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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you had arranged with someone a meet time and asked them to confirm with a clear yes or no to the meet on th day while chatting and they signed off without contact, would you go to the meeting point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, well it depends how far, if a mile or so away I would walk, but not if it was longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was meeting you I probably would on the off chance you were there

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"If you had arranged with someone a meet time and asked them to confirm with a clear yes or no to the meet on th day while chatting and they signed off without contact, would you go to the meeting point?"

No they have avoided your question and not confirmed the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not unless it was very close or they got in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, if you are desperate try out you luck, might get lucky

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If you had arranged with someone a meet time and asked them to confirm with a clear yes or no to the meet on th day while chatting and they signed off without contact, would you go to the meeting point?"

Nope...won't go to a meet until I have a phone number and normally insist that we have spoken on the phone at least one time before any meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, not unless it was very close or they got in touch."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you had arranged with someone a meet time and asked them to confirm with a clear yes or no to the meet on th day while chatting and they signed off without contact, would you go to the meeting point?

Nope...won't go to a meet until I have a phone number and normally insist that we have spoken on the phone at least one time before any meet."

Yes I always speak on the phone as well. This meet was arranged a week ago and have spoken today by text but no confirmation and not answering when I tried to phone.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

deffo not

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No because its a bit rude of them not to confirm. You need to know yay or nay before you spend your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Wait for the excuses as to why they didn't confirm later.

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By *eekayCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

That seems very rude. So we wouldn't go. Courtesy costs nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely sporran

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nope, I won't even get in the shower now without a firm confirmation!! Even if someone is just rude enough not to be clear it's a big turnoff for me and I tend to just say 'Forget it, another time maybe'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no, I would want to speak to them on the phone first though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That seems very rude. So we wouldn't go. Courtesy costs nothing."

Couldn't agree more,

Thanks everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! that's why I like to get to know someone before meeting, chat on here, chat on the phone a couple of times, then excited text messages on the day, a text to say they have left and even a text to give an eta. Looking at your pics I definitely would be confirming yes! sorry, couldn't help myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not. It's only polite to confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not! What's more sus is when they agree to meet then don't show. That sort of behaviour makes us both very suspicious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To begin with they arranged and said yes?

Your asking the day of the meet is it still a yes and they're not responding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Had this happen to me last week. Person didn't sign on to confirm meet, so I didn't go and glad I didn't as he didn't go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No x

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