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"I don't agree. " How can you not agree, just look at the pictures and see how many out of every ten you would consider not beautiful , then go to a club and compare the ratio, do the same with men | |||
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"I don't think everyone is good looking on here but a ton of people are " I didn't say everyone , I said most people compared to outside of fab | |||
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"I don't agree. How can you not agree, just look at the pictures and see how many out of every ten you would consider not beautiful , then go to a club and compare the ratio, do the same with men" You haven't seen some of the pics I've seen then. | |||
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"I don't think everyone is good looking on here but a ton of people are I didn't say everyone , I said most people compared to outside of fab " Id you saw them in the flesh you may think differently | |||
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"I don't go to clubs to know what the people are like but I disagree about people on here being stunning." Yea , especially the ones only showing feet | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination!" They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx" | |||
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"I don't agree. How can you not agree, just look at the pictures and see how many out of every ten you would consider not beautiful , then go to a club and compare the ratio, do the same with men" I find it hard to find any decent men on here, there are a few - I don't go by looks how dick size, but personality plays a big part... if they don't have personality then sorry I'm not attracted.. incidently the "all men have big dicks" comments... I met with a guy who had all of 2 inches erect.... I'd like one that atleast reaches... | |||
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"I don't agree. How can you not agree" Yes, how dare anyone have an opinion that varies from yours. | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx" Thankyou,yours are too,it saves on the backache doesn't it | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx Thankyou,yours are too,it saves on the backache doesn't it " Sure does just bra shopping is harder not many sexy ones in kids sizes xx | |||
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"Have you ever noticed that people on here are generally beautiful , Women have big boobs and nice asses and Men have big toned bodies and big penises. When you go outside , it's a very different world in real life. In Clubs , its even worse , they are not many beautiful people and you just wonder where they all are , strange stuff " I guess you can see by varifacations really Mr bbc mine certainly say who iam ....but I must admit I don't naturally wake up in a corset and tuttut possibly my tiara if it hasn't slipped off in the night | |||
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"You think I look like this in real life? " Hey I'm wishing | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx Thankyou,yours are too,it saves on the backache doesn't it " don't talk to me about backache lol....not that u was | |||
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"You think I look like this in real life? Hey I'm wishing" While a tail would be pretty cool, I think I'm happy not being blue | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx Thankyou,yours are too,it saves on the backache doesn't it don't talk to me about backache lol....not that u was " and I've never had the problem of men looking at my boobs rather than my face,there's bugger all for them to look at | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx Thankyou,yours are too,it saves on the backache doesn't it don't talk to me about backache lol....not that u was and I've never had the problem of men looking at my boobs rather than my face,there's bugger all for them to look at " it can be annoying sometimes when ur out doing your shopping lol. | |||
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"I don't agree. How can you not agree, just look at the pictures and see how many out of every ten you would consider not beautiful , then go to a club and compare the ratio, do the same with men" Don't agree. So many very over weight people on here! Are you just looking at the "hot photos"? I know some people like the big guys and girls but I would imagine not so many at clubs? Who knows, just don't agree that lots of people ( including us) are adonise or model types. Seems we are getting a hell of a lot bigger as a nation. Recall us all taking the piss out of fat Americans..but it seems we have copied them! | |||
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"But people only show what they want to show on here. I'm only going to post photos where I think I look good - this is not the same as what I look like going to the paper shop on a Sunday morning. In my experience it's a pretty representative cross section, looks-wise. " I agree, people will put their best most flattering photos on here, after all it us a shop windows to sell yourself to potential meets. If I'm having a lazy day at home unshaven and slobbing about in tracky bottoms I'm not going to take a pic and put it on here, lol. | |||
