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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. " Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera.... | |||
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"If it's the type of thing i enjoy myself then i do like action shots. I'm not voyeuristic, it's just i would know you're into the same things as me. I see you sat on someones face so gonna guess that you being rimmed...not into that so that puts me off. As it would on anyone's profile." Actually, I believe she was blowing me in that pic...but yes, I do love to both rim and be rimmed...would never force my arse on anyone though...lol | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. " Very much this! | |||
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"Pictures very much act as a filter for me. Certain things are immediate red flags." And does that apply as much to what you might see in a private gallery as in a public one?? | |||
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"So, further to my earlier thread challenging people make their private pics available to the public, given the nature of those pics that I've chosen to display, the question is this; Do graphic action shots put you off?" I'm going to be controversial here and say yes view them as classless and distasteful bet kept between the two people involved not plastered over the net where they can be ripped and shared around . Doesn't mean the people who like showing such pictures are bad just means the whole thing is not a turn on to me more of a turn off so I'm unlikely to message a profile with such pictures . | |||
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"If it's the type of thing i enjoy myself then i do like action shots. I'm not voyeuristic, it's just i would know you're into the same things as me. I see you sat on someones face so gonna guess that you being rimmed...not into that so that puts me off. As it would on anyone's profile. Actually, I believe she was blowing me in that pic...but yes, I do love to both rim and be rimmed...would never force my arse on anyone though...lol " Yeah doubt most people would force anything. Just if someone's into stuff i'm not into i do feel bad about not giving them that, this is a problem with me really and the fact that i wasn't allowed to develop my own boundaries. So i just automatically cut them off before it gets to that stage where i'd feel i have to be uncomfortable. Doing better though, had a guy really into anal (i'm not) and i keep turning him down after meeting because i'm learning how to enforce my boundaries now. | |||
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"Pictures very much act as a filter for me. Certain things are immediate red flags. And does that apply as much to what you might see in a private gallery as in a public one??" Definitely yes. | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera...." Photos are fine for personal use. I just don't feel the need to broadcast them on my profile. Discretion is key for me and not for you. We're all different. | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera.... Photos are fine for personal use. I just don't feel the need to broadcast them on my profile. Discretion is key for me and not for you. We're all different. " How is showing 'ruder' pics on a profile got anything to do with 'discretion', or am I completely missing the point?? | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera.... Photos are fine for personal use. I just don't feel the need to broadcast them on my profile. Discretion is key for me and not for you. We're all different. How is showing 'ruder' pics on a profile got anything to do with 'discretion', or am I completely missing the point?? " When one can see more of the other person, the one the profile doesn't belong to, it just makes me cringe a bit. It's not personal, it's just not my cuppa. Provided you've asked their permission to post their photos on your profile that's perfectly fine. You did ask if it puts me off so I replied with my view. It does but it's just another filter for me. If it works for other people then that's great, you'll find people you're compatible with. All good all round. | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera.... Photos are fine for personal use. I just don't feel the need to broadcast them on my profile. Discretion is key for me and not for you. We're all different. How is showing 'ruder' pics on a profile got anything to do with 'discretion', or am I completely missing the point?? When one can see more of the other person, the one the profile doesn't belong to, it just makes me cringe a bit. It's not personal, it's just not my cuppa. Provided you've asked their permission to post their photos on your profile that's perfectly fine. You did ask if it puts me off so I replied with my view. It does but it's just another filter for me. If it works for other people then that's great, you'll find people you're compatible with. All good all round. " Well, I'm sorry if you feel that many of my pics show more of the woman than of me...again I try to avoid this, however, without a third person as 'photographer' things are limited...I am also sorry that you seem to have taken a disliking to me...well I can certainly live with that. It does seem strange however, that you were able to view all these pics in my private gallery for a good few days and never voiced any objections of this nature until now?? | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera.... Photos are fine for personal use. I just don't feel the need to broadcast them on my profile. Discretion is key for me and not for you. We're all different. How is showing 'ruder' pics on a profile got anything to do with 'discretion', or am I completely missing the point?? When one can see more of the other person, the one the profile doesn't belong to, it just makes me cringe a bit. It's not personal, it's just not my cuppa. Provided you've asked their permission to post their photos on your profile that's perfectly fine. You did ask if it puts me off so I replied with my view. It does but it's just another filter for me. If it works for other people then that's great, you'll find people you're compatible with. All good all round. Well, I'm sorry if you feel that many of my pics show more of the woman than of me...again I try to avoid this, however, without a third person as 'photographer' things are limited...I am also sorry that you seem to have taken a disliking to me...well I can certainly live with that. It does seem strange however, that you were