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anal sex for first timer any tips please??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hii im new to being fucked but i want it and keep getting badgered to do it any tips to make it hurt less cause the pain is litterly unbearable thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of lube!!! Thats the key ... the more the better !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get well lubed, stay relaxed and take it slowly

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Relax, lube, slowly, lube, gently, lube

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

You should want to do it first. never do it feeling badgered, you won't be relaxed enough to make it easier and enjoy it.

I'd recommend playing by yourself first. Slowly and gently with a small toy. oh and did anyone mention lube?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should want to do it first. never do it feeling badgered, you won't be relaxed enough to make it easier and enjoy it.

I'd recommend playing by yourself first. Slowly and gently with a small toy. oh and did anyone mention lube?? lol

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Can we watch u practise then shortie ??

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

Toys, lube, relax, lube and did I say lube.

Relaxing is the key. Build up to it slowly and get ur partner to get u loosened up first.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Lots of lube and get your partner to start by gently inserting their slimmest finger first slowly. Remove finger then insert the next slimmest. Work up until the anus is suitably relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube and gentle fingerings first. For the actual penetration I found it best for my man to kneel down and I knelt in front of him with my back to him and eased myself onto him. That way you can go at your own pace taking as much as you want and he can play with your nipple and clit while you are lowering yourself onto him. Once he has his helmet past your entrance it becomes a lot easier and enjoyable. Patience is the key and gentleness. Even now anal sex can be painful if a guy takes me roughly. Enjoy

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT


"You should want to do it first. never do it feeling badgered, you won't be relaxed enough to make it easier and enjoy it.

I'd recommend playing by yourself first. Slowly and gently with a small toy. oh and did anyone mention lube?? lol

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Perfect advice - doesn't always happen first time either!! We took a couple of attempts!

Was easier when we had a night out with just a couple of drinks and had a lot of hot foreplay first, as soon as you are really relaxed it was easier and did anyone mention Lube?? Plenty of lube! Discomfort soon goes and you will be wondering why you had worried!!

Enjoy - when YOU are ready!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it because you want it. Not because someone wants to do it to you.

You will probably relax more then.

Douche toys lube and a confident trusted person to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do girls get anything from anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any tips? just take the tip to begin with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if it's done right and I'm horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and for the op ...

Lube , poppers , and the right frame of mind .

Be sure you are really turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do girls get anything from anal

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Yes I love it, I even prefer it to normal vaginal.sex at times with the right person, but I have to trust them to do it with in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use olive oil..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do girls get anything from anal

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Oh yessssss! But not with everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal is not for everybody, even in the Gay and Trans community it is only practised by a minority as most find it painfull, uncomfortable and unpleasant..

Regardless of what you see on the internet or even by those that make much of claiming to be fucked up the bum..

If its hurting you lots , perhaps its not for you.

Sex is meant to be enjoyable, a pleasure not a fearfull expectation of a very sore arsehole....

Think about what I have said ...

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Our advice is to get fisted first..... Then you'll barely feel it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal is not for everybody, even in the Gay and Trans community it is only practised by a minority as most find it painfull, uncomfortable and unpleasant..

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eh how do you know if its only practised by the minority or the majority ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine, and plenty of it

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By *wick119Man
over a year ago

Prestwick


"Our advice is to get fisted first..... Then you'll barely feel it !!"

Couldn't agree more.....get fisted....such an amazing feeling

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

As they said relax lube it and take it slowly and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of lube and small cock goes well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do girls get anything from anal

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Are you kidding??? I'm addicted...!!!

It feels fabulous...

For first-timers though - don't, don't just wait for him to push into you - that hurts - it really hurts! It isn't designed to open inwards...

Instead, back onto his cock, and then "push outwards" ( same as if you're going to the loo...) and your bum will relax and open quite easily...

Once you're used to it, and you no longer tense up, then anal should never hurt again!

Enjoy it - both the physical pleasure and the lovely intense feeling of being "taken"... It's something that you really have to surrender to...

Damn, I wish I hadn't written that - I'm all hot and bothered now...!

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By *wick119Man
over a year ago

Prestwick


"Do girls get anything from anal

Are you kidding??? I'm addicted...!!!

It feels fabulous...

For first-timers though - don't, don't just wait for him to push into you - that hurts - it really hurts! It isn't designed to open inwards...

Instead, back onto his cock, and then "push outwards" ( same as if you're going to the loo...) and your bum will relax and open quite easily...

Once you're used to it, and you no longer tense up, then anal should never hurt again!

Enjoy it - both the physical pleasure and the lovely intense feeling of being "taken"... It's something that you really have to surrender to...

Damn, I wish I hadn't written that - I'm all hot and bothered now...!

"

It's just the same for guys getting pegged or fisted...the bit about being "Taken" and not in control "is" very hot!!

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