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"But people only show what they want to show on here. I'm only going to post photos where I think I look good - this is not the same as what I look like going to the paper shop on a Sunday morning. In my experience it's a pretty representative cross section, looks-wise. I agree, people will put their best most flattering photos on here, after all it us a shop windows to sell yourself to potential meets. If I'm having a lazy day at home unshaven and slobbing about in tracky bottoms I'm not going to take a pic and put it on here, lol. " | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. " Sshhhhh....Don't tell everyone | |||
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"Have you ever noticed that people on here are generally beautiful , Women have big boobs and nice asses and Men have big toned bodies and big penises. When you go outside , it's a very different world in real life. In Clubs , its even worse , they are not many beautiful people and you just wonder where they all are , strange stuff " Are you pissed??? | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx" .....and me! | |||
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"Have you ever noticed that people on here are generally beautiful , Women have big boobs and nice asses and Men have big toned bodies and big penises. When you go outside , it's a very different world in real life. In Clubs , its even worse , they are not many beautiful people and you just wonder where they all are , strange stuff " No. Seen some exceptionally unattractive people on here and plenty of exceptionally attractive people in real life. Disclaimer - i'm sure their personalities are beautiful. | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. " Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. | |||
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"I don't go to clubs to know what the people are like but I disagree about people on here being stunning. Yea , especially the ones only showing feet " My pictures show my legs and feet, because I want to be discreet - I'm happy to swop face pictures on a one-to-one basis | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. " I am not doing that. They will only be let down when we meet. I like to say...you are better looking in the flesh. | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. I am not doing that. They will only be let down when we meet. I like to say...you are better looking in the flesh. " Totally agree some people are photogenic and some are not! Can't rely on pics. | |||
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"I don't agree. How can you not agree, just look at the pictures and see how many out of every ten you would consider not beautiful , then go to a club and compare the ratio, do the same with men Don't agree. So many very over weight people on here! Are you just looking at the "hot photos"? I know some people like the big guys and girls but I would imagine not so many at clubs? Who knows, just don't agree that lots of people ( including us) are adonise or model types. Seems we are getting a hell of a lot bigger as a nation. Recall us all taking the piss out of fat Americans..but it seems we have copied them!" Obviously fat = unattractive....to you obviously but not to everyone. If we all liked the same people life would be a very boring place | |||
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"I don't agree,I don't have big boobs by any stretch of the imagination! They're gorgeous boobs though!! I've got small ones too xx Thankyou,yours are too,it saves on the backache doesn't it don't talk to me about backache lol....not that u was and I've never had the problem of men looking at my boobs rather than my face,there's bugger all for them to look at " And yet the picture of them on your profile has over 3300 fabs! Including by me. I'd say quite a few people are looking. | |||
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"Sounds like someone spends all their time looking at "Hot Photos". Try looking at "New Public Photos" every once in a while. Although maybe don't, I've seen things that really aren't pretty at all in there " I must admit , I have been looking at "Hot Photos" and I made the assumption based on that , how embarrassing , but at least I have admitted | |||
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"I don't go to clubs to know what the people are like but I disagree about people on here being stunning. Yea , especially the ones only showing feet " That's the best part of me | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. " Depends on how much you apply! You can iron out all kinds of imperfections with shading & lighting tools for example. There's nothing wrong with editing pics, it's fun to be creative but I wouldn't want to over filter and for someone to say on meeting me ~ 'errrrrr....where's the women from the pics'.... | |||
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"Sounds like someone spends all their time looking at "Hot Photos". Try looking at "New Public Photos" every once in a while. Although maybe don't, I've seen things that really aren't pretty at all in there I must admit , I have been looking at "Hot Photos" and I made the assumption based on that , how embarrassing , but at least I have admitted " Ha ha....makes sense now | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. Depends on how much you apply! You can iron out all kinds of imperfections with shading & lighting tools for example. There's nothing wrong with editing pics, it's fun to be creative but I wouldn't want to over filter and for someone to say on meeting me ~ 'errrrrr....where's the women from the pics'.... " So long as you were dressed like your profile picture I'd not complain one bit! | |||