able to view all these pics in my private gallery for a good few days and never voiced any objections of this nature until now?? " I'm not quite sure what's given you that idea but I've no desire to discuss it further on a public forum. My inbox is open should you wish to carry this on. And for the record, my opinion is not personal to you, you posted a thread about graphic photos and I responded to that. | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. Bugger...I about to find myself flushed away....just when I thought I'd made it through the dreaded 'filter'... Re pics though...sadly, unless a third person is at hand (as ahs only been the case with one of my group of 'action pics', then the type of photos one can take on one's own is a bit limited and invariably shows the woman as much/more than the guy who is also wielding the camera.... Photos are fine for personal use. I just don't feel the need to broadcast them on my profile. Discretion is key for me and not for you. We're all different. How is showing 'ruder' pics on a profile got anything to do with 'discretion', or am I completely missing the point?? When one can see more of the other person, the one the profile doesn't belong to, it just makes me cringe a bit. It's not personal, it's just not my cuppa. Provided you've asked their permission to post their photos on your profile that's perfectly fine. You did ask if it puts me off so I replied with my view. It does but it's just another filter for me. If it works for other people then that's great, you'll find people you're compatible with. All good all round. Well, I'm sorry if you feel that many of my pics show more of the woman than of me...again I try to avoid this, however, without a third person as 'photographer' things are limited...I am also sorry that you seem to have taken a disliking to me...well I can certainly live with that. It does seem strange however, that you were able to view all these pics in my private gallery for a good few days and never voiced any objections of this nature until now?? I'm not quite sure what's given you that idea but I've no desire to discuss it further on a public forum. My inbox is open should you wish to carry this on. And for the record, my opinion is not personal to you, you posted a thread about graphic photos and I responded to that. " Indeed you did, and shortly there after or just before decided to 'de-friend' me...anyway, you are quite right...enough airing of 'dirty laundry' in public, dirty girl.... | |||
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"I'm can be turned off a man who has ask me to meet if his action pics are showing more of the women than of him. Those pics could be kept between them." A guys finger in a lady's pussy shows me what ? He has a finger ?? | |||
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"I'm can be turned off a man who has ask me to meet if his action pics are showing more of the women than of him. Those pics could be kept between them. A guys finger in a lady's pussy shows me what ? He has a finger ??" Yes it does but don't forget it shows he has a cat to | |||
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"I'm can be turned off a man who has ask me to meet if his action pics are showing more of the women than of him. Those pics could be kept between them. A guys finger in a lady's pussy shows me what ? He has a finger ??" Well, at least I'm not guilty at going quite that far I hope | |||
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"So, further to my earlier thread challenging people make their private pics available to the public, given the nature of those pics that I've chosen to display, the question is this; Do graphic action shots put you off?" No, I like them - especially group sex photos. | |||
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"Action shots that are erotic, sensuous and nicely shot can be a real turn on. We find graphic shots of any kind a turn off - but useful as they help us filter out people we would not be interested in because their tastes are clearly so different to ours." Where do you put mine on that scale? If you don't mind my asking.... | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. " I feel the same - I really find it a big turnoff to see 'where someone has been' and being straight female genitalia is for me too. | |||
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"I prefer straight forward pics where I can discern people's body types. Throw in some art and personality, and those are the ones that have me looking -Courtney " | |||
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"Action shots that are erotic, sensuous and nicely shot can be a real turn on. We find graphic shots of any kind a turn off - but useful as they help us filter out people we would not be interested in because their tastes are clearly so different to ours. Where do you put mine on that scale? If you don't mind my asking...." In our view your action shots are not too graphic - but probably fall a little short of sensuous. Perhaps one problem, in a slightly different vein, is that for a single man's profile there aren't really any photos that show what you are like, or even what your body type is like. Also we also feel uncomfortable with single men who show too much of the woman. Even though she might have agreed to her photo being shown there is no way she can confirm that to Fab. Hope you don't mind us saying - there may be many others on Fab that don't agree with the comments above and after all you should show the photos you like. | |||
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"Action shots that are erotic, sensuous and nicely shot can be a real turn on. We find graphic shots of any kind a turn off - but useful as they help us filter out people we would not be interested in because their tastes are clearly so different to ours. Where do you put mine on that scale? If you don't mind my asking.... In our view your action shots are not too graphic - but probably fall a little short of sensuous. Perhaps one problem, in a slightly different vein, is that for a single man's profile there aren't really any photos that show what you are like, or even what your body type is like. Also we also feel uncomfortable with single men who show too much of the woman. Even though she might have agreed to her photo being shown there is no way she can confirm that to Fab. Hope you don't mind us saying - there may be many others on Fab that don't agree with the comments above and after all you should show the photos you like." Of course I don't mind you saying ...I asked for your opinion on my pics and value it. I would point out that all of these pics currently showing are normally in my private 'friends only' gallery and will go back there after today's little challenge I set in a different thread. Thanks for your input....I'm hoping that at lest a couple of my action shots (the ones taken by a third person) do in fact give a good indication of my physique is like...if that's what you meant.. | |||
