FabSwingers.com forum: Am I boring???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesterday I was on cam just chatting away in bi-chat. I was wearing my nighty because it was early in morning. I was getting loads of nice compliments from most fabbers except 1. I don't remove my clothes or show my body unless I want. But this 1 guy was bugging and bugging me to show my boobs and watch him wank so I ignored him and didn't reply after telling him loads I will not show my boobs and I don't want to watch him wank on cam. Yes I like the attention but not when it's for taking my clothes off. Then he started calling me a boring cock tease and if I don't want guys wanking over me I shouldn't be on site..... It's not that I mind if they do but I just don't want to watch it...... Is this boring and do you agree with him??? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was throwing a paddy cause he didn't get what he wanted.

Ignore, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday I was on cam just chatting away in bi-chat. I was wearing my nighty because it was early in morning. I was getting loads of nice compliments from most fabbers except 1. I don't remove my clothes or show my body unless I want. But this 1 guy was bugging and bugging me to show my boobs and watch him wank so I ignored him and didn't reply after telling him loads I will not show my boobs and I don't want to watch him wank on cam. Yes I like the attention but not when it's for taking my clothes off. Then he started calling me a boring cock tease and if I don't want guys wanking over me I shouldn't be on site..... It's not that I mind if they do but I just don't want to watch it...... Is this boring and do you agree with him??? X"
hey sexy this play is all about doing what you want and what you feel comfortable with ,sod him ,he's not caring about you ,just get out of it what you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a prick who can't take no for an answer. Not your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday I was on cam just chatting away in bi-chat. I was wearing my nighty because it was early in morning. I was getting loads of nice compliments from most fabbers except 1. I don't remove my clothes or show my body unless I want. But this 1 guy was bugging and bugging me to show my boobs and watch him wank so I ignored him and didn't reply after telling him loads I will not show my boobs and I don't want to watch him wank on cam. Yes I like the attention but not when it's for taking my clothes off. Then he started calling me a boring cock tease oand if I don't want guys wanking over me I shouldn't be on site..... It's not that I mind if they do but I just don't want to watch it...... Is this boring and do you agree with him??? X hey sexy this play is all about doing what you want and what you feel comfortable with ,sod him ,he's not caring about you ,just get out of it what you want x

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place not play

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I'd have blocked him at the second time he 'asked' me to get naked and watch him wank. Thus not being a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is bi chat a directing or none directing room? If none then just report him and block him. The mods can deal with him later. If directing room it's par for the course I'm afraid:doesn't make it right and he is a prat for disrespecting your wishes. Like everything only do what you are happy with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah u aint huni its your choice what u want to do etc

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

There's a lot of dicks on here. One of the arts of Fab is learning to ignore them. The block button is handy in such circumstances. Don't let these guys get in your head and make think that you're doing something wrong. Concentrate on the decent people.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If it wasn't a directing room, you should have reported him. Ignoring the twats in the chat room is the best way to deal with them. A female friend of mine was in one once getting hassle from a man and I came in and started flirting with her, she responded and the man tried to get in too 'I think so too, darling' type of things but she ignored him and he got very angry and posted in capitals and left the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you there. I enjoy the chat rooms, but it's my rules and my pace. I rarely watch cams and it's sometimes tricky to keep up with the chat. If you're boring then so am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore the pest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use the chat / cam on here as I kind of assume that's what a lot of people would be hoping to see, some action as opposed to me sitting in a onesie with a cuppa......

Or do people just 'chat' on a subject like the forum?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No your not boring and he shouldn't be directing you in bi chat. I go in there for chatting nothing more. I do what I want to and feel comfortable doing on camera.... Even in directing rooms if I don't want to do something I don't do it. Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With you there. I enjoy the chat rooms, but it's my rules and my pace. I rarely watch cams and it's sometimes tricky to keep up with the chat. If you're boring then so am I.

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can I bore you please

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Haters gotta hate x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd have blocked him at the second time he 'asked' me to get naked and watch him wank. Thus not being a problem. "

Exactly. Sometimes I do wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would've told him his cock was too small to be worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you genuinely now think you're boring and a cock tease because of this one guy? I think you know the answer to your own question!

Compliments are great though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a lot of dicks on here. One of the arts of Fab is learning to ignore them."

So very true! Only do things you are comfortable with. Don't let this one dick put you off though.

Claire

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you say you like the attention

enjoy the site for what it gives you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi chat isn't a directing room. He should have got a chat room ban

I would report and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what did you actually want? Just a queue of people to compliment you on your nightie choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should only do what you want, and no on should be disrespectful of you just because they want something you are not giving.