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"I don't know some pretty ugly dudes on here too , I am aware Britain the eye of the beholder but let's be honest Stevie wonder would pass "UGLY" is a bit cruel I think. Unattractive. Non appealing. Not your type. We can't please everyone. Choose your words more carefully. Playground talk. " Yep, some people are so non-appealing that they dare only show a single picture of themselves on there profile; and that's of their bum | |||
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"........ There's nothing wrong with editing pics, it's fun to be creative but I wouldn't want to over filter and for someone to say on meeting me ~ 'errrrrr....where's the women from the pics'.... " This , I have seen a few guys whose dicks I have also see online in some porn sites, I personally would be embarrassed to turn up and be asked "errrrrrr.....where's he cock from the pic'...." | |||
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"I don't know some pretty ugly dudes on here too , I am aware Britain the eye of the beholder but let's be honest Stevie wonder would pass "UGLY" is a bit cruel I think. Unattractive. Non appealing. Not your type. We can't please everyone. Choose your words more carefully. Playground talk. Yep, some people are so non-appealing that they dare only show a single picture of themselves on there profile; and that's of their bum " lol then show ur face privately? I'll show u mine if u show me yours | |||
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"I don't know some pretty ugly dudes on here too , I am aware Britain the eye of the beholder but let's be honest Stevie wonder would pass "UGLY" is a bit cruel I think. Unattractive. Non appealing. Not your type. We can't please everyone. Choose your words more carefully. Playground talk. Yep, some people are so non-appealing that they dare only show a single picture of themselves on there profile; and that's of their bum " They may be more appealing than they think they are. Not many people,if any,on here are stunning are they. Naturally stunning people,who the majority would call stunning are rare. | |||
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"I don't know some pretty ugly dudes on here too , I am aware Britain the eye of the beholder but let's be honest Stevie wonder would pass "UGLY" is a bit cruel I think. Unattractive. Non appealing. Not your type. We can't please everyone. Choose your words more carefully. Playground talk. Yep, some people are so non-appealing that they dare only show a single picture of themselves on there profile; and that's of their bum lol then show ur face privately? I'll show u mine if u show me yours " lol didn't notice yours was on show. Sorry x | |||
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"I don't know some pretty ugly dudes on here too , I am aware Britain the eye of the beholder but let's be honest Stevie wonder would pass "UGLY" is a bit cruel I think. Unattractive. Non appealing. Not your type. We can't please everyone. Choose your words more carefully. Playground talk. Yep, some people are so non-appealing that they dare only show a single picture of themselves on there profile; and that's of their bum They may be more appealing than they think they are. Not many people,if any,on here are stunning are they. Naturally stunning people,who the majority would call stunning are rare." I get c all ed stunning but to me it's in one ear and out the other. It's just a chat up line for the gullible. Which I'm not lol. As long as my hubby finds me attractive then that's all that really matters x | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. I am not doing that. They will only be let down when we meet. I like to say...you are better looking in the flesh. Totally agree some people are photogenic and some are not! Can't rely on pics." I'm most definitely not photogenic lol. What women mainly like in me is my personality, sense of humour. Some like my body while many others don't. A lot of people go for looks and I understand that because you need some physical attraction. Don't agree with everyone being as the op says though but I'm not one to judge lol. | |||
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"But people only show what they want to show on here. I'm only going to post photos where I think I look good - this is not the same as what I look like going to the paper shop on a Sunday morning. In my experience it's a pretty representative cross section, looks-wise. " | |||
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"Sounds like someone spends all their time looking at "Hot Photos". Try looking at "New Public Photos" every once in a while. Although maybe don't, I've seen things that really aren't pretty at all in there I must admit , I have been looking at "Hot Photos" and I made the assumption based on that , how embarrassing , but at least I have admitted " That explains it. | |||