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"So, further to my earlier thread challenging people make their private pics available to the public, given the nature of those pics that I've chosen to display, the question is this; Do graphic action shots put you off?" It depends on the pic, some will put me off and others won't. We have quite a few but tend to keep them mainly for our own personal viewing. Love looking through them on occasion. | |||
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"So, further to my earlier thread challenging people make their private pics available to the public, given the nature of those pics that I've chosen to display, the question is this; Do graphic action shots put you off?" No ... We love them | |||
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"So, further to my earlier thread challenging people make their private pics available to the public, given the nature of those pics that I've chosen to display, the question is this; Do graphic action shots put you off? No ... We love them " Well I never, now that does surprise me ...lol | |||
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"Do graphic action shots put you off?" Normally, yes, but then I've planned and taken some photos which show some detail, or an aspect of a sexual act. I take these shots because I enjoy the technical nature and get a sense of achievement from the styles i/we are able to achieve. I have great fun taking them and I share them here because I can't share them with anyone else. Do you want to be reminded that someone you are meeting has had sex with another person? Maybe not, but verifications, obvious flirting on threads, knowing that many on here go to swingers clubs AND the fact that we are on a swingers website all add to this as well... So why the issue with photos? | |||
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"Yes they put us off and don't know why people would want to put them on show " Oh well , sorry about that We put them on show because we like them | |||
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"Yes they put us off and don't know why people would want to put them on show Oh well , sorry about that We put them on show because we like them " That's ok with us we just won't look lol | |||
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"Yes they put us off and don't know why people would want to put them on show Oh well , sorry about that We put them on show because we like them That's ok with us we just won't look lol " Alls good then | |||
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"in most cases I have action stuff...and my meets display ones I cant display if I'm not in them..or they have an uncensored version that I cant display either. action shots are not about boasting in my opinion, its what all parties at the time wanted..and thats more important than what anyone else thinks who wasnt there.." | |||
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"Actually it pisses me off when a guy sends multiple pics of women sucking his knob, him fuckin her arse or licking her cunt and NO face pic in an introduction message .. I mean seriously!!! " What about mankini's | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. " Ditto! | |||
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"Actually it pisses me off when a guy sends multiple pics of women sucking his knob, him fuckin her arse or licking her cunt and NO face pic in an introduction message .. I mean seriously!!! " And what if he has pics of the above but always introduces himself with clear face pics?? | |||
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"Actually it pisses me off when a guy sends multiple pics of women sucking his knob, him fuckin her arse or licking her cunt and NO face pic in an introduction message .. I mean seriously!!! What about mankini's " What about slippers and socks? | |||
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"Actually it pisses me off when a guy sends multiple pics of women sucking his knob, him fuckin her arse or licking her cunt and NO face pic in an introduction message .. I mean seriously!!! What about mankini's What about slippers and socks? " Included in action shots...well that's just WRONG | |||
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"Nope not my thing. Can't really explain why but I just know my reaction to a 'friend / hot list' uploading a graphic pic is usually 'Oh, hmmmm ......... As to whether it's off putting than yes it can be. " | |||
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"Personally speaking, it's not so much the action shots that put me off as such, it's the fact that if I'm looking at a single bloke profile, I want to see the single bloke. I don't want to see the people he's met. I'm not meeting the other people. I don't need to see them. What does it prove? Oh look someone met me? Oh look I've had actual sex? It totally lacks any sort of discretion and I'm quite big on that. Each to their own though, people should run their profiles how they want to run them. It just acts as another filter for me. " Couldn't have said it better myself! A great filter for me too. | |||
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"It can be off putting,I want to imagine that guy with me,not be confronted with seeing him with lots of different women " ^^ this! | |||
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"Actually it pisses me off when a guy sends multiple pics of women sucking his knob, him fuckin her arse or licking her cunt and NO face pic in an introduction message .. I mean seriously!!! What about mankini's " Pmsl. Shhh you! | |||
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"Actually it pisses me off when a guy sends multiple pics of women sucking his knob, him fuckin her arse or licking her cunt and NO face pic in an introduction message .. I mean seriously!!! And what if he has pics of the above but always introduces himself with clear face pics??" I don't want cock pics fullstop. If it looks like there is a meet on the cards then a peek of what's to come is OK.. | |||
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