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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i find it sad why women have to put abit overweight or similar things on there profile i look at these pics and there all very sexy ladies and i just dont see what they see x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eh? "
why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it "

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though "
good i neither should you i like all shapes and sizes just never put a name to it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it "

Some people see themselves as overweight when they aren't and some people know they're overweight and are happy to acknowledge that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though good i neither should you i like all shapes and sizes just never put a name to it "

You have to put something though so just put what you feel comfortable with

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well I am over weight and just being honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though good i neither should you i like all shapes and sizes just never put a name to it

You have to put something though so just put what you feel comfortable with "
yeah i suppose

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though good i neither should you i like all shapes and sizes just never put a name to it "

It's only sad if the women are unhappy surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be upfront about these things.

There's a three stone weight difference in my photos, so people need to know the ugly truth before clapping eyes on me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best to be upfront about these things.

There's a three stone weight difference in my photos, so people need to know the ugly truth before clapping eyes on me!"
lol ugly truth i doubt that but understand what your saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though good i neither should you i like all shapes and sizes just never put a name to it

It's only sad if the women are unhappy surely."
yeah i agree but just talking from my side it makes me sad that they have to say i am overweight when in my eyes the body is beutiful in all its forms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best to be upfront about these things.

There's a three stone weight difference in my photos, so people need to know the ugly truth before clapping eyes on me!"

All your pics look similar though? Or did you mean they're old pics I'm confused?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best to be upfront about these things.

There's a three stone weight difference in my photos, so people need to know the ugly truth before clapping eyes on me!lol ugly truth i doubt that but understand what your saying "

You appreciate all body forms yet the only person you've complimented is thin...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best to be upfront about these things.

There's a three stone weight difference in my photos, so people need to know the ugly truth before clapping eyes on me!

All your pics look similar though? Or did you mean they're old pics I'm confused? "
im confused now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's self identity. How I see myself, is not how someone else will see me, which I suppose has it's pros and cons. I have put average on my profile (the bit where you indicate) but have people telling me i'm not, but I don't see myself as slim or large, so I stick average there. Without there being a definition of what each means, we all interpretate it differently

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"i find it sad why women have to put abit overweight or similar things on there profile i look at these pics and there all very sexy ladies and i just dont see what they see x"

You don't see any overweight women ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Eh? why they see them selfes as overweight etc when i dont see it

It's how you see yourself personally. S wasn't overly impressed when I changed my description from 'curvy' to 'ample' but I've put on weight. Doesn't mean I think less of myself though good i neither should you i like all shapes and sizes just never put a name to it

It's only sad if the women are unhappy surely.yeah i agree but just talking from my side it makes me sad that they have to say i am overweight when in my eyes the body is beutiful in all its forms x"

I agree but you can still appreciate it in all its forms without feeling sad about the way women choose to describe it.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"i find it sad why women have to put abit overweight or similar things on there profile i look at these pics and there all very sexy ladies and i just dont see what they see x"

People often see themselves different to how others do.

However some photos can be flattering and don't show very lump and bump. Maybe they don't want people to be disappointed if they meet in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes it's because they've had abusive messages calling them fat when they reject other guys, so they're calling themselves fat before they do, and they can point out that they are indeed fat when someone calls them that.

Also, some people are embarassed about being fat so won't put pics of themself looking fat up so need to warn guys they're fat in case the guy won't fancy them for being fat.

I don't describe myself on my page really, got pics up and people can see for themselves what i look like. No awkwardness during conversations or meets for me, what you see is what you get.

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