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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

I messaged someone today thinking I wouldn't get a response purely because after reading their profile and seeing their pics I assumed they'd be inundated with messages from

Every man in the site.

My message was a simple one and polite and although my opinion was never in a month of Sunday's would I get a response at all let alone a positive one, however said person responded with such a lovely and well written response that was both polite and sweet. Telling me that the only reason she wouldn't be interested would be the distance gave me the shock of my life tbh. She also gave me renewed faith in fab and helped me realise I had become a little cynical. So although I can't means this person I hope she reads this and realises that her few responses she's sent have renewed my faith in the site and had made me realise that manners and politeness with no expectations is the best way to be.

Have a great day everyone

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Well done to you - imagine what will happen with someone closer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged someone today thinking I wouldn't get a response purely because after reading their profile and seeing their pics I assumed they'd be inundated with messages from

Every man in the site.

My message was a simple one and polite and although my opinion was never in a month of Sunday's would I get a response at all let alone a positive one, however said person responded with such a lovely and well written response that was both polite and sweet. Telling me that the only reason she wouldn't be interested would be the distance gave me the shock of my life tbh. She also gave me renewed faith in fab and helped me realise I had become a little cynical. So although I can't means this person I hope she reads this and realises that her few responses she's sent have renewed my faith in the site and had made me realise that manners and politeness with no expectations is the best way to be.

Have a great day everyone "
don't you just hate it when they say you're tooooooo far

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Lol... I'm not meeting atm really. I'm just here for the social side of things as my time is being eaten up all over the place and

My plans can change quite rapidly so I consider less reliable than normal atm. It was just nice to get such a well written and considerate message to a compliment. Was a nice change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you're polite, don't send a cock picture and they're not fake or the male half of a couple, I've found I generally get a polite message back, even if it was just a no thanks.

All the whinging threads are from rude people with either a shit profile or no/all cock pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like a very intelligent gentleman.

Maybe she was impressed by how polite and erudite your message was?

Eloquence is a rare thing indeed, on here.

Credit where it's due.....

Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your to far away = A polite No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You sound like a very intelligent gentleman.

Maybe she was impressed by how polite and erudite your message was?

Eloquence is a rare thing indeed, on here.

Credit where it's due.....

Xxxxx"
I am always impressed by you Cleo very positive attitude are you independently wealthy?

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

A polite no thank is always fine with me. I'm a man that believes that politeness is a virtue. And I am certainly aware I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I think the person I messaged is a true diamond and an absolute credit to this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your to far away = A polite No thanks "

Sometimes it just means they are too far, though.

There have been people we have said no to because they are too far, and we meant it literally.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How refreshing makes a change from the woe is me posts.

Nice one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your to far away = A polite No thanks

Sometimes it just means they are too far, though.

There have been people we have said no to because they are too far, and we meant it literally.

-Courtney"
Courtney distance makes the heart grow fonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your to far away = A polite No thanks

Sometimes it just means they are too far, though.

There have been people we have said no to because they are too far, and we meant it literally.

-Courtney"

Thats nice to hear then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your to far away = A polite No thanks "

As a woman who simply cannot travel far, and dislikes the pressure and expectation that comes with men travelling to me, I wholeheartedly disagree with that.

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cup of tea Mr shifter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You sound like a very intelligent gentleman.

Maybe she was impressed by how polite and erudite your message was?

Eloquence is a rare thing indeed, on here.

Credit where it's due.....

Xxxxx I am always impressed by you Cleo very positive attitude are you independently wealthy? "

I never have to work again.

Does that count?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I find that being down here, loads of sexy fabbers are a long way away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your to far away = A polite No thanks

As a woman who simply cannot travel far, and dislikes the pressure and expectation that comes with men travelling to me, I wholeheartedly disagree with that.

xxxx"

Ive not had as many knock backs as i 1st thought then. Thanks for clearing that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww that's cause your messages are always sweet dude x you deserve nice responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply (don't get many messages ) a nice message always gets a nice reply. The others - well that's fun time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like nice replies. I've just stopped mailing now. If I'm wanted someone will find me.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Nice to see a positive posting , rather than the " iv been on here for 5 minutes and haven't got layed yet , why don't people reply to my crap message even though i couldn't be bothered to read their profile ". Good for you

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By *hattyman80 OP   Man
over a year ago

stockport

Glad my post seems to have gotten some positive messages. Thanks everyone

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