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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

If only 1 half of a couple is playing should you really be swinging

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If the other half is aware and happy why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should do what you want....I don't understand why it would matter to anyone outside of the couple

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the other half is aware and happy why not?"

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Yes he loves to watch and Join in but i can't do the same in return

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Only if the other half is aware, so many are nit, and that's cheating......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be a swinging Cpl if only one swings as it were?

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had invites to meet where 'only male can meet at first' so are all couples actually couples..? Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont play (him) but Im always present at our meets Ive no wish to join in but love watching so why wouldnt we swing

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Only if the other half is aware, so many are nit, and that's cheating......!"

not i meant to type

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Yes that's what I've been thinking lately even though my partner says we enjoy what we do a d he loves seeing me in ecstasy

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yes he loves to watch and Join in but i can't do the same in return "

You can't join in? I guess you don't need to share your reasons for that with anyone other than those you choose to play with.

As long as you're all happy then you can swing on your own terms with your own rules.

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Same as us and it adds to our sex life

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

We play together and like being watched we lov e single men to join us but tried to watch My partner with another woman and didn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only 1 half of a couple is playing should you really be swinging "

So many of these 'couples on this site'-verified from a time when both were playing, but now only male plays for whatever reason-we think the relationship has ended-but the male half is still hawking the female as a way to grab attention and get meets. We give zero time to these fakes

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Anyone that has had the pleasure of our company knows we are not fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes all sorts! If those who are playing are happy then what difference does it matter to everyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo getting fiesty

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Those that have met us know we are not fake that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If only 1 half of a couple is playing should you really be swinging

So many of these 'couples on this site'-verified from a time when both were playing, but now only male plays for whatever reason-we think the relationship has ended-but the male half is still hawking the female as a way to grab attention and get meets. We give zero time to these fakes"

Same here we constantly have to tell "couples" its either both or neither. If just the guy plays and the fem watches thats fine as long as shes here enjoying the session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes that's what I've been thinking lately even though my partner says we enjoy what we do a d he loves seeing me in ecstasy "

Well its all good then

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"We play together and like being watched we lov e single men to join us but tried to watch My partner with another woman and didn't like it"

That's a tricky one but very common. Thing is you should not feel guilty. You feel what you feel. Bella didn't want to do same room as she thought she couldn't watch. But then hated she had missed out. When we did same room turns out as she has a cock in her pussy she was just fine watching my cock in another woman's pussy. Do you do same room with couples?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If the other half is aware and happy why not?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We play together and like being watched we lov e single men to join us but tried to watch My partner with another woman and didn't like it

That's a tricky one but very common. Thing is you should not feel guilty. You feel what you feel. Bella didn't want to do same room as she thought she couldn't watch. But then hated she had missed out. When we did same room turns out as she has a cock in her pussy she was just fine watching my cock in another woman's pussy. Do you do same room with couples?"

One of the reasons I dont play is E doesnt want to see me with another women but a far larger part of the reason is my own thoughts/reasoning so Im not at all bothered that she doesnt want to see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you can wonder if hubby watches his wife shagging, is that swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes he loves to watch and Join in but i can't do the same in return "

So you don't play he does?

By can't he won't let you or you don't want to?

Are you happy with him playing and you not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We originally came on here to find a guy for a threesome and Clarence loves watching me. After a while we did start meeting couples but I can't see why you can't use the site the way you are both happy to xx

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

who else will takes pics?

or drive me to my date?

or empty my sack before said date?

Looooool x

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

I'm female who plays while partner watches and sometimes joins in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm female who plays while partner watches and sometimes joins in "

So if he's joining in then both of you are playing?

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By *irtydouXXX OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Yes we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we are "

Then why are you asking about only one half playing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree surely if it is not both of you that are wanting to swing then the person who is surely isn't getting what they need at home if my partner didn't want to swing I wouldn't either this is just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we are

Then why are you asking about only one half playing?"

I think , and op excuse me if I have it wrong... But she means If only one partner is actually having play with others as she doesn't enjoy or want to see her partner with others

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By *ittletonCplCouple
over a year ago

cannock


"Then you can wonder if hubby watches his wife shagging, is that swinging?"

Or whether a single male can ever be swinging - or just shagging around ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then you can wonder if hubby watches his wife shagging, is that swinging?

Or whether a single male can ever be swinging - or just shagging around .."

That's what swinging is- shagging around.

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