FabSwingers.com forum: women's pubic hair

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would really like to understand what it is that guys like about the shaved look. I could get all 'feminist' about this and say that it's a porn star fetish look and stuff about pre-pubescent children rather than 'real women' but I'm trying to be open minded....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DONT MIND ! as long as it is well trimmed ,hate hair in my MOUTH !frankie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's like why blonde is "preferred" by many, a sign of youth and all that. Hell as we get older hair starts growing in places we don't want and leaves places we do!

Personally I like a woman smooth around the playground but a bit of a lawn north of there is fine. After all a mouth full of hair can be a bit unpleasant. I myself keep trim, only fair.

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

probably for the same reason women like men shaved... looks better and less hairs to get stuck in your teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah trimmed or shaven for both sexes as a mouthful of hair is never sexy cough cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to a hormone imbalance (at least thats what i think) I have never had much hair down there so what little i do have i shave off. Some guys like it, some prefer a little and some prefer the 70's style bush. As with everything though its preferences.

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By *randmrsfreakyCouple
over a year ago

alfreton near chesterfield

No clocksprings for us thanks

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I shave as I like it, not because 'men' like the look of it! Z

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

We don't really go for the 'plucked chicken' look, but do prefer it to a mouthful of hair. As with hair on the head though, different styles suite different people..

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

"I would really like to understand what it is that guys like about the shaved look. I could get all 'feminist' about this and say that it's a porn star fetish look and stuff about pre-pubescent children rather than 'real women' but I'm trying to be open minded...."

I hear where you're coming from on this one, and I do worry about the general trend to infantalize in the media but I also respect other people's choice.

I've played with shaven women and therefore don't have a problem with it, but ultimately I think I prefer hair. It signifies adulthood to me. Or maybe it's just the French in me.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"I shave as I like it, not because 'men' like the look of it! Z"

Ditto.

I do it because I prefer the look of it, and I find it easier to keep clean.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I hear where you're coming from on this one, and I do worry about the general trend to infantalize in the media but I also respect other people's choice.

I've played with shaven women and therefore don't have a problem with it, but ultimately I think I prefer hair. It signifies adulthood to me. Or maybe it's just the French in me.

Signifies adulthood, I'm sure it does but what about the rest of the person? Surely you get to see the whole body and not just the fanny? I much prefer clean and smooth, don't mind trimmed but can't deal with a massive bush! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE smooth shaven look and you can see pussy lips so much better and glide my fingers in without hairs restricting you

Plus looks awesome when you have the chance to fist a woman

James

ps Also like white see through thong on the woman so you can almost see her crack .......mmmmmmmm

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I don't particularly like shaven on either sex - it looks 'wrong' to me. I trim mine short but i don't mind hair on men - i quite like it, in fact...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't particularly like shaven on either sex - it looks 'wrong' to me. I trim mine short but i don't mind hair on men - i quite like it, in fact...

I'm with pink on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nowt right about going to the dentist for a haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love me a good ol' 70s bush!

Completely shaven on men looks weird, I just trim my patch and shave my balls!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Mmmm skin on skin, nothing like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think shaved adult genitalia look any more 'pre-pubescent' than a bald guy looks like a newborn baby. Adult bits look like adult bits and I think it's a bit offensive to suggest anyone preferring the smooth look is somehow enticed by something less than a fully developed adult.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Clean shaven here all the way, but that is my preference, nobody else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy both but have a soft spot for the neat trimmed look, mind I was self educated in sex on 80's porn. Though I prefer shaven lips to heighten arousal orally and it can be arousing having your partner oblige. Pubic hair also holds the musk of a woman's natural essence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing Worse - Than Giving some Nice Oral Sex - Then - Stopping to fish a pubic hair out of your mouth/teeth..

Shaved = Please !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a dinna mind really...ill munch on anything !!..

female fannys that is !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trim and shave to make it neat & tidy

Natural or trimmed on Ladies is prefered

again as previous posters have said it's and 70's or 80's thing, or perhaps i've watched too many Alpha France movies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

smooth all the way for me please

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By *alakMan
over a year ago

Milan

i am another old fashioned guy loving the 70's bushy style...

