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Does age matter to you?

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By *ickyandMallory1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it don't, just be between 18 and 97

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's down to the personality but generally I find I am drawn to older guys and women similar age to me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Don't think it matters to me somehow I'm 50 my partner is 72 been together almost ten years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "
I agree it's about personality and looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it don't, just be between 18 and 97 "

Come on shag. Those 98 year olds give great head. Don't be ignorant

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

We have an age limit however it depends really on the person I have met much older... not sure about much younger I wouldn't want to feel like I'm with one of the kids mates would feel wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people are happy then age is irrelevant

I tend to drift towards people of a similar age as we have more in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it don't, just be between 18 and 97

Come on shag. Those 98 year olds give great head. Don't be ignorant "
loll and that's right, they do as well, yeah would go up to 100.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

Age gaps between other people don't matter to us at all, to us age is irrefutably a number but the size of the number is significant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age does matter to me - as evidenced by our age restrictions.

I like meeting with people who have similar experiences to my own and I also tend to be more attracted to people around my age.

Marc is more flexible, but I was the one who got to set the age restrictions.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really bothered as long as they are young at heart. I do have an upper age limit but that's because I feel I should have some limit

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

not at all my beast is 11 years older does not act or perform like it haha, age is seriously just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think that i wouldn't be into older men but then I realised its not the age really it's if I'm attracted to them, there are some mighty fine older men out there, like there are some younger men out there that don't do it for me, so my rule of thumb now is if I find them attractive the age doesn't matter

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We generally look for people 10 years +/- of our age, but this is more or a rule of thumb, rather than set in stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only as old as the man you feel.

Anyone fancy feeling 43?

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By *weetcandy225Couple
over a year ago

london


"Don't think it matters to me somehow I'm 50 my partner is 72 been together almost ten years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an age bracket for Fab but early 20's to late 40's is usually the ages of people I meet.

In the real world, I don't think I'd settle down with anyone too far away from my own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing really matters..... to meeeeeee

That's bollocks of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not as long as there is an attraction then I'm happy

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Age is certainly more than just a number. Count the wrinkles! But does age matter? Not to me - I have played with men from their twenties to their sixties. It is how attractive I find them that matters.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Yes, age is important.

We're not attracted to older couples and really young couples tend to be a drama nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me yes,I don't meet men my age or over. I could possibly make exceptions but so far everyone has been younger. For everyone else,I don't give a damn.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Doesn't matter to us. It is far more about the people and how we click... Or not as the case may be.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

No as long as they are respectful got a good sense of humour clean then who knows X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not matter to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It matters to me... But Mr doesn't mind as much.

We have met all ages in clubs but if someone outside our age range tried to message I'd say thanks but no thanks x

Younger I really struggle with... And guys that look over a certain age I find myself thinking sorry but I can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never has to me as I've always been attracted to men older than me, we have a 15 year age gap and no one can really tell as he's massively into the gym and looking after himself. We recently got asked if there was an age gap - I didn't know whether to be insulted or not it's not about age if you don't act tools or too young it's about attraction for me and regardless of age I'm either attracted or I'm not.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

With us. I Mr am not that bothered about ages, range from 25 to 53. Mrs prefers from 28 to 48 but it's really about the person more than the age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer plus or minus about 10 to 12 years really but always happy to flex a little either way. Too young feels a little bit sinister (yeah I know it's all legal and everything ..) and too old is, well, too old ..

But for the right people I guess age is indeed just a number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to meet older, up to 60, I suppose.

Can't be doing with younger men, though. I don't know why. I find personalities attractive, not pretty faces. I just feel as though we have nothing in common.

So, no, age is not just a number, to me.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the attraction. If the woman is attractive, age doesn't come into it

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

If the attraction is there, then no, of course it doesn't matter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No big deal to us.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I've just checked the age range on my profile and it was +/- 15 years.

I think I set it so because when I joined Fab I thought +15 years would be max age of a person that would attract me and by that rationale I should set the younger limit to same age gap.

