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Playing without permission - turn on or turn off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious to see what everyone thinks about meeting when you have a partner and they don't know what you're upto...?

I for one LOVE married women and find it a great stimulant, think it's the forbidden nature of it but I know a lot of you don't agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off. I wouldn't want to be the one being cheated on.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Even the thought of trying it makes me feel guilty.. I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious to see what everyone thinks about meeting when you have a partner and they don't know what you're upto...?

I for one LOVE married women and find it a great stimulant, think it's the forbidden nature of it but I know a lot of you don't agree "
hey man no good will benefit you with this thread so you will be thankful ultimately that I intervened ,you're an adult and am sure theirs a perfectly good reason why you want to break the vows of your marriage in search of a bodily function namely the orgasm but maybe it's more about meeting people socialising at F&G emporiums and helping other lucky people enjoy themselves ,a selfless act of giving to this community

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just curious to see what everyone thinks about meeting when you have a partner and they don't know what you're upto...?

I for one LOVE married women and find it a great stimulant, think it's the forbidden nature of it but I know a lot of you don't agree hey man no good will benefit you with this thread so you will be thankful ultimately that I intervened ,you're an adult and am sure theirs a perfectly good reason why you want to break the vows of your marriage in search of a bodily function namely the orgasm but maybe it's more about meeting people socialising at F&G emporiums and helping other lucky people enjoy themselves ,a selfless act of giving to this community "

Just curious what people think, I'm not married so nothing to worry about here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I encourage A to play alone BUT I want to know about it, I would be very very pissed off if she did it without me knowing.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Clock watching, careful you don't mark them, not wearing perfume, deodorant so no scent trail, forensic shower before play to ensure no stray hairs...what's not to get turned on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clock watching, careful you don't mark them, not wearing perfume, deodorant so no scent trail, forensic shower before play to ensure no stray hairs...what's not to get turned on! "

No need for this forensic shower or no perfume!

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

OFF

We swing together, as in we go for socials if we both like the couple we play, however if one of us doesn't then we dont

We go to clubs/parties then it's every man/woman for themselves. He may play, i may not, but i want to hear all about it, i won't go meeting without it being a couple thing & if he goes without me i'll chop his nuts off

It works for us

Mrs WD40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off. I don't meet attached guys (knowingly). Even says on my profile that if I find out they're attached after we meet I will out them!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm single. I don't need permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total TURN OFF

Swinger not Cheaters

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would be the married mans worst nightmare!

If you think you could dupe me and then your wife in turn as well? Bring it on, I'd love to watch that!

So to keep things simple...total turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be the married mans worst nightmare!

If you think you could dupe me and then your wife in turn as well? Bring it on, I'd love to watch that!

So to keep things simple...total turn off!"

LOVE this answer.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Wisbech and A47 corridor


"Just curious to see what everyone thinks about meeting when you have a partner and they don't know what you're upto...?

I for one LOVE married women and find it a great stimulant, think it's the forbidden nature of it but I know a lot of you don't agree "
Completely unacceptable and unfair..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a moral stand point on it because we're in no position to judge, but we don't fetishise someone else's relationship status to the extent that it's a turn on for us. It is what it is and often makes meeting impossible so we tend not to do it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from the moral issues, attached 'singles' are a pain as they usually can't meet at weekends and generally have to sneak about. We'd rather not meet them, but no doubt in the past we have, unwittingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually, there's no difference between single girls and married girls for me. I don't actively search for one or the other, but I also don't mind if someone is attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off here as well. I don't need other peoples drama in my life thanks.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

F&G emporiums ... wuh?

Oh, and a huge turn-off for us.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Is playing without permission a round about way of saying cheating?

Then it is a complete turn off.

My husband can play with any woman who would have him..... as long as I know about it. Were he stupid enough to try without me knowing (and why would he, he has permission) I like to think I am smart enough to get away with murder

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Is there something in the air at the moment...

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

That's a no no would be cheating,what's the point if your a swinger ????

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Wisbech and A47 corridor


"Just curious to see what everyone thinks about meeting when you have a partner and they don't know what you're upto...?

I for one LOVE married women and find it a great stimulant, think it's the forbidden nature of it but I know a lot of you don't agree "
A definite turn off and not even worth thinking about . Why mess up someone else's relationship. What about consideration and respect for other people . ?.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

we only play as a couple,

any other way and people get caught, well DIVORCE would be looming,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off. I wouldn't want to be the one being cheated on."

^^^ This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for it whatsoever. Cheating stinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

An honest bunch in here, I like it!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

I have experienced so many women who were married or in a relationship who pretended to be unattached and wanted to jump ship that it almost seemed to be the norm. When they finally admitted they were in a relationship their indifference to their partners suffering truly shocked me. They were ruthless. To fall for such a woman is heartbreaking so turn off pales into insignificance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off for me, whether they are male or female.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Recipe for distrust between spouses. I won't encourage it. If both party agree to it in advance.then Fair game.

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