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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbit OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

I'm apologise if this has come up before.

I was just wondering what you record was for

unread messages?

Since I've rejoined as a single it is 4 lol. When I was in a couple it was 87.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted 1300 messages 4 days ago. I'd done a bulk delete a week before that. I currently have 410 unread messages in my inbox

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbit OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Wow! Lol. They'd take some reading. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think we get that many as a couple. Think 4 is our most unread. But we are on a few times a day between us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow! Lol. They'd take some reading. X"

Which is why I didn't. Can you imagine how long it would take? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a meet once and ended up with nearly 1500 unread messages. Not posted a meet since lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bulk delete. As I like a tidy box

Currently 86

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bulk delete. As I like a tidy box

Currently 86 "

Currently Zero...been like since i joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This shows the level of competition out there for us guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been replying to lots so I only have 68 right now.

It's been hundreds at times. I try not to let it get like that though.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

None, nothing, nada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bulk delete. As I like a tidy box

Currently 86

Currently Zero...been like since i joined "

As you've blocked members of my sex I couldn't be your first to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 yesterday... bulk delete time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my most ubread was about twenty when i first joined.

Last week i had 12 unread. So reading previous posts im not very popular or desirable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 975, I too regularly bulk delete x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most is about 12. I'm not very popular as it turns out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bulk delete. As I like a tidy box

Currently 86

Currently Zero...been like since i joined

As you've blocked members of my sex I couldn't be your first to ignore. "

I never ignore anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My most is about 12. I'm not very popular as it turns out "

Are you kidding me ? Your pictures are lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 191. Did a bulk delete last week as I was over 500 unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My most is about 12. I'm not very popular as it turns out

Are you kidding me ? Your pictures are lovely x"

Was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen more than 400 before. The women who get thousands have their filters set wide open so they're bound to get tons of messages. When i have lots unread i delete any cock avatar ones without reading then delete any that start with bad spelling or contain sexual words. That takes out 90% of them then i can open the last 10%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen more than 400 before. The women who get thousands have their filters set wide open so they're bound to get tons of messages. When i have lots unread i delete any cock avatar ones without reading then delete any that start with bad spelling or contain sexual words. That takes out 90% of them then i can open the last 10%. "

This is true, I've completely opened up my filters atm because of the secret Santa thing. Will be firmly closed doors again soon. Had filters when I hit 1300 though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bulk delete. As I like a tidy box

Currently 86

Currently Zero...been like since i joined

As you've blocked members of my sex I couldn't be your first to ignore.

I never ignore anyone... "

Well I tried anyway.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"This shows the level of competition out there for us guys.

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Is it competition though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3-4 but I don't send random messages out anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

226 at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 3-4 but I don't send random messages out anymore "

Oh unread myself, I always open them and reply even if it's a no thanks type reply, But I obviously don't receive many messages

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I posted a meet once and ended up with nearly 1500 unread messages. Not posted a meet since lol "

That would have been quite some gangbang!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had over 700 at one point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALOT

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

4. I felt pretty special that morning!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

304 at the moment. The most unread I've had was 700+.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I empty mine everyday but think the most is 48 in a day. Since I changed my profile, I dont get so many but thats fine as I get to spend more time here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I had about 2700 ish before I mass deleted. Im averaging more than a 100 a day atm so have to delete all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get loads when we put new pics up , or advertise a meet .

Yesterday night we bulk deleted almost 200 .

About two months back we had a pic which stayed at the top of most fabbed pics for three days . It reached 4897 fabs in 4 days , then got removed by the mods for some reason . Anyway , we were getting over 500 messages a day for that period .... Stopped reading them and bulk deleted over a thousand at the end of the week !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This shows the level of competition out there for us guys.

Is it competition though? "

No it's not competition to guys , as usual we have other ways.

I know that when I send a message it's usually a good one, and if I don't get a reply , so what . If they are actually people that meet I will run into them at a club etc ,

I also look at the verifications some men have and think well they are not fussy , who they sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get anywhere near these numbers of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

435

However I've often left them there, not deleted and they just disappear eventually

I thought it was standard practice, but obviously not

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

None as we have our account set up properly, so many people don't and they get people's hopes up, then moan when they have too many messages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit baffled. Some people seem to get annoyed by the vast numbers of messages sent by men that don't fit the bill and then write rather angry sounding profiles demanding that messages should fit specific criteria. Why not just block all men, explore the profiles, and send messages to those who appeal?

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

48. I haven't got as many of some of you but I'm pleased about that as hopefully my profile discourages pp I wouldn't be interested in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A had to delete over 2000 when a updated my status once "a won the lottery " bloody goldiggers

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Couldn't say what my exact record is as I don't pay that much but one of my current pics made it onto the top of most fabbed, which was a shock but lovely compliment, and I got over a thousand messages that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My most is about 12. I'm not very popular as it turns out

Are you kidding me ? Your pictures are lovely x"

Thank you but I'm not joking. I've never had loads of messages. I honestly thought others must be lying about being inundated. I've just never experienced it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to 6 unread messages a little while ago, to me that was like an inbox meltdown and I can't say I've woken up those giddy heights ever again.

I might get more if I'm chatting to friends or there's a particularly busy forum thread but that was an overnight record, unlikely ever to be surpassed!

To be honest us guys whinge and moan but sometimes I think I wouldn't want to be lady on here with all the crap they have to put up with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 129. Tend to bulk delete once it gets to this stage!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The message here is that there is actually no point even messaging some people, as it's 99% certain that you'll be deleted unseen, let alone unread.