I do trim myself because it's what ladies seem to like most (despite my naked chicken feeling) and I do not mind a shaven lady, but there's something primordial clicking in me when I see some hair down there!

Definitely an eccentric choice for a few braves these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think shaved adult genitalia look any more 'pre-pubescent' than a bald guy looks like a newborn baby. Adult bits look like adult bits and I think it's a bit offensive to suggest anyone preferring the smooth look is somehow enticed by something less than a fully developed adult.

totally agree!

i've always preferred to be smooth..it feels so much cleaner to me and it's certainly not related to sex or fantasies.

i don't look at it and think it reminds me of a child's either...it's wrong to make that inference.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

For me it's the same as anything else, why do women pluck their eyebrows and then paint them on. Why wear stockings, why put on makeups to reduce wrinkles and look younger. Why go to the gym to work out and stay trim.

Feminism and patriocal society have nothing to do with it. In the end it all comes down to our animal instinct and the need to attract a mate. In humans we still have those urges to mate even if it's just for fun and not for child birth. So as with all animals we prepare ourselves and make ourselves more appealling. Animals use eveloution and genetics, humans are able to speed up the process a little more with artifical enhancements.

It's not just the ladies though, women like certain features in men and so men will try to set themselves up in the same way. Alot of women put on their profiles that they want heavy cummers and long stayers and repeaters. These are generally although not specifically features of young men. So do women prefer teenagers or just features in men that are sexually more appealling.

Everything else is just people trying to push an agenda whether that is feminism or exploitation of women, masulinity or emasculation of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to only just trim and shape mine but last night a went a bit mad and shaved it all off, omg its the most weirdest feeling ever today not sure if i have done the right thing lol

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I used to only just trim and shape mine but last night a went a bit mad and shaved it all off, omg its the most weirdest feeling ever today not sure if i have done the right thing lol "

Hey I shaved it all off my balls a couple of tmes, it felt great and sexy, but a few days later ichy as hell. I would never insist on my wife shaving but if she was to do it, I would definatley give her full appreciation for the effort as I can appreciate the downside.

Anyone with any tips to reduce the itching gladly appreciated. Answers on a postcard or email.

I think trimmed will have to do for now, rather than totally bare.

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

We both trim incredibly short, but not enough for it to be itching.

The bush for us turns us off quicker than a blown bulb.

As another poster said, nothing more to ruin the moment than to stop to pull a hair out of your mouth. Passion killer!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"We both trim incredibly short, but not enough for it to be itching.

The bush for us turns us off quicker than a blown bulb.

As another poster said, nothing more to ruin the moment than to stop to pull a hair out of your mouth. Passion killer!"

Trimmed seams to be the order of the day, maybe we should all meet to inspect each others hair length and then suggest the optimum to the rest of the board. Hair clippers at the ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant be doing with friction burns ouch totally smooth for me and I dont want to hunt for a cock in a full bush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mines will be allowed to grow back in and kept trimmed like usual, stuff this feeling and looking like a plucked chicken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use grade one on clippers, neat tidy and no growback itching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to only just trim and shape mine but last night a went a bit mad and shaved it all off, omg its the most weirdest feeling ever today not sure if i have done the right thing lol "

I tried shaving once just to see what it was like and it did feel wierd. Even more so when it started to grow back. And I got a few red spots and I rarely get spots so that freaked me.

As I am not very hairy anyhows now I just trim the "essentials".

I certainly would not shave because potential meets "required" it. Plenty more fish in the sea.

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By *ax the gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

birmingham

shaven haven is better u find it more hygenic

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

clean shaven and smooth so much nicer

paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I shave as I like it, not because 'men' like the look of it! Z"

i shave because i love the feel of it

im sorry but you just cant beat the feel of a nice warm tongue on freshly shaven skin

got nothing to do with what others like, i just find all that hair takes away so much feeling during oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have full pubic hair, and since i expressed my preference for much younger men (my latest is 21) I was surprised to note how many of them actively preferred it.

