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How do you know you're on someone's hotlist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening,

Is the hotlist just private and there is no way to know about it?

I would be curious one day to know if I made it to soneone who is actually on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's totally private, if you are that interested post it up and luck may be on your side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's private, no one knows xx (although I do suspect you could tell based on your recently viewed page, on how many times the same person views your profile in a day!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's private, no one knows xx (although I do suspect you could tell based on your recently viewed page, on how many times the same person views your profile in a day!) "

A lot of people stay hidden from that as it can attract unwarranted attention... However I've met a couple of lovely people through that very function

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There's no way of knowing

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Would be nice to know who has us on their hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will only know if they tell you. Been told a few times

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't really use the hotlist much. I put someone on it if there's a chance we'll meet. So we have to be talking already.

If we don't end up meeting then they get deleted

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"I don't really use the hotlist much. I put someone on it if there's a chance we'll meet. So we have to be talking already.

If we don't end up meeting then they get deleted "

That's what I do, I call it the "to do" list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for clarifying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening,

Is the hotlist just private and there is no way to know about it?

I would be curious one day to know if I made it to soneone who is actually on mine "

You don't know. All you can do is have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really use the hotlist much. I put someone on it if there's a chance we'll meet. So we have to be talking already.

If we don't end up meeting then they get deleted

That's what I do, I call it the "to do" list "

It's my, I hope I stand a chance, but it's worse odds than the lottery list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one person on mine. Been told I'm on a few others.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I use it as a place holder for peple I fancy but don't have to message at that moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have three on mine. Im more likely on someone's hit list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine to view the hot forum men from afar, plus I'm in stealth mode so I'm good to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever had one person on mine so far. Not someone remotely attractive to me, but his pics were unintentionally hilarious.

He's made them friends only recently. He's off my hotlist now.

I didn't message him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's private, no one knows xx (although I do suspect you could tell based on your recently viewed page, on how many times the same person views your profile in a day!) "

I never thought of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a bit switched on, then you can tell from your recently viewed list.

For instance, every time you load a picture or every time you change your status. Although, that all goes to pot if they're a stealth perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be interesting if profiles that have each other on their hotlist were alerted about it

You could either ignore each other act on it

I know that some people use the hotlist as a not list. ..that would make being alerted more amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's private, no one knows xx (although I do suspect you could tell based on your recently viewed page, on how many times the same person views your profile in a day!)

I never thought of that. "

So you think..right I must be on their hotlist..they view several times in a week. So you message..and guess what..they ignore and delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it would be interesting if profiles that have each other on their hotlist were alerted about it

You could either ignore each other act on it

"

I think that's actually a very good idea indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening,

Is the hotlist just private and there is no way to know about it?

I would be curious one day to know if I made it to soneone who is actually on mine "
ask them ,easy

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

I'd like to know if I'm on somebody's hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know if I'm on somebody's hotlist "
who's hotlist would you like to be on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know if I'm on somebody's hotlist "

Why would you?

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"I'd like to know if I'm on somebody's hotlist who's hotlist would you like to be on ? "

I wouldn't object to being on yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to know if I'm on somebody's hotlist

Why would you? "

I'm sure I'm more likely on a hit list than hot list lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know if you're in stealth mode? Asking for a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really use the hotlist much. I put someone on it if there's a chance we'll meet. So we have to be talking already.

If we don't end up meeting then they get deleted "

This but also tell them so they know and when we have skyped and both fancy meeting they move to our friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if you're in stealth mode? Asking for a friend. "

Privacy settings / hide on 'looked at me'

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By *ixFoot2nFun4UMan
over a year ago

gosport

There is a few people in this tread who are on my hotlist. If I ever end up travelling near they are I will certainly be sending a message and acting upon it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Am I on anyone's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I on anyone's? "

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to know if I made a hotlist out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I on anyone's? "

If I had a male hotlist you and Shagtonight would be the first names on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be able to tell when the same person or persons keep fabbing your pictures, surely there is a bit of a hint there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I on anyone's? "
ohhh can I try that..... Am I on anyone's

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You might be able to tell when the same person or persons keep fabbing your pictures, surely there is a bit of a hint there."

That's how we guess.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Evening,

Is the hotlist just private and there is no way to know about it?

I would be curious one day to know if I made it to soneone who is actually on mine "

Well, if anyone wants to know if they are on mine, they just need to check the my list on the other thread . Btw OP, fortunately you are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I would not be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use mine to view the hot forum men from afar, plus I'm in stealth mode so I'm good to go!"

Stealth mode , is the worst!

It's like getting caught staring at men's bums in the street and looking at the floor ; not giving them a smile.

.... Letching for free

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Evening,

Is the hotlist just private and there is no way to know about it?

I would be curious one day to know if I made it to soneone who is actually on mine "

No they are private.

You can sometimes guess when the same people fab every new photo that you post.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Post a new pic and see how many Fabs you get within a couple of hours not from your area.

Gives an idea on whose hotlist you're on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I on anyone's? "

Mine

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