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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had no luck really on here with women or couples and wanted to gauge opinion on whether the cause is something to do with my profile, unattractive pictures or women just not wanting a sub?

Opinions gratefully received.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Cock pics put me off and so does the lingerie. If I'm going to put a man in panties I'd like to know how manly he is first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhh ok thanks. So you think full bodied pics showing tattoos scars etc may help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies underwear puts me off. Sorry.

Now, if you were a convincing TV I'd like it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A nice torso pic, your bum even

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Ditto to the above....and partner?

With or without your knowledge I'm thinking. Can put people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the pics, and think you should have pics that reflect what a person would expect of you at a meet, looks and clothing wise.

Your profile writing seems ok too, not too much on it but enough to get the idea of what you're into.

Most men find it hard to get what they want online, that's just how it is.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"...and partner?

With or without your knowledge I'm thinking. Can put people off."

I missed that

For that reason, I'd be out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback. So having a partner is a detriment? I could leave it off I suppose but thought honesty the best policy.

I will get to work on the pictures soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the feedback. So having a partner is a detriment? I could leave it off I suppose but thought honesty the best policy.

I will get to work on the pictures soon. "

Some people won't care you have one, and some people will specifically seek out those with partners. But most people do think honesty is the best policy yes.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thanks for the feedback. So having a partner is a detriment? I could leave it off I suppose but thought honesty the best policy.

I will get to work on the pictures soon. "

Honesty is the best policy but don't expect people who it bothers to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think profile is alright though didn't look at pics. You are looking for a niche however and the fact that you have a partner could turn people off but honesty is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again for the opinions, have rewritten the profile to give a better idea (i hope) of what I'm about as a whole rather than it being focused on just one aspect. I think I got caught up in the excitement and turn on when creating the profile rather than sitting back and thinking ha.

I've also changed the pictures after the advice here and will take more revealing and hopefully more appealing ones at the weekend without them being focused on singular body parts of course

Anyway, thanks again.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Post on this thread with your new profile please

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