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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If guy says that to me he certainly won't make me cum or squirt...

It's not meant as an insult it's just cock talk and for record I think anyone that boasts about anything is usually not all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a similar issue with older guys who message us and tell me I need to "meet an older man as all I've had were boys."

I often wonder if they realize the insult to Marc in their statements. But no worries. No one can fuck me like he can. I'm sure it's the same for you.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?"

I think you are looking into it far too much. A lot of males use Bravado . To be honest it annoys me so I don't tend to engage in it but I don't think you can blame guys for trying to sell themselves.

I think the bigger question is, are you going to feel insecure if a guy achieves what you haven't? Personally I wouldn't concern yourself but the issue seems to bother you

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I get messages like that. That he is gonna make me squirt. I tell them good luck as it isn't something I do, Oh I have made every woman squirt and gush, I can make you.

He will be lucky if he can make me cum, there are only a handful of men who have managed that.

Let them talk out of their arse, I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest they are bigging themselves up to try and get a meet!

Unknowingly and unwittingly they are perhaps insulting you by suggesting they can do what you can't. But it is another example of men thinking with their dicks instead of their brains! I'm sure it wouldn't be done intentionally.

As for telling them? Just more them aside and show them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?"

i have been with my mrs nearly 30 years and i have made her cum many time ,i have only once made her squirt,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to start a thread about this a while ago but didn't want to start a single man bashing thread,

But there are a lot of men on here who don't get the concept of swinging and think we are on here because I can't pleasure Mrs l, we get loads of message saying shit like, I'll give you a fucking like you deserve or better than you've ever had or the worst one I'll fuck you like a proper man, it is very insulting and ridiculous,

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

wind and hot air i wouldnt take it to heart mate, mel has heard it all before and mostly its complete bollocks to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to start a thread about this a while ago but didn't want to start a single man bashing thread,

But there are a lot of men on here who don't get the concept of swinging and think we are on here because I can't pleasure Mrs l, we get loads of message saying shit like, I'll give you a fucking like you deserve or better than you've ever had or the worst one I'll fuck you like a proper man, it is very insulting and ridiculous,"

I'd burst out laughing if we ever got a message like that - sounds like some badly dubbed 70s porn

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?"

Do you feel offended? Only you can decide that but I wouldn't be taking much notice of what men say on here when they're desperate to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?

Do you feel offended? Only you can decide that but I wouldn't be taking much notice of what men say on here when they're desperate to meet."

I think offended was the wrong word Im not so much offended as annoyed by the sheer arrogance they are displaying by insinuating they know how her body works better than she or I do. It gets them a block nearly everytime.

If they could actually do it we would keep asking them back and save ourselves a fortune in batteries

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?

Do you feel offended? Only you can decide that but I wouldn't be taking much notice of what men say on here when they're desperate to meet.

I think offended was the wrong word Im not so much offended as annoyed by the sheer arrogance they are displaying by insinuating they know how her body works better than she or I do. It gets them a block nearly everytime.

If they could actually do it we would keep asking them back and save ourselves a fortune in batteries "

I think if a guy is that arrogant before you meet he might be working on the mistaken belief that he's being drafted in to help you out rather than as a nice addition. My opinion for what it's worth is that blocking is the right thing to do

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Well maybe just see it as a good filter then?

No man who meets a woman for the first time is ever going to be as good as a long term partner. And every woman is different so what works for one won't work for all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to start a thread about this a while ago but didn't want to start a single man bashing thread,

But there are a lot of men on here who don't get the concept of swinging and think we are on here because I can't pleasure Mrs l, we get loads of message saying shit like, I'll give you a fucking like you deserve or better than you've ever had or the worst one I'll fuck you like a proper man, it is very insulting and ridiculous,"

You would be surprised how many people and that isn't just single guys that think that if you swing as a couple its because on of you is crap and not doing it for the other.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well maybe just see it as a good filter then?

No man who meets a woman for the first time is ever going to be as good as a long term partner. And every woman is different so what works for one won't work for all..."

I agree with that, a man who tells me he can guarantee whatever just indicates his lack of knowledge of women. I wouldn't presume to know what turns every man on.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation. Thoughts please?"

I think your thoughts on this subject are spot on OP the guys have let slip there true thoughts as their blood was rising .I'm not happy about saying your right but no matter how I look at what you posted I can't see it as anything different than a sly subconscious dig at your prowess as a lover .

I'd love to say they were not dishing you but they clearly were in my opinion and showing their true colours in the process .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well maybe just see it as a good filter then?

No man who meets a woman for the first time is ever going to be as good as a long term partner. And every woman is different so what works for one won't work for all...

I agree with that, a man who tells me he can guarantee whatever just indicates his lack of knowledge of women. I wouldn't presume to know what turns every man on."

It's not just men. We have had women and couples message us, and even the odd one tell us to our face that the female is going to give Mr the best bj he has ever had... Then add no offence to me .... They always seem shocked when we don't meet or carry on.

Even had one telling Mr while I was playing along side them... " she is the best you have ever had isn't she". I nearly giggled at the eye roll we exchanged x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had guys telling me that after Ive had them Clarence will no longer satisfy me!!!

A lot of younger guys say I need a young guy with stamina!

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"E is a squirter. Not a dribbler a full on hosepipe squirter. BUT she can only squirt with a toy on her clit. We have been together almost 10 years and this has always been the case. I have occassionally made her squirt a second time with my fingers or tongue because the first left her so sensitive but the first ALWAYS needs a toy.

Whenever guys message they go on about wanting to make her squirt and I can garuntee almost everytime we get a message back saying something like "thats a challenge then, I bet I can, We'll see about that" and so on. Are these guys trying to suggest they are better than me? That after 10 years I dont know her body well enough to find a way to make her squirt without a toy? I found it funny at first knowing they would fail but its starting to annoy me now. One option would be not tell them she can do it but then she misses out on the meet so its a catch 22 situation.

Thoughts please?"

Let them think whatever ....im similar ..I rarely cum thro head but girls r like I.ll make u cum.....if u what to suck it till yr mouth aches crack on ..but I don't know why .just very rarely cum that way...lol

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Let them try, but when they fail send them to the naughty corner for lying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be offended.

These guys have magical sexual powers and can indeed make anyone cum, squirt or do whatever they fuck they want. Yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wind and hot air i wouldnt take it to heart mate, mel has heard it all before and mostly its complete bollocks to be fair "

This ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a misconception with some single guys that we can't fuck our women properly and that is why we're on here!!

But of course we know different!

I'm often asked if Anne can squirt and I guardedly say she can. Blokes are always pleased to hear it but it's yet to happen on a meet.

As you said, no one knows your partner's body better than you

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By *sexycouple69xCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Totally agree with the general consensus of bravado/gobshitery! But also sympathise that bloke do have to sell themselves on here. We've both got single profiles too and hers is busy, mine is dead in the water, so I get that guys have to work hard to get action. But fuck, whatever happened to modesty and humility? Confidence is good, aye, but I'd be mortified if I bugged myself up and then couldn't deliver hahaha!

That said, if someone was to manage it, shake his hand, pat his back... and see what the fuck he did Hahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also need to remember that sites like this attract 'that type' of guy (and lady probably, i don't interact with them much).

The ones who think they are the best, they are so great, and anyone who comes into contact with them should agree with them and want them. And they really believe their own bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt let other peoples cv listings get to me one jot

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