And btw, shaving/not shaving is nothing to do with innate masculinity/femininity, it's merely a social construction, in no small part crossing over from porn culture. I'm old enough to remember when not having pubes was thought of as being pervy as it was associated with children. Not that long ago :oldlady:

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

As a straight woman you just wouldn't understand. Try giving oral for 30 minutes or more at a time, it is not nice having mouthfuls of hair. In fact once dampened by saliva and a woman's natural secretions pubic hair make's the face quite sore. It acts like sandpaper around the mouth, chin and upper lip and depending on the length of oral, this redness can last for day's.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Trimmed very short for me, I also shave my balls sometimes. It just feels cleaner and more hygienic to me.

I have tried fully shaved but I always think it looks a bit odd on me, also you get the itchy rash for about a week afterwards as it grows back.

As for women, well different styles suit different women. I do tend to prefer shorter trims or landing strips and the like, but I really don't mind at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pubes were shaved off 28 years ago when I went into labour by the midwife: I've kept it that way ever since.

My husband begged me to grow it back but I didn't because I like it smooth. As others have said, the feel of your partners mouth and tongue on your skin...hmmmmmm!

I prefer playmates trimmed, they're not I shave them!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"My pubes were shaved off 28 years ago when I went into labour by the midwife: I've kept it that way ever since.

My husband begged me to grow it back but I didn't because I like it smooth. As others have said, the feel of your partners mouth and tongue on your skin...hmmmmmm!

I prefer playmates trimmed, they're not I shave them!

Cut throat razor or bic disposable?

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

"My pubes were shaved off 28 years ago when I went into labour by the midwife: I've kept it that way ever since.

My husband begged me to grow it back but I didn't because I like it smooth. As others have said, the feel of your partners mouth and tongue on your skin...hmmmmmm!

I prefer playmates trimmed, they're not I shave them!

Cut throat razor or bic disposable?

.. V probably uses a blunt table knife! Increases the terror component in her gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one likes to do a cat impression coughing up a fur ball, but at the end of the day it is personal preferance.

I shave, I do prefer a woman to be trimmed at least, makes oral much nicer, always better when you can see what you are eating, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should try warming them up first, 30 minutes?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

you should try warming them up first, 30 minutes?"

30 minutes must include coffee and mints I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally trim-makes it look bigger...

On women I have it any way it comes,though I find it much more pleasurable for both of us if she is at least trimmed while I'm down there.

I'd imagine you'd feel more without all the hair in the way...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My pubes were shaved off 28 years ago when I went into labour by the midwife: I've kept it that way ever since.

My husband begged me to grow it back but I didn't because I like it smooth. As others have said, the feel of your partners mouth and tongue on your skin...hmmmmmm!

I prefer playmates trimmed, they're not I shave them!

Cut throat razor or bic disposable?

Depends how hairy they are!!!

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

i love a bush but i shave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My pubes were shaved off 28 years ago when I went into labour by the midwife: I've kept it that way ever since.

My husband begged me to grow it back but I didn't because I like it smooth. As others have said, the feel of your partners mouth and tongue on your skin...hmmmmmm!

I prefer playmates trimmed, they're not I shave them!

Cut throat razor or bic disposable?

.. V probably uses a blunt table knife! Increases the terror component in her gentlemen

PMSL! Don't you start!

I don't want to damage them!

I like to reuse them!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"My pubes were shaved off 28 years ago when I went into labour by the midwife: I've kept it that way ever since.

My husband begged me to grow it back but I didn't because I like it smooth. As others have said, the feel of your partners mouth and tongue on your skin...hmmmmmm!

I prefer playmates trimmed, they're not I shave them!

Cut throat razor or bic disposable?

Depends how hairy they are!!!

Phew! Might still keep me wobblies then!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all replies.... I feel positively enlightened! x

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

I've been with women with, and women without. No preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never think that shaved women look pre pubescent

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By *edro71Man
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

i'm a big fan of the bush, the more hair the better

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Any woman meeting me must first shave her bush into my initials.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We've both been hairy, then fully shaved, and now are trimmed. G always says that by the time he's got a woman's knickers off the last thing he's thinking of is her pubic hairstyle! But a lovely thick bush is very nostaligic; they were all like that when we were first learning the joys of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trimmed or hairy bush is for real ladies, with a shaven fanny it remind me just little girls.

