FabSwingers.com forum: What do you tell your vanilla friends

By *ool11 OP Man
over a year ago

st annes

I'm just interested what you fab lot tell your vanilla friends if they ask what you get up to in your spare time?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I tell them I meet hot young guys and have sex with them

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is just my close friends, not acquaintance type friends.

If they were to ask I'd say I do quite a bit of dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them all the juicy stories, no names of course though. They love it and think it's brill lol x

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By *ool11 OP Man
over a year ago

st annes

"I tell them all the juicy stories, no names of course though. They love it and think it's brill lol x"

I've never said a single word to anyone, my friends couldn't be trusted with that kind of ammunition on me.

P.s nice profile

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By *ildflower.xWoman
over a year ago

Grimsby

I tell them absolutely nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them I meet hot young guys and have sex with them

This

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

We don't tell anyone! The ex-husband and ex-wife would have a field day! Mind you they both wouldn't know fun if it screamed in their face lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen any reason to discuss my sex life with anyone who isn't involved in it.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Never tell.

Cos you cant un-tell.

And most people are secretly jealous as hell and vendictive with it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If asked I'm honest just no names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell no-one.

My daughter thinks I'm going on POF blind dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am lucky on POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them I meet hot young guys and have sex with them

This

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My best mate knows I'm on here, shagging random guys and girls.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I tell no-one.

My daughter thinks I'm going on POF blind dates. "

At a certain broadcaster its compulsory to use POOF]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married with children. We have no spare time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tell my best friend who alsos uses fab wouldnt tell any1 tho my kids would have a fit if they found out that there innocent mam used a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say when we have free time we're always busy shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I told my newest mates I was a swinger, one came out as questioning, one as a swinger and the rest said get on with it, good luck, wish I had the balls.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We have told our close friends. We think it helps to break down the stigma around ethical non-monogamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know about my hobby and they all can't believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends and family know I have been a swinger for years and are all excellent about it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too embarrassing to tell anyone this kind of stuff . Just enjoy the lifestyle quietly , why would you bother telling anyone .

Keep the juicy stuff to yourself ,yummy

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By *oulgirlWoman
over a year ago

Your Dreams!

I don't tell anyone, best kept to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my two besties know what i do,as do my grown up kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them I meet hot young guys and have sex with them

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ditto

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"We don't tell anyone! The ex-husband and ex-wife would have a field day! Mind you they both wouldn't know fun if it screamed in their face lol x"

My ex has popped up on here in a couples profile

My best friends know and are fine with it. Others wouldn't understand so I tell them it's a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno...All of our friends are swingers...

We tell our families we're meeting friends...no need for any further information...

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Not discussed it with mates - apart from the three of them I found on here in my first week, lol.

Do love going into work after a few days off and being asked what I've been up to. Just say out with mates in London, never mention it was at a swingers club, but sometimes wish I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't tell anyone! The ex-husband and ex-wife would have a field day! Mind you they both wouldn't know fun if it screamed in their face lol x"

same here! We don't get much free time so when we do have a night off we make most of it and get a hotel and go to a club. Just tell people got a lovely night away booked

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By *iandbustyWoman
over a year ago

motherwell

I keep my private life private they don't need to know anything about what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing I'm a Vicker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I spend my weekends doing embroidery and word searches rather than being fucked by hot guys from t'internet

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

As we have a lot of interests out side of swinging we just talk about those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I told my mates everything none of them would believe me. They'd think I was taking the piss. So instead I keep it to myself and smile away when they're telling me about their lives and how they wish they had more excitement lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard on a Monday morning getting asked "what did you get up to at the weekend?"

I hate lying, so my answers are always bland.

They must think I lead an incredibly boring life! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If asked I'm honest just no names "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

My close friends know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They know nothing. If hubby and i get to meet together it will normally involve a weekend away and parents babysitting so all they need to know is we have booked a hotel for a night off from the kids. When i meet alone i meet midweek evening's and no one does anything exciting midweek so no one asks.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'm just interested what you fab lot tell your vanilla friends if they ask what you get up to in your spare time? "

It depends how well I know them, or how I gauge their reaction might be in terms of how broadminded/adventurous they are themselves.

I tell my best mate, but then he was a right dirty stop out back in the day (before marriage and kids)...He's just a little be envious of all the kinky shit I get up to with lots of different women.

I also discussed it with another mate, who it turns out actually used to have a profile on here himself.

For the most part though I keep it under my hat...not too difficult to do as a single fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I told my mates everything none of them would believe me. They'd think I was taking the piss. So instead I keep it to myself and smile away when they're telling me about their lives and how they wish they had more excitement lol x"

One of my most vanilla friends asked us what we did last night. Adam replied "ooooh the usual, went to a club where everyone took off their clothes and had sex". She just giggled and said "no really you two, what did you do"? I said "we went for a curry"! Which she completely accepted. Giggle.

I have 3 girlfriends that know. A hadn't told any of his friends, but possibly could tell 1.

We don't tell because we chose to be a little secretive but if We meet someone We know at a club it wouldn't bother us. Just don't want to become a talking point.

V and A xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told one of my mates who instantly asked if he could fuck E made a great video as knowing him so well I could pretty much direct the action like a proper amateur porno and see exactly what I wanted lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I say I am off to football I hat go to swinging club either night before or after football

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I keep this side of my life very private, I don't tell anything to anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them I meet hot young guys and have sex with them

This

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them all the juicy stories, no names of course though. They love it and think it's brill lol x

I've never said a single word to anyone, my friends couldn't be trusted with that kind of ammunition on me.

P.s nice profile

Thanks. You to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell them absolutely nothing

Us too, its nothing to do with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just interested what you fab lot tell your vanilla friends if they ask what you get up to in your spare time? "

The truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them we go off visiting friends. M has a tendency to let things slip after a couple of pints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say nothing, although sometimes I have a real urge to. But I like having a side no one knows about.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out partying with girls mainly....but swingfields nearly caught me out

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

What goes on in our house stays that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell the truth just miss out the bits I don't want them to know, if I have been to a club I say I've been to a club I just don't say its a swingers club, if I go to a cenima I say I've been to the cenima I just don't say its an adult cenima, you get the picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say I go on dates

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

My mum asked last night why I was on the pill cos I'm not having sex. I said how do you know I might be out every weekend shagging different guys!

Cue family pissing themselves saying, bollocks you just lie on your couch watching tv (also true).

So I do tell the truth just people don't believe me

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Dating.. Pof is a handy excuse.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We're "going shopping " usually which seeing as we meet daytimes mainly is appropriate

We also have some "do not disturb" work meetings

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