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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun) all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean you don't sit waiting, all dressed up, 24 hours a day just in case

(No, neither do I)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's all down to perceptions. I think when some people get recklessly horny then they'd take chances that they wouldn't usually. However, I like a more measured and relaxed approach. Like everything in the swinging world 'it's horses for courses!' x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You mean you don't sit waiting, all dressed up, 24 hours a day just in case

(No, neither do I) "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun) all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!! "

I just say, let me grab my coat! It's takes them at least 30 minutes to suss out I'm being a sarcastic bitch

As I don't even know where they are staying

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? "

Could be trying their luck, or be one of the sort who think a woman on here must be easy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh....fab whingers is on the rise...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun) all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!!

I just say, let me grab my coat! It's takes them at least 30 minutes to suss out I'm being a sarcastic bitch

As I don't even know where they are staying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun) all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!! "

What part of your profile should they be reading?

Your profile simply states you're a bi women looking for men and couples then some childish legal notice that's not worth the keystrokes.

What alert of your profile would have let them know you don't do short notice meets?

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

It happens all the time,they thinkus T Girls are dressed all the time lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Apart from a meaningless warning, your profile is half a line. Perhaps this might not entice them into conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say all that on your profile op then they would know, so how would they know what to send if there is nothing to go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens all the time,they thinkus T Girls are dressed all the time lol"

Depends what you mean by tgirl if you mean a trans girl then they aren't "dressed" at all its just their normal clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just guys playing the numbers. So much more of a buzz to keep knocking them back though isn't?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone?? Dont mistake swinging site for escorts site. Even if I sat naked outside does that mean anyone can fuck me?? Answer for any idiot that is confused is NO !! Correct me if I'm wrong but swingers choose who turn them on, choose who they want to be turned on by. And choose being the prominent point that I make. How cam u choose someone that will push ur buttons from a profile and do u want to fuck email?? Surely chatting and getting to know someone better is all part of the fantastic build up? And like I said I'm no prude, I love the club scene and things move quicker there as u are in person. But u still srlay fucking hello!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Sounds like a typical man thing.

When men are horny it's NOW... There's very little planning involved just a dodgy cock pic and a demand for you to drop everything.

Tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??"

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like a typical man thing.

When men are horny it's NOW... There's very little planning involved just a dodgy cock pic and a demand for you to drop everything.

Tedious "

Exactly tedious. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone?? Dont mistake swinging site for escorts site. Even if I sat naked outside does that mean anyone can fuck me?? Answer for any idiot that is confused is NO !! Correct me if I'm wrong but swingers choose who turn them on, choose who they want to be turned on by. And choose being the prominent point that I make. How cam u choose someone that will push ur buttons from a profile and do u want to fuck email?? Surely chatting and getting to know someone better is all part of the fantastic build up? And like I said I'm no prude, I love the club scene and things move quicker there as u are in person. But u still srlay fucking hello! "

Again you profile says nothing about you at all so most people will find it border line impossible to start a conversation with you.

People who know what they're looking for will message profiles that are looking for the same thing, your profile says nothing so you get the guys looking for anything that will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be anncreasingly common complaint by some about the new intake of single guys?

Being newish I don't know if there is a change....but I have come across this too.

I just use the block option....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing."

I mean people asking I I'm to certain things, and I have clearly ticked my interests. Also how long have I been on fab have I had any meets? U can clearly see on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apart from a meaningless warning, your profile is half a line. Perhaps this might not entice them into conversation? "

Didn't realise I needed a dissertation. Perhaps people could look at my interests and choose a common one to start a conversation. Its not difficult

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By *exybum_30Woman
over a year ago

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"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun) all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!! "

Omg I couldn't agree more! If anything its a turn off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing.

I mean people asking I I'm to certain things, and I have clearly ticked my interests. Also how long have I been on fab have I had any meets? U can clearly see on my profile "

So guys have also messaged you trying to engage conversation and you complain about that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing.

I mean people asking I I'm to certain things, and I have clearly ticked my interests. Also how long have I been on fab have I had any meets? U can clearly see on my profile

So guys have also messaged you trying to engage conversation and you complain about that too "

Id u read the thread properly, like if men read interests properly then I'm quite happy to answer questions. Dont ask questions when the answer are there for you. And as for me mot having much on my profile, does that really mean I dont deserve at least a hello?? I'm a swinger. I'm not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how the exact advice that's always given to single males when given to a single female gets met with rage.

Gotta love a sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I respect we all have our own opinions. Thanks everyone who has added to the feed. If I have agreed or disagreed I have loved reading everyone's opinions and point of views. Love to everyone. Night all xx

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By *ingdong91Man
over a year ago

shropshire

That's the trouble with half the males on here, it also reflects really bad on the really nice genuine makes too, guess when the first message is are we fucking the best reply is block ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing.

I mean people asking I I'm to certain things, and I have clearly ticked my interests. Also how long have I been on fab have I had any meets? U can clearly see on my profile

So guys have also messaged you trying to engage conversation and you complain about that too

Id u read the thread properly, like if men read interests properly then I'm quite happy to answer questions. Dont ask questions when the answer are there for you. And as for me mot having much on my profile, does that really mean I dont deserve at least a hello?? I'm a swinger. I'm not easy. "

So "hello, wanna come over and get fucked in the ass" would be fine as they are taking into account you can't accom but can travel and you have analysis as an interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love how the exact advice that's always given to single males when given to a single female gets met with rage.

Gotta love a sense of entitlement "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting its only men that feed negative into this feed. Even if I hadn't even written anything on my profile does that mean I'm up to be fucked by anyone??

Your specific complaint was they hadn't read your profile.

So how would reading your profile have helped given it says literally nothing.