We need to go back to the 70's and 80's years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trimmed or hairy bush is for real ladies, with a shaven fanny it remind me just little girls.

We need to go back to the 70's and 80's years"

Thats crap. It's like saying real men dont wear deoderant and have beards.

I'm female, I love being shaved, everything is more sensitive than when you've got a wad of hair there. And who doesn't want to feel more?

Also like my men shaved. Mouth on balls is horrible when it's like licking a cat.

Not that I'd know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An BTW anyone who finds shaved makes people look "too young", well, seems like your mind is seeing what it wants.

Think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

englandportugal, have you hear called 'personal choice'

You have yours' and I have mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An BTW anyone who finds shaved makes people look "too young", well, seems like your mind is seeing what it wants.

Think about it."

I have think about it, maybe 'plucked chicken' look spring in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uhmmmmmmmmmm If having pubic hair is a thowback from the 70's - what did we have before then ?

Where'm I going wrong I thought pubes had been with us since ermmmm Pre Raphaelite at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pubic hair is nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cum across a bush thick enough to put me off yet

Bit of an expert in bush craft, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never put me off doesn't bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty easy but i do prefer shaved xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I went for a wax yesterday... very efficient Polish lady. She was done in record time! Whole lot... front to back... gone!!

I like it smooth and if no-one gets to see it over Christmas then that's cool... I have a pretty flower just for me!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"Nothing Worse - Than Giving some Nice Oral Sex - Then - Stopping to fish a pubic hair out of your mouth/teeth..

Shaved = Please !!!!

I soooooo agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"englandportugal, have you hear called 'personal choice'

You have yours' and I have mine

Yes I know what personal choice but yours stopped receiving any respect when you stated only real women had pubes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"englandportugal, have you hear called 'personal choice'

You have yours' and I have mine

Yes I know what personal choice but yours stopped receiving any respect when you stated only real women had pubes.

Oh dear, you dont get it, that's my personal choice myself, I like trimmed and hairy bush, to me it look real woman, but I dont have a problem with shaved ladies.

englandportugal, I dont need your respect but I respect anyone their personal choices and not going into debate about it.

Simples and chill out

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm a real woman and I have no pubes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a real woman and I have no pubes!

No pubes here too

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Trimmed or hairy bush is for real ladies, with a shaven fanny it remind me just little girls.

We need to go back to the 70's and 80's years"

I would never tell a lady what to do, shave or trim or full bush. But to be brutally honest I've never seen a little girl naked so it would not remind me of such a thing. Also I was not around in the 70's or 80's.

I find your quote both a little disturbing and offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely adore a nice hairy chuff, sommat to bury your face in. Love it Love it Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trimmed or hairy bush is for real ladies, with a shaven fanny it remind me just little girls.

We need to go back to the 70's and 80's years

I find your quote both a little disturbing and offensive."

Says the pregnant woman showing her bump off on a swinging sex site. Pot kettle black?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trimmed or hairy bush is for real ladies, with a shaven fanny it remind me just little girls.

We need to go back to the 70's and 80's years

I find your quote both a little disturbing and offensive.

Says the pregnant woman showing her bump off on a swinging sex site. Pot kettle black?

I was thinking the same, very strange to post pics of a pregnant lady on this site! a bit freaky really.

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By *eremiaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

It seems to be a British or western style to shave bcoz the guys lick the pussy and ladies suck the cock.

The African style licking the pussy or cock is not our tradition, but we have adapted the western style much faster bcoz sex is all about entertaining each other.Its boring to have a mouthful of long hair in ur mouth hahaha.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Trimmed or hairy bush is for real ladies, with a shaven fanny it remind me just little girls.

We need to go back to the 70's and 80's years

I find your quote both a little disturbing and offensive.

Says the pregnant woman showing her bump off on a swinging sex site. Pot kettle black?

I was thinking the same, very strange to post pics of a pregnant lady on this site! a bit freaky really.

...but sexy nonetheless

Or is it just me that finds a pregnant woman's body attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am shaved cus thats how i like it, hate hair there

i like men to be shaved or trimmed although very hairy men look strange if they are shaved ... looks like a crop circle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smooth .. waxed or shaven.. cant beat the feel of skin on skin... and its much better to see what your eating...

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