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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i've just received a wink from a couple who don't want winking themselves! how do i turn my winks off?

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Don't think you can, just delete them if you're not interested.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"i've just received a wink from a couple who don't want winking themselves! how do i turn my winks off?"

wink 'em back just to wind them up...

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

wink at me instead to make them jealous

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By *affygt61Man
over a year ago

rhondda

we can all wink at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've just received a wink from a couple who don't want winking themselves! how do i turn my winks off?"

oh i usually mail them and point out they have stated no winks and then ask them why they have winked me

same with couples who state over and over NO SINGLE MEN then mail me when my profile states i dont meet couples, i mail them and ask them why they think its ok to do what they moan about others doing, dont usually get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd mail them back and say it's ok for you to wink at me but we can't wink back at you then I'd be really naughty and wink them all the time

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I forget to look at my winks for weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've just received a wink from a couple who don't want winking themselves! how do i turn my winks off?"

Call them " Winkers " and see what happens lol

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I forget to look at my winks for weeks."

just winked u

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I forget to look at my winks for weeks.

just winked u"

Why would ypu do that lol... I'd just said I forget to look at them.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I forget to look at my winks for weeks.

just winked u

Why would ypu do that lol... I'd just said I forget to look at them."

opps sorry.. sent u a wink and didnt look to see if u didnt want winkers.. shit didnt read ur profile.. typical single bloke lol xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I forget to look at my winks for weeks.

just winked u

Why would ypu do that lol... I'd just said I forget to look at them.

opps sorry.. sent u a wink and didnt look to see if u didnt want winkers.. shit didnt read ur profile.. typical single bloke lol xx"

I don't think I state anything about not wanting them... I just forget to look at them for weeks/months

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I forget to look at my winks for weeks.

just winked u

Why would ypu do that lol... I'd just said I forget to look at them.

opps sorry.. sent u a wink and didnt look to see if u didnt want winkers.. shit didnt read ur profile.. typical single bloke lol xx

I don't think I state anything about not wanting them... I just forget to look at them for weeks/months"

u got me thinking i hadnt checked my winks for a while.. i just went in and there were 3 winks.. went to look at the profiles one was a lady that had blocked me... whats the point of sending me a wink if i cant say hi ?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the whole winking thing, what I struggle to understand is the friend invites with no other prior contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that sounds a bit bizarre, people winking and then blocking!it's a bit like people 'looking at you' from far afield, i just don't understand it. today, i've had people from all over the country looking at me, curiouser and curiouser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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u got me thinking i hadnt checked my winks for a while.. i just went in and there were 3 winks.. went to look at the profiles one was a lady that had blocked me... whats the point of sending me a wink if i cant say hi ?.."

She probably blocked you because you didn't drop everything and respond to her wink immediately.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


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u got me thinking i hadnt checked my winks for a while.. i just went in and there were 3 winks.. went to look at the profiles one was a lady that had blocked me... whats the point of sending me a wink if i cant say hi ?..

She probably blocked you because you didn't drop everything and respond to her wink immediately. "

really dont know.. aint bothered .. just thought it a bit odd..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to MY ACCOUNT at the top on the blue bar.

Go to E MAIL NOTIFICATIONS near the bottom of the left hand menu.

Go to WINKS. Select turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did try to send you the details but you have me blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get the whole winking thing, what I struggle to understand is the friend invites with no other prior contact"

i just dont get the friends invite at all

the only thing i can see why anyone would add you is to look at your private pics, other than that i see no benifit of being on someones friends list

and im sure lots of people just accept anyone so they look popular, when i see someone with a friends list 4 pages long i just think what a waste of time hiding your pics if you just going to let everyone see them anwyay

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"that sounds a bit bizarre, people winking and then blocking!it's a bit like people 'looking at you' from far afield, i just don't understand it. today, i've had people from all over the country looking at me, curiouser and curiouser!"

Nahhh nothing curious about that... the kids are off school.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"that sounds a bit bizarre, people winking and then blocking!it's a bit like people 'looking at you' from far afield, i just don't understand it. today, i've had people from all over the country looking at me, curiouser and curiouser!

Nahhh nothing curious about that... the kids are off school."

never thought of that think u mite have a point..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"that sounds a bit bizarre, people winking and then blocking!it's a bit like people 'looking at you' from far afield, i just don't understand it. today, i've had people from all over the country looking at me, curiouser and curiouser!

Nahhh nothing curious about that... the kids are off school.

never thought of that think u mite have a point.."

There are noticable times of the year when more one liners asking to see pics, more will you go on cam requests and so on, seem to turn up in the inbox.... these times coincide with the school calendar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best is they've added you as s friend I mail back asking them why as I don't know them and they say so I can see your private pics, bloomin cheek, I only have peeps in my friends list that I have every intention of meeting not just to make numbers up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had 1 wink since I've been on here

And then they didn't reply when I mailed them anyway.

I rarely bother winking at other people though tbh, because so many people are so uptight about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like winks coz its good to show interested and if sumone winks back ill send a message as it saves alot of time filling up people mail boxes with people they dont wana meet but so maybe people think its lazy when its actually more polite!

ry x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I had a couple wink me, so I looked at their profile to check I was in all their relevant categories, winked back and sent them a nice message with a pic thanking them for the wink.

It was deleted unread...next day they winked me again...

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

I like to get winks cos then usually you get the friend invite straight after

now me being the softest bloke on her of course i delete the friend invite lol then mail them and say

so you winked me and nowyou want to see all 70 odd pics to jerk over do you without even a hello??

i get 2 responses...

nothing

or

hi we are such and such we want this and that

well why not do that in the FIRST PLACE!!!!!

if i wink anyone it means i,m interested and i usually send a message too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bloody winkers xx

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

Hiya, we like being winked and if we like your profile we'll wink back. Occasionally, if we really like the profile we'll send a message rather than a wink reply. But generally wait for the original winked to send a message, after all you started it...

Hope all you fab folks have a great Christmas too. X

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Hiya, we like being winked and if we like your profile we'll wink back. Occasionally, if we really like the profile we'll send a message rather than a wink reply. But generally wait for the original winked to send a message, after all you started it...

Hope all you fab folks have a great Christmas too. X"

Your pic's certainly worth a wink!!

...yes, I said wink.

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

Well thank you kind sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know, don't get any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a good wink

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I've received 11 winks today already!

All from myself, god I love me.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I've received 11 winks today already!

All from myself, god I love me."

Have we established if we are different people yet? I'm very confused today...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I've received 11 winks today already!

All from myself, god I love me.

Have we established if we are different people yet? I'm very confused today... "

Ah maybe some were from you, you know what I have no idea anymore either.

I thought I was me but then when I PM'd myself earlier it wasn't like me at all. I didn't even call myself hun which I always call myself in my PMs.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I've received 11 winks today already!

All from myself, god I love me.

Have we established if we are different people yet? I'm very confused today...

Ah maybe some were from you, you know what I have no idea anymore either.

I thought I was me but then when I PM'd myself earlier it wasn't like me at all. I didn't even call myself hun which I always call myself in my PMs."

OMG!! Funky this is it!

Your Time Machine has worked, I mean will work, er....

...I have a headache now as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bugger me, just had my first ever wink, shame it was from a bloke

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