "

Never ignore her she leads the play so....

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"respect her wishes?

Sometimes it's just sounds wrong from my point of view ffm

She was not jelious but seem like she think that i will so can't cross this line yet"

Uhm, excuse me? I can't make head nor tail of what you are trying to say.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Why do you say ' yet ' ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you say ' yet ' ?"

Think it would be fair

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

But you have a meet verification from a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But you have a meet verification from a couple ?"

She couldn't change profile to single

We ve met only girl as they split up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why do you say ' yet ' ?

Think it would be fair "

It isn't like sharing out a bag of sweets. If either partner doesn't want to do something even if they are happy for the other one to its wise to respect their wishes.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

So you are sad because your girl wants you to fuck other girls but she refuses to fuck other men...Is that your problem!? Seriously...!?

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By *anDeeCouple
over a year ago

bolton

"respect her wishes?"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"So you are sad because your girl wants you to fuck other girls but she refuses to fuck other men...Is that your problem!? Seriously...!?"

Looks like that

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I would happily have a FFM meet with my current lover, but would not be interested in MMF as thats not what works for us, but being poly and open, we both meet others as singles. Works for us.

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"So you are sad because your girl wants you to fuck other girls but she refuses to fuck other men...Is that your problem!? Seriously...!?

Looks like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you are sad because your girl wants you to fuck other girls but she refuses to fuck other men...Is that your problem!? Seriously...!?

Looks like that

Not sad at all

thought this could be fun and d spice things up thats all

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Can not understand why your on a Swinging site

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us at least rule number 1 for successful swinging (actually the only rule) is never try to persuade your partner to do anything that they are uncomfortable with. Mutual trust, security and understanding will often create an environment where one partner will, by themselves and without pressure, push their own boundaries.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Respect her wishes.. I haven't had sex with other men on meets. Ladies yes.

Talk to her and make sure she's happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Respect her wishes.. I haven't had sex with other men on meets. Ladies yes.

Talk to her and make sure she's happy "

Keeping her happy was the main reason we start swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

We ve been together for quite long time about year and half start swinging so far met for threesomes FFM play she seems to like it a lot

Any suggestions?

Listen to what she wants or it will all fall apart. if and when she is ready she will do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about Soft swing, my wife has no interest in being fucked by other men. she's had plenty of offers and my blessing but she loves sex with women more. she will play with men and she enjoys wanking, sucking and receiving from men just no penetration and we're both happy and content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

We ve been together for quite long time about year and half start swinging so far met for threesomes FFM play she seems to like it a lot

Any suggestions?

Honestly interested in why she thinking her shagging a man could spoil your relationship but your shagging woman won't

Of course you have to respect her wishes, if she don't want to she don't want to but im seriously interested to know her reason behind this feeling

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