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"On the whole I would disagree. People only show what they want to show on here, clever angles & photoshop are the name of the game. Do people change a lot with photoshop? I've never edited my pictures at all, I don't even have filters on them! Maybe I need to start editing. " Change stuff? No. (apart from the blue skin, fangs, yellow eyes, tail, long hair) But with other pics, we just are selective with what we show. | |||
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" This place does sometimes make me feel very insecure about myself. " Reading profiles like yours makes me feel insecure at times with the demands for slim/athletic men. I'll never be super slim because of my stocky frame. Good job I don't actually let it bother me lol. But can understand what I mean? | |||
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" This place does sometimes make me feel very insecure about myself. Reading profiles like yours makes me feel insecure at times with the demands for slim/athletic men. I'll never be super slim because of my stocky frame. Good job I don't actually let it bother me lol. But can understand what I mean?" I apologise if I am causing you to think that way. I am looking for men who I would find appealing; I am not looking for an Adonis Anyone can be slim and fit; just means eating a balanced diet and not just visiting the gym but actually working out (whether in the gym or elsewhere). A stocky or non-stocky frame is not a requirement I have stipulated | |||
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" This place does sometimes make me feel very insecure about myself. Reading profiles like yours makes me feel insecure at times with the demands for slim/athletic men. I'll never be super slim because of my stocky frame. Good job I don't actually let it bother me lol. But can understand what I mean? I apologise if I am causing you to think that way. I am looking for men who I would find appealing; I am not looking for an Adonis Anyone can be slim and fit; just means eating a balanced diet and not just visiting the gym but actually working out (whether in the gym or elsewhere). A stocky or non-stocky frame is not a requirement I have stipulated" No need to apologise to me lol. It don't actually bother me but others it could make insecure. I used to be insecure up until I lost 6st now I'm just ooze confidence and enjoy life better overall. Though not seen a gym in a year due to work and its physical demands | |||
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"I have seen quite a large number of profiles of women here who are so beautiful and have such perfect figures that I wonder why anyone ever even bothers to write to me, let alone meet me This place does sometimes make me feel very insecure about myself. I agree with the OP; in clubs this does not happen often. The women there are mostly like me; average. So I am much more confident in clubs But when meeting a guy from FabS, I am extremely nervous because I know that he is comparing me to all these other beautiful people and on a scale of 1 -10, I am down somewhere like 4" you have four FBs you don't need anymore do you? | |||
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"I have seen quite a large number of profiles of women here who are so beautiful and have such perfect figures that I wonder why anyone ever even bothers to write to me, let alone meet me This place does sometimes make me feel very insecure about myself. I agree with the OP; in clubs this does not happen often. The women there are mostly like me; average. So I am much more confident in clubs But when meeting a guy from FabS, I am extremely nervous because I know that he is comparing me to all these other beautiful people and on a scale of 1 -10, I am down somewhere like 4 you have four FBs you don't need anymore do you? " No, I do not need any more friends who I also meet for sex (I don't like to call them my FBs) But I still do meet other people from here or in clubs | |||
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"Have you ever noticed that people on here are generally beautiful , Women have big boobs and nice asses and Men have big toned bodies and big penises. When you go outside , it's a very different world in real life. In Clubs , its even worse , they are not many beautiful people and you just wonder where they all are , strange stuff " I couldn't disagree more Fab is a very good representation of the 'outside world' I'd have thought. You'll find all kinds of people here. The only way it really differs from general society is that there's a serious lack of women on Fab compared to the number of guys. | |||
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"............ This place does sometimes make me feel very insecure about myself........ But when meeting a guy from FabS, I am extremely nervous because I know that he is comparing me to all these other beautiful people and on a scale of 1 -10, I am down somewhere like 4" I haven't seen the face but just judging by your body pictures , I am not sure why you would feel that way . I have noticed that in general , it's the beautiful ones that want to be more beautiful and lack confidence coz of that . When someone is generally not attractive ( I know it's subjective ) they know it themselves and don't really care and it doesn't really bother them as much as it bothers those that are beautiful but want a bit more . Just my observation | |||
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