Tough choice or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you meet a guy/gal that you really like who is not in the swinging/fab world, what would you do?

Tell them & try to corrupt them?

Pack it all in & go for the relationship?

Stay on fabs but still play in secret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2, but I would wait a while until I knew how the relationship was and possibly go for number 1 if it felt right.

Number 3 wouldn't be an option. For me.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def not the third one if you want it to go anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I think trying to corrupt someone can cause more harm than good.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

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2 and 3....but not the play in secret bit.

Once sure I'd go for the relationship but hide or re-write my profile so I could still chat to friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them and let them decide for themselves rather than try to corrupt them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't even think about entering a relationship whilst doing all this, but if I did meet someone I would be straight with then as to what my desires & needs are then they can make up their own mind as to how they proceed as I'm not prepared to give it up in the foreseeable future. I wouldn't want a swinging relationship as they are very complicated & trust could become a massive issue

But that just my view

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