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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone

Any couples on here letting female partner playing alone? Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

Any couples on here letting female partner playing alone? Why? "

Yes, there are no compatible couples.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We play separately as well as together, always have. I have more freedom than he does and he likes to hear all about what I've been up to, and see pics/video

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant that Letting female partner to meet a single male not another couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant that Letting female partner to meet a single male not another couple. "

Yes that's what i ment to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We play separately as well as together, always have. I have more freedom than he does and he likes to hear all about what I've been up to, and see pics/video "

Do take video n pic with your own device or his?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby allows me to go out and play with single guys even overnight stays. He is disabled and is unable to give me the attention I need. He knows I'll tell him all about the meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i meet single guys alone. It's just easier with babysitting and also finding the right couple has proved impossible for us as a couple.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us sharing the experience is what swinging is all about so neither of us would ever play alone. Hearing about the sex afterwards rather than experiencing it would be, for us, the difference between someone telling us about the plot of a movie and us going to see the movie ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hubby allows me to go out and play with single guys even overnight stays. He is disabled and is unable to give me the attention I need. He knows I'll tell him all about the meets. "

That's fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For us sharing the experience is what swinging is all about so neither of us would ever play alone. Hearing about the sex afterwards rather than experiencing it would be, for us, the difference between someone telling us about the plot of a movie and us going to see the movie ourselves. "

Husband chatting, I like her to meet a guy we know and trust, she play alone also play as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us sharing the experience is what swinging is all about so neither of us would ever play alone. Hearing about the sex afterwards rather than experiencing it would be, for us, the difference between someone telling us about the plot of a movie and us going to see the movie ourselves.

Husband chatting, I like her to meet a guy we know and trust, she play alone also play as a couple. "

So what's your issue?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Depends how you define meeting alone.

I am half a couple and we both play separately, we haven't played as a couple with another couple for well over a year, it isn't that easy finding 4 people who are all interested in playing.

So we go to a club together but play separately once there, I have no interest in a MFF and he has no interest in a MFM, so it is just easier to play on our own.

He can go to clubs on his own, and we are thinking about him meeting privately (I'm not sure I am there yet), but I only play in clubs which I go to with my husband.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hi everyone

Any couples on here letting female partner playing alone? Why? "

Not sure about your terminology here - why would the female be 'let'? Does she have to ask for permission? I let my partner (male) play alone and he has his single profile for that - as we also meet together; I decide if I meet alone (not up to him to let me, as he does not own me or dictate what I do). I have a single profile for that, but he does not get involved in it in any way. We play alone at clubs - we go together as a couple so share the experience but play with others then come back together at various times throughout the evening sometimes with couples, sometimes with single men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

Any couples on here letting female partner playing alone? Why?

Not sure about your terminology here - why would the female be 'let'? Does she have to ask for permission? I let my partner (male) play alone and he has his single profile for that - as we also meet together; I decide if I meet alone (not up to him to let me, as he does not own me or dictate what I do). I have a single profile for that, but he does not get involved in it in any way. We play alone at clubs - we go together as a couple so share the experience but play with others then come back together at various times throughout the evening sometimes with couples, sometimes with single men. "

Well she want to meet the only one guy which we met and meet as a couple. Otherwise she or me will never play alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i hope so

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Yes, I meet alone as an extra kink. We find it a huge turn on.

From me getting dressed up for other men to enjoy, to enjoying the extra sex. My fella left wondering what I'm up to... And the anticipation of hearing all about it when I get home. It works for us at this moment in time.

Mrs x

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By *omersetfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I love playing together, alone or away from home (other half not present)

Met some wonderful people that way, specially up north...

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play alone and together x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"For us sharing the experience is what swinging is all about so neither of us would ever play alone. Hearing about the sex afterwards rather than experiencing it would be, for us, the difference between someone telling us about the plot of a movie and us going to see the movie ourselves. "

Exactly the same for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I meet alone as an extra kink. We find it a huge turn on.

From me getting dressed up for other men to enjoy, to enjoying the extra sex. My fella left wondering what I'm up to... And the anticipation of hearing all about it when I get home. It works for us at this moment in time.

Mrs x"

Thats pretty much spot on for us. I do prefer being present but due to work not always possible so she teases me until I get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's a shared experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play separately as well as together, always have. I have more freedom than he does and he likes to hear all about what I've been up to, and see pics/video "
we do the same but I have more freedom than she does id love her to go out and fuck some other guy come home and tell me all about show me pics and vids while she rides me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it's a shared experience. "

Couples that meet alone still have that shared experience it's just in a different way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I meet alone as an extra kink. We find it a huge turn on.

From me getting dressed up for other men to enjoy, to enjoying the extra sex. My fella left wondering what I'm up to... And the anticipation of hearing all about it when I get home. It works for us at this moment in time.

Mrs x"

Same for us

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Done it once for Paul with someone we had fun with a few times did not feel safe

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We also play separately, but for us, its move about giving each other sexual freedom, rather than both enjoying it sexually, if that makes sense.

Some couples like to play that way, others prefer to play together, but we would love to meet more couples that also play separately.

Swinging separately isn't for everyone. Whatever you do OP, its up to you, there isn't a right or a wrong way to swing.

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By *rlicker123Man
over a year ago

gillingham kent

we are the same I have my profile she has her's we play together or on our own the wife more than me on her own then she tells me about it .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I meet alone, I use this site as a single female

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