Which is kind of depressing.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I had 7 or 8 once. That was a good day. Took some getting through them, I can tell you!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

6 is my highest...considering how many more single women/couples get, it just goes to show there are too many single guys on Fab!

Ban them all, I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flukily got to the top of hot pics once on my old profile and got about a thousand in a day, even with age, photo, verified and newbies filters on. It was a bit much tbh.

Not normally anywhere near that

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

76 at the moment but when I first joined there was 350ish. All those pervs preying on the newbies Then I discovered the filters

That's a nice pic btw Rubywoo

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I dont think we have ever had more than 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to get a lot but we have message filters now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deleted 1300 messages 4 days ago. I'd done a bulk delete a week before that. I currently have 410 unread messages in my inbox "

thats manic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got my filters on lock down so don't have the problem of being sent loads of unwanted messages...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I'm apologise if this has come up before.

I was just wondering what you record was for

unread messages?

Since I've rejoined as a single it is 4 lol. When I was in a couple it was 87.

"

So glad I am not that popular, I got to the heady heights of 6.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 I tend to read answer/ delete as I get them but looking at the ladies on this thread it's a wonder I get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

165 ,opened our profile to men it went mad ,added filters now ,love mmf but we look for them now,it is just easier that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My record for receiving or having unread messages still stands at a whopping big fat zero lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

43 after I put up a meet request once. I usually manage about 6 a day but I leave them unread as I know they haven't read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to delete as I go so don't often let them build up, I have regular not logged on for a few days to come back to loads, last week I logged on after three days and had over 400 messages, can't remember exact number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"25 I tend to read answer/ delete as I get them but looking at the ladies on this thread it's a wonder I get any "

Why? You're lovely X

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We are looking for some mfm action and are considering taking the single guy block off. Any advice?

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

So took off the filters popped in a status saying wanted cock. 17 mails in the time it took to make toast and tea. Think I'll put a meet on.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

102 wow lot of single guys looking on here!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I have 56 right now but that's because I dealt with the 300 I had yesterday.. After they started deleting themselves again!

Get in the hot pics and it just goes mental even with filters!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

10000, but that was over two days, oh, and with all my filters on - well, ask a silly question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I peeked at 5 so not had the pleasure of bulk delete lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm apologise if this has come up before.

I was just wondering what you record was for

unread messages?

Since I've rejoined as a single it is 4 lol. When I was in a couple it was 87.records are attained by sexy women I used to chat to a woman who signed in to 2109 messages after putting a pic up of her enormous boobs and posting a meet ,she appologised via a status message and deleted the lot and put an old pic up wearing an immitation fur coat and thick framed black glasses think her username was razzledazzlit

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Only about 5 for us but that's from straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 sent 4 deleted haha ah well

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"4 sent 4 deleted haha ah well "

If you read profiles as well as that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4 sent 4 deleted haha ah well

If you read profiles as well as that... "

Thats after reading profiles with a fine tooth comb lmao maybe i should be more picky haha

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

155 mail page 3 on most fabbed! Wow you could make this shit a hobby!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got more than the number quoted above, Id think they had messaged the wrong woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 thank god for face pic Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder I never get a bloody reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder I never get a bloody reply "

You've never asked lol

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbit OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Wow. Some of these figures are scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had over 40 unread, usually stay on top of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wayyyyy too many to read! I've set my filters now and it's much more manageable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a couple in my sent if that counts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

147 at the moment. When I don't display my pictures I don't get many messages, which sometimes I prefer it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're lucky if we have a couple a week

but currently : zero

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton


"I deleted 1300 messages 4 days ago. I'd done a bulk delete a week before that. I currently have 410 unread messages in my inbox "

How can we bulk delete?? Pl help needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My most is about 12. I'm not very popular as it turns out "

Same here ..before i changed my profile i was lucky if i had 12 in a week....lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know. Feel unloved lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1480

On 986 now and was cleared last week

I hate that ppl think I'm ignorant ...x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" A had to delete over 2000 when a updated my status once "a won the lottery " bloody goldiggers "

Haha - as if - I'm employing you to manage my finaces when I win the lottery!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I'm apologise if this has come up before.

I was just wondering what you record was for

unread messages?

Since I've rejoined as a single it is 4 lol. When I was in a couple it was 87.

"

3 - I even took a screen shot of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15 not that many for a woman really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine currently stands at 1008

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

221 messages and page two on most fabbed. Wow amazing what happens when you take your filters off for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I first joined I had 100's a day I had to set filters x

I emptied my inbox on Saturday now iv got 136 unread messages and when put i meet up I get around 200-400 messages x

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By *inky karen 2Woman
over a year ago

East sussex

I get about 300 a day and try my hardest to reply to first messages, even if it's a no.

It gets frustrating seeing so many guys thinking they are being ignored. It's definitely a woman's world

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By *hillipfunMan
over a year ago

SF bay area

100 a day, 200 a day!!!!! Holy mackerel- If I have 1 or 2 after a couple weeks i'm delirious. Or maybe I'm delirious now?

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbit OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Well I feel lucky with my 4 lol.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

About 130, but now I keep my filters on. Only have 3 to catch up on at the moment. I like to keep on top of messages.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I only get about 5 to 10 new messages a day (And I don't have filters on) So to those that get hundreds daily I just think really?

I still have quite a few unread though as I always read their profile first, so in the main if they don't interest me in the slightest I just leave them unread.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbit OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Some very interesting replies.

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