Age does not necessarily define a person in any way but it is a guide. I have met people outside my age range because the 'getting to know you' dynamic was right. It is not a hard and fast requirement of mine but ... oh hell I've just talked myself into removing the damn age range

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It matters to me on paper, it doesn't matter in person. I have double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always seem to be attracted to younger. Sometimes around same age. But not older....yet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

On here I have my upper age range as one year below my age

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Yes age does matter to me. My age range on here isn't 100% set in stone but it is a preference, I have played with younger and older but my aim is to only meet those within my age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys who don't need a sat nav around a womans body. 33 and above is my cut off. Although the 33 year old guy os on the limit, If he dosnt fill my pussy soon it will be upped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a cut off somewhere.I'm just not sure where ?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We have an age limit however it depends really on the person I have met much older... not sure about much younger I wouldn't want to feel like I'm with one of the kids mates would feel wrong "

What they said

Wd40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 25 and I love the older woman...mid 40's is a great age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, some hugely encouraging responses in here and several from ladies/couples quite close to me.

Age makes no real difference to me, as each has its own, special appeal.

As a general rule, I have always fancied older women... but they're all my own age now!

I've met people from 25 to 60 on here and loved every different minute with all of them.

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By *ickyandMallory1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

Well I think the majority of Fabbers are like us age is a number personality is what counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think the majority of Fabbers are like us age is a number personality is what counts "

I agree 100 per cent. Got to find anyone I meet socially, as well as sexually, attractive. So not on here just for a quick sh*g - it so misses the point for me.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

It is just a number. You either like someone or you don't. You're either attracted to someone or you're not. How many days that person has been on this earth is meaningless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does matter to me...

I'm drawn to innocence, youth, no responsibility and no baggage...so for me only younger guys will do. Prefer mid twenties myself. Never been attracted to anyone older than me for some reason.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"It does matter to me...

I'm drawn to innocence, youth, no responsibility and no baggage...so for me only younger guys will do. Prefer mid twenties myself. Never been attracted to anyone older than me for some reason."

Damn shame I say...but then I am just jealous of the young whipper snappers that get to have fun with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

Doesn't matter but I think we all have sub-conscious limits.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "
Well Ed Sheeran will love you til you're 70 but 71?? na go jump off a cliff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter to me. My age settings are a guideline on here. If your older but I think your fit then im all for it.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Doesn't matter to me. My age settings are a guideline on here. If your older but I think your fit then im all for it. "
Still feeling poorly call 1800mxyxptlk for cures of all that ails ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to me..not an issue

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"No it don't, just be between 18 and 97

Come on shag. Those 98 year olds give great head. Don't be ignorant "

No teeth. That's their secret!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i dont seek out those under 29 because i have kids in their twenties.. if i met younger in a club and the attraction was evident then i wouldnt be asking their age..same as those over 55.. and this has happened and im very happy it did..but i wont seek on paper what in general doesnt appeal . rules however are made to be broken..so i dont have them..more like guidelines

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

It's the person not there age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a number and you go with you gut instinct, you could miss out on some real fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way old enough to have sex. You need to gain exp. To older the more experience why miss out

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

No but i do like younger Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age does matter to me I have a daughter who is 27 and it would just feel so wrong meeting up with someone to sleep with who is old enough to be my son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but i do like younger Jane"
cant beat younger. The thrill of teaching or the thrill of the stamina an modern knowhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age does matter to me I have a daughter who is 27 and it would just feel so wrong meeting up with someone to sleep with who is old enough to be my son "
thats a shame so many good meets her age

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We tend to use age limits on here just to define a broad range we are likely to be interested in. When we are at clubs, we don't go round asking! It tends to be looks, figure and personality and for the girls a nice smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To an extent I'm not particularly attracted to very old people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does. It's an indicator of many things that are important to us. The monkey is looser with the parameters than Jane is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not always- but tend to stay away from local people close to the kids ages

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

I prefer to play with people older than my children, and up to about 60-65 top end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way old enough to have sex. You need to gain exp. To older the more experience why miss out"

So you'd sleep with an 80 year old?

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By *ickyandMallory1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

lincoln


"No way old enough to have sex. You need to gain exp. To older the more experience why miss out

So you'd sleep with an 80 year old?"

Sure why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

18 might be pushing the limits a bit espeically if you have children in the 20's or 30's.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Just getting the thoughts of other Fabbers

Does an age gap matter ? To us age is a number what does everyone else think? "

I won't meet anyone younger than my 'baby' sister of 25.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age does matter to me - as evidenced by our age restrictions.

I like meeting with people who have similar experiences to my own and I also tend to be more attracted to people around my age.

Marc is more flexible, but I was the one who got to set the age restrictions.

-Courtney"

This.

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