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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what happens when you organise a meet and the other half is not as attractive as they look on the pictures .

What happens then , do you let only 3 play ? How do you tell them the reason why you are no longer playing is coz the other one is not as hot ?

Please share your experiences

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell that one you want them to take pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's the half you don't want to fuck there isn't a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

Your not planning on marrying them, it's sex for gods sake! Man up and take one for the team lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

They may not be as attractive as their pics but still ok to play with

If I met a couple and wasn't attracted to both I wouldn't play with either I don't think I could say....not keen on your Mrs but I'll fuck you and I'm not sure I'd respect anybody who would do that to their partner anyway to be honest

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Just wondering what happens when you organise a meet and the other half is not as attractive as they look on the pictures .

What happens then , do you let only 3 play ? How do you tell them the reason why you are no longer playing is coz the other one is not as hot ?

Please share your experiences"

if i was in the couple where one was not as hot as you would like and you asked for just 3 to play i'd tell you where to go lol

if i meet as a couple i play as a couple whether i'm the minger or my partner is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play"

I'll put the kettle on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not planning on marrying them, it's sex for gods sake! Man up and take one for the team lol x"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

having stood behind the bar of a swingers club, I have seen many occasions where a couple have spoken to each other about not fancying another couple.

Hours and a few wines later.....

The 4 are chatting about the 'immediate attraction there was when they saw each other'.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would very much depend on what was different about them from their pictures. If you get on socially with people, sometimes play comes about naturally, but if it was clear that wasn't going to happen for either of us, We'd just say that on reflection, the meet will only be a social one...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

I'll put the kettle on "

stop doing that, even in jest.

I have noticed a few times you put yourself down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having stood behind the bar of a swingers club, I have seen many occasions where a couple have spoken to each other about not fancying another couple. Hours and a few wines later..... The 4 are chatting about the 'immediate attraction there was when they saw each other'......."
Haha love it : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. We've had this a few times. No attraction no play fur us.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I suppose it depends on how unattractive...

For us there has to be attraction, but what makes a person attractive can many things.

I personally wouldn't have sex with someone really overweight or with bad body odour.

However, where a person may not initially be attractive, if you hit it off on a personal level that can and has meant looks are simply not important.

Other times we have though wow you look great and are interested in us! Then the personality puts us off

Nita x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is NSA sex , one time off, so wouldn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

I'll put the kettle on

stop doing that, even in jest.

I have noticed a few times you put yourself down."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."

Ive relied on this pulling technique for years

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've got my bag for life now I will just pop it over their head when they walk in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

I'll put the kettle on "

God no, i will make the coffee/tea. you just stretch out on the sofa and what the telly, i can put some porn on if you want?

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."

Maybe for you my standards are acceptable high even if tipsy apperently

All depends on the starting standards you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not planning on marrying them, it's sex for gods sake! Man up and take one for the team lol x"

I wouldn't take one for the team lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

I'll put the kettle on

God no, i will make the coffee/tea. you just stretch out on the sofa and what the telly, i can put some porn on if you want?

"

Can I watch the Norwich game instead please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

I'll put the kettle on

stop doing that, even in jest.

I have noticed a few times you put yourself down."

Sorry xx

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

WE AL PLAY OR NOT AT ALL

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"WE AL PLAY OR NOT AT ALL"

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine...

Maybe for you my standards are acceptable high even if tipsy apperently

All depends on the starting standards you are looking for "

Full of typos

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"the munter makes the coffee, whilst the others play

I'll put the kettle on

stop doing that, even in jest.

I have noticed a few times you put yourself down.

Sorry xx"

nothing to be sorry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not planning on marrying them, it's sex for gods sake! Man up and take one for the team lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our initial meets are only ever social,,and after discussing later either of us wasn't happy for whatever reason then there would not be a play meet,,we are a couple and will play as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple where socially we all got on great and we all fancied each other but when we started playing me and the guy got on great but Clarence and the other wife didnt. So he just discretely let me know and we just ended things xx

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Mmm neither of us are willing to take one for the team. We both have to be up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."