However, if I am honest, I would say that I am bored by women in the chat rooms who just talk while in their clothes. Marc and I go in there sometimes in order to play on cam. We figure that is why there are chat rooms on a sex site. So just talking would be boring for us.

There seem to be a lot of men just wanking for attention and a lot of women just sitting fully clothed for attention. That doesn't mean he had the right to be a twat. You do what you want. But it does mean that I would find your cam boring. As you might find ours boring. To each his own.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should only do what you want, and no on should be disrespectful of you just because they want something you are not giving.

-Courtney"
Courtney but your consensus their was that you would have found her boring x just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it sounds boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should only do what you want, and no on should be disrespectful of you just because they want something you are not giving.

-Courtney Courtney but your consensus their was that you would have found her boring x just saying

Yes, that is what I said. I would find her cam boring, but he didn't have the right to be rude to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should only do what you want, and no on should be disrespectful of you just because they want something you are not giving.

-Courtney Courtney but your consensus their was that you would have found her boring x just saying

Yes, that is what I said. I would find her cam boring, but he didn't have the right to be rude to her."
no he didn't no-one has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to summise your op question. Yes boring, no we don't agree with him. The end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead selfish you OP.....selfish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should only do what you want, and no on should be disrespectful of you just because they want something you are not giving.

-Courtney"

If you find a cam boring you don't have to watch it.... yes its a sex site not a live porn show....I like to go in chat just to chat to other members and learn about what other people like. sometime chat is the only place you can feel comftable chatting about swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the problem with chat too many men expecting and demanding women get naked. Kinda sad tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should only do what you want, and no on should be disrespectful of you just because they want something you are not giving.

-Courtney

I completely agree with you...but you asked if we would find your cam boring. I just answered you honestly.

-Courtney

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Just tell them to move onto the next, as there's plenty of women that will reveal all.

I like to sit in a vest and undies til i feel turned on by chat. If i dont I dont. I certainly couldnt care less if anyone is bothered by that. They dont have to watch or talk to me.

Just forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want to do something you don't have to & if who ever is watching doesn't like it they should jog on & shut up. You should do what you want when you want.

PJ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was this in a directing room? I'm not saying the ignorant fucker was right but if you're in a directing room then aren't you there to be directed? (Dons tin hat and stab vest and hides behind the sofa......) And just to add - if it wasn't a directing room tell him to fuck off and block him!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what did you actually want? Just a queue of people to compliment you on your nightie choice?"

I go in to chat with like minded people. If people wanna compliment me then they can...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what did you actually want? Just a queue of people to compliment you on your nightie choice?

I go in to chat with like minded people. If people wanna compliment me then they can...x"

If that's what you wanna do, that's what you wanna do. Some people do that too, other people want to see a free peep show. I don't do cams because I'm not interested in watching cams, and being on cam freaks me out, however, I am a huge busybody, so spend a lot of time on the forums pretending to be helpful

Each to their own idiom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is just a sad little wanker - literally. Get them out when YOU want to not when some inadequate little saddo spits his dummy out.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Fuck him ( not literally) lol

Who cares what he says sweetie

Better than some weirdo wanking himself blind xxx

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Don't worry OP most chat rooms eventually get an idiot in at some time or another, their villages normally find them and take them back, unless of course they don't live in houses...

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

At the end of the day someone jst hit the nail on the head they are called "chat rooms" not "live porn rooms"

Ur not boring hun, to someone else they may not like that they dnt see any.ore of u,but I think u did right to stand ur ground ignore him and carry on as u were.

I go on cams but as soon as someone tells me what to do it puts me off and I do the opposite within reason....so knlw what ya been saying

Some people think ur here for their gain....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't use the chat / cam on here as I kind of assume that's what a lot of people would be hoping to see, some action as opposed to me sitting in a onesie with a cuppa......

Or do people just 'chat' on a subject like the forum?

In the regional rooms it pretty similar to the forums... Chat about anything from food to sex work to weekends. Everything is covered. but in the directing rooms,( mainly full of men wanking) it's less conversation and feels like the men think you're paid to be there so have to do as they command... Most are off cam and those that are on cam soon shut up when you tell them to do something

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By *alifaxsiMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all.

You weren't in a directing room but even if you were that doesn't mean you have to do what some idiot tells you to.

Guess you just upset him and stopped his play session, don't take it to heart.

Ignore the prat

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Bi Chat is a non directing room so he shouldn't have been doing that.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Concentrate on all the other guys who give you nice compliments,but it sounds like you allowed this guy to get in your head..

As said earlier,block and move on.

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