FabSwingers.com forum: coming on to me

By *ike231251 OP Man
over a year ago

Heckmondwike

Advice what would you do. My sons girlfriends friend keeps coming on to me and is always flirting with me. What should I do.

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By *ike231251 OP Man
over a year ago

Heckmondwike

Oh forgot to say she is only 17 and has just come out of a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple stay away..

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

Yeah, i'd keep your distance on that one - you'd be in for a world of trouble/awkwardness if you got involved in any way, given how you know each other.

If she's just came out of a relationship it seems she's just on a bit of a rebound thing and not thinking straight.

Not a good idea at all, heh!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Tell her to behave herself!!

Or go for it and ruin your relationship with your son.

Whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really need to ask ? It's your sons gf

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"It's a trap!"

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not a good idea

flattering I'm sure but a " step away "in my eyes

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

What a silly question .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stories and fantasies...?

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By *ophiasChoiceWoman
over a year ago

ystrad mynach

"Stories and fantasies...?"

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

Wake up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice what would you do. My sons girlfriends friend keeps coming on to me and is always flirting with me. What should I do."

She's probably just taking the piss!

Maybe a wind up?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Don't confuse being friendly with flirting she is in a relationship with your son

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Lol...pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ride the arse clean off her sure its all abit of craic im sure ur son will give ya a high 5 after lol.

eh computer says no !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it said it was his sons gf friend not his sons gf.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Advice what would you do. My sons girlfriends friend keeps coming on to me and is always flirting with me. What should I do."

Back off OP she's maybe 17 but come on how many of us at that age where really mature and truly grown up able to handle the consequences of our actions with out running home at the first sign of trouble,

My emotions at that age where all over the place my guess is hers will be to so as the adult you have no choice but to try and protect her from herself by not going there in my opinion .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Advice what would you do. My sons girlfriends friend keeps coming on to me and is always flirting with me. What should I do."

You're 53 years old, do you REALLY need advise?!!

A vulnerable teen and you want to take advantage...sigh!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I thought it said it was his sons gf friend not his sons gf."

He did, but some have got the wrong end of the stick.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Advice what would you do. My sons girlfriends friend keeps coming on to me and is always flirting with me. What should I do."

For God's sake man, you're old enough to be her Grandad, do you REALLY need us to advise you???

Start thinking with your big head, not your little one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it said it was his sons gf friend not his sons gf."
yes I thought that.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"I thought it said it was his sons gf friend not his sons gf.yes I thought that."

Does it actually matter WHICH 17 year old it is? Surely the fact that she is 17 is the main thing, whether she is his sons girlfriend, sons girlfriend's friend or the next door neighbour - she is a teenager and he is a man in his 50's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see as her "coming onto you" and flirting is probably just her being friendly and nothing more.

Do not go there.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Stories and fantasies...?"

Sounds that way....

A bit of parading on here methinks

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By *ike231251 OP Man
over a year ago

Heckmondwike

1 It is my sons girlfriends, friend.

2 It is a true story.

I have told her that I am very flattered but she is far to young for me. But I just wanted to see what others would have done.

Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice what would you do. My sons girlfriends friend keeps coming on to me and is always flirting with me. What should I do."
tell your son I mean the woman/girl needs help

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"1 It is my sons girlfriends, friend.

2 It is a true story.

I have told her that I am very flattered but she is far to young for me. But I just wanted to see what others would have done.

Thanks all"

OP I suspect a lot are people posting in here have never been put into the position you were put it .

Its never easy rebuking unwanted advances and doubly hard when its one so young as you don't want to hurt then as their so young new to the adult world in a lot of ways .

Good on you for doing right thing by this young girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sons 17 year old friend has been messgeing me all kinds of rude stuff and likes anything I put on FB (my son knows nothing btw) but I NEVER respond to him, he's got the message now. I can't block him or delete him btw, my son would ask why!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Be flattered, enjoy the attention, be kind and attentive so as not to upset her or make her feel silly, but act like the mature man you are and stay well away. How would you like a sex crazed middle aged man taking advantage of your daughter simply because she had a crush on him?

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