Someone change that light bulb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played "

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Our initial meets are only ever social,,and after discussing later either of us wasn't happy for whatever reason then there would not be a play meet,,we are a couple and will play as a couple "

However, we have had one occasion where we met a couple at a club, decided not to play but just chat with them. We got on so well, that we ended up in the hotel room with them and had a great session! Perhaps the exception that proves the rule?

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By *inkylouiseWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

We both know what the other likes so if we both aren't attracted then we don't play....However I (mrs) have taken one for the team previously and it did nothing for me so it wouldn't happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a phrase when we see a mismatched couple in the looks department.

That being that one of them 'has done well'.

It's normally the guy.

I think it might be me in our case!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"We have a phrase when we see a mismatched couple in the looks department.

That being that one of them 'has done well'.

It's normally the guy.

I think it might be me in our case! "

Unless he is Brad Pitt...he is a lucky fella indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a phrase when we see a mismatched couple in the looks department.

That being that one of them 'has done well'.

It's normally the guy.

I think it might be me in our case!

Unless he is Brad Pitt...he is a lucky fella indeed.

"

I'm not, and I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?"

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man..."

That's disgusting. People are horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible "

Yup theres some real charmers out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible

Yup theres some real charmers out there "

i have to say that distgusting no one has the right to impact on some one like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible "

WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible

WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far. "

Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible

WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.

Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago "

fuck that mate you are a human being a deserve the same respect as every one else, what a horrid nasty fooker who ever said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible

WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.

Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago

fuck that mate you are a human being a deserve the same respect as every one else, what a horrid nasty fooker who ever said that"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me you wouldn't be putting the kettle on if I was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man..."

Thats truly hidious!! How can people be like that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont play because Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly from smut comic. Most people dont care what I look like because I dont join in but one couple said no because the fem said I was to ugly to even be in the room while they played

Is this serious? Did someone really say that or are you joking?

100% serious. They were instantly blocked obviously. I know Im no oil painting but shit man...

That's disgusting. People are horrible

WOW. Possibly the most horrible thing we've heard on here so far.

Sorry to say Im used to it. When I was a teenager I had buck teeth and glasses so girls at school treated me like I was diseased. Any girl who did show an interest in me was treated equally poorly. Once I left school and started going to pubs etc on more than one occassion I had girls sniggering at me across the bar hiding behind their hands etc. I got contact lenses and had my teeth straightened but still struggled with finding partners. As I got older I had medical problems that caused me to massively gain weight. Now Im to big for anyone to want me, Im just happy Emily see's beyond the fat. I gave up giving a shit what others thought many years ago "

Mrs Bendy likes a big bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer we had one recently. The lady was not what we though at all and the bloke was ok. Thing was he went home leaving us with her plus turn out not a proper couple. Had to say we were not impress. Just told her we where not interested and went home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."
Fancy a drink then?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I do not have that problem as I do not have a boyfriend / girlfriend / hubby in tow and I rarely get approached by couples and even more rarely, approach couples

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I met a couple with a friend but we had to travel to meet them n between d driving n I think they were older than what they said they were I could not get it up but still licked her out though . I've met one r 2 ladies n I did not click n just said so but they were ok cos we had agreed before hand if we did not click we just say good bye .

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By *ryityoumaylikeitCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"It's amazing who you can talk yourself into fancying in low light after a glass of wine..."
If thats all it takes Clio, I've got a wine cellar (very low light) and at least 30 bottles of wine get ourself over for a visit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's in the eye of the beholder of course, but I wouldn't sleep with someone I wasn't attracted to and I know that P would support me on that.

Conversely We've turned up at a social meet to see how we all get on and I've been rejected on age, hair colour and been told I'm not attractive enough for the third party so it goes both ways.

C

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