I mean people asking I I'm to certain things, and I have clearly ticked my interests. Also how long have I been on fab have I had any meets? U can clearly see on my profile

So guys have also messaged you trying to engage conversation and you complain about that too

Id u read the thread properly, like if men read interests properly then I'm quite happy to answer questions. Dont ask questions when the answer are there for you. And as for me mot having much on my profile, does that really mean I dont deserve at least a hello?? I'm a swinger. I'm not easy.

So "hello, wanna come over and get fucked in the ass" would be fine as they are taking into account you can't accom but can travel and you have analysis as an interest "

gotta love predictive text fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps if the OP actually HAD a profile to read? I know that doesn't excuse the few idiots who think this site really id Dail-A-Fuck, but c'mon, give us something to read. It doesn't take more than 10 minutes to write a half decent profile, surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps if the OP actually HAD a profile to read? I know that doesn't excuse the few idiots who think this site really id Dail-A-Fuck, but c'mon, give us something to read. It doesn't take more than 10 minutes to write a half decent profile, surely?"

All I asked for was hello? Didn't realise I needed a dissertation for that??

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I'm not too sure when some comments on here are coming from....

Surely its pure courtesy to day "hello how are you" before jumping in to "lets fuck" which is a bigger turn off than anything

I have too much detail on my profile yet the abuse still rolls in

I think of u dnr have stuff on ur profile it leads to people asking more questions...i put stuff on my profile and jst get askd the dame questions or askd why I have put that...which becomes infuriating

Op thank you i think ur point is a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too sure when some comments on here are coming from....

Surely its pure courtesy to day "hello how are you" before jumping in to "lets fuck" which is a bigger turn off than anything

I have too much detail on my profile yet the abuse still rolls in

I think of u dnr have stuff on ur profile it leads to people asking more questions...i put stuff on my profile and jst get askd the dame questions or askd why I have put that...which becomes infuriating

Op thank you i think ur point is a good one."

I have no dog in this fight. But I have read on many women/couples profiles that state. Don't write one line messages. Make it count. No " Hi , how are you , no how was the weekend "

So I think when guys read that.Then send a message like " Hi , I'm free tonight. Would you like to come over " They are getting straight to the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No effort in equals reward out yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun) all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!!

I just say, let me grab my coat! It's takes them at least 30 minutes to suss out I'm being a sarcastic bitch

As I don't even know where they are staying "
funny as fook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of comments on here comparing the OP's situation to the single men on here with basic profiles. C'mon we all accept there's a difference, rightly or wrongly? The single men with basic profiles on here come on say no-one messages no matter how hard they try. A woman has a basic profile but gets cranky messages and it's her fault cos "well the single guys get stick for basic profiles". Ironic thing is those same guys would kill for that sort of attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people who haven't even read ur profile, presume that because its a swingers site, they can message with "I'm free tonight come over and fuck" ??? Is it just me or is having at least some conversation other than yes where and what time important?? Dont get me wrong, I'm clearly no prude, and the swingers club is a different ball game (forgive the pun)

all together. But Jesus at least say fucking hello!!! "

However you do have the flip side to that. The ones that go on about wanting serenading or to join book clubs together,and get offended if you so much as hint about putting ones finger up a lady's bottom. I'll no doubt get heckled but I don't mind.

P.s any girls around fancy water sports with me?

Merry Christmas .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like fancy a fuck messages. Even more so if I fancy a fuck at that time. Met many men from here after exchanging 3 messages.

Fancy a fuck.

Yes.

Address given and on my way.

Works for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too sure when some comments on here are coming from....

Surely its pure courtesy to day "hello how are you" before jumping in to "lets fuck" which is a bigger turn off than anything

I have too much detail on my profile yet the abuse still rolls in

I think of u dnr have stuff on ur profile it leads to people asking more questions...i put stuff on my profile and jst get askd the dame questions or askd why I have put that...which becomes infuriating

Op thank you i think ur point is a good one.

I have no dog in this fight. But I have read on many women/couples profiles that state. Don't write one line messages. Make it count. No " Hi , how are you , no how was the weekend "

So I think when guys read that.Then send a message like " Hi , I'm free tonight. Would you like to come over " They are getting straight to the point. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not really read all the posts, but here's my thoughts to the OP.

I regularly message women/couples, tailoring my messages to match the profile, and the response is really abysmal.

However some nights I see who's online and send out a message like "you looking for fun tonight?" I've had a few fun meets from that.

Maybe this quick approach makes sense?

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"I like fancy a fuck messages. Even more so if I fancy a fuck at that time. Met many men from here after exchanging 3 messages.

Fancy a fuck.

Yes.

Address given and on my way.

Works for some "

Works for us. Better than 2 months of messages and then UNLOS xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luv this answer. Must remember it. Giggling for ages after reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the delete option for messages like That.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like fancy a fuck messages. Even more so if I fancy a fuck at that time. Met many men from here after exchanging 3 messages.

Fancy a fuck.

Yes.

Address given and on my way.

Works for some

Works for us. Better than 2 months of messages and then UNLOS xx"

Absolutely right , we like this approach too

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk


"Apart from a meaningless warning, your profile is half a line. Perhaps this might not entice them into conversation?

Didn't realise I needed a dissertation. Perhaps people could look at my interests and choose a common one to start a conversation. Its not difficult "
To be honest, your interests do suggest you are a bit of a kinky soul. So cutting to the chase I could see why some guys may believe it reasonable to say fancy a fuck? Is no different in clubs - we are swingers and are here for sex

I've had many a lady sit by me in a club and start wanking or sucking me without a hello. A naughty smile is enough

Even had one hot sexy lady recently shout over am I going to sit and play with my cock or come fuck her

Is it just open to the point messages from guys you don't like? If a woman said I'd love you to come round and fuck me etc would that be hated as much?

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