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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate being the wrong side of 40!

The amount of profiles that have max age of 40. Don't think I look that old, just a few years ago I got asked for id when getting some ciggies! Would like to say, but get the, you cannot message as you are outside the members age requirements. Doh! And then, find someone looking upto 42. Now that is just taking the proverbial!

Life just ain't fair! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first lesson I learnt in here, was age is irrelevant. If the person in question is young at heart, has a positive outlook and takes pride in their appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we go to clubs. Played with several from fab who had age prefs we were outside of but were happy to play when we met in the club environment, even knowing our ages...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Age isn't just a number it's about maturity, experience and skill in our experience. We also prefer clubs and have always have more fun with older people so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate being the wrong side of 40!

Life just ain't fair! Lol"

Totally different opinion here. I'm fitter, healthier, happier, more relaxed and more confident now.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I hate being the wrong side of 40!

The amount of profiles that have max age of 40. Don't think I look that old, just a few years ago I got asked for id when getting some ciggies! Would like to say, but get the, you cannot message as you are outside the members age requirements. Doh! And then, find someone looking upto 42. Now that is just taking the proverbial!

Life just ain't fair! Lol"

You have an age limit on your profile too! There may be a very young looking hot 61 year old lady that would like to meet you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently lowered my age range after seeing a really nice guy at a club and finding he was way under my lower age limit and maybe I was missing out by having such rigid age limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it silly and yes its just a number, many say cos they got kids at 30 so would feel wrong to meet someone under that age. I mean common lol.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you think all the 61 year olds should start a thread moaning

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

To me, age is a sign of achievement.

I've currently achieved almost 43 years without dying.... how good is that?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it silly and yes its just a number, many say cos they got kids at 30 so would feel wrong to meet someone under that age. I mean common lol."

If I know someone is the same age as my mum or dad, I won't go there. Yes it's a mental thing, but I can't get past it.

I have my age set at 41 max (I think), but if I meet someone older and find them attractive then it's different. Same as those under 40, if I don't find them attractive I won't. But there's many under that look older and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate being the wrong side of 40!

The amount of profiles that have max age of 40. Don't think I look that old, just a few years ago I got asked for id when getting some ciggies! Would like to say, but get the, you cannot message as you are outside the members age requirements. Doh! And then, find someone looking upto 42. Now that is just taking the proverbial!

Life just ain't fair! Lol

You have an age limit on your profile too! There may be a very young looking hot 61 year old lady that would like to meet you! "

They're welcome, and as far as I know, able to message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you think all the 61 year olds should start a thread moaning"

I wouldn't call my post a moan. Just an observation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait til you get to my age. I'm that old I have to be carbon dated!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No it isn't just a number in my opinion, the difference between me and a twenty five year old is huge in looks, body, attitude, life experience etc. I think we should celebrate the fact that every age has its compensations and disadvantages and stop trying to pretend that age is irrelevant.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I hate being the wrong side of 40!

Life just ain't fair! Lol

Totally different opinion here. I'm fitter, healthier, happier, more relaxed and more confident now. "

Yes but you're at the wrong end of the country too

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Do you think all the 61 year olds should start a thread moaning

I wouldn't call my post a moan. Just an observation! "

Anyone who says "Life just ain't fair!" is moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it isn't just a number in my opinion, the difference between me and a twenty five year old is huge in looks, body, attitude, life experience etc. I think we should celebrate the fact that every age has its compensations and disadvantages and stop trying to pretend that age is irrelevant."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some young 'uns though that celebrate older geezers. I had a 20 year old who wanted to meet me because apparently 'us guys do it better'! Certainly put a huge grin on my face but I didn't meet up with them as I don't think I'd be comfortable being with someone that young.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The thing that amazes me the most is why people worry about what everyone else is looking for, so you might be over the age limit of some but there are still plenty of others to look at and meet, I say let them make up their own minds I who suits them and you do the same

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Agree. I am in my fifties and find it difficult.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I hate being the wrong side of 40!

Life just ain't fair! Lol

Totally different opinion here. I'm fitter, healthier, happier, more relaxed and more confident now. "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got the prisoner by iron maiden in my head now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't worry about it. Would you rather the alternative?

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