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admiting im bi curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...

If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.

To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you can find out if you are bi or not !

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.

Only one way to find out. For both of us!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing scary about being curious

How curious though ?

What turns you on when you think about it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Now you can find out if you are bi or not !

Have fun "

Hahaha yup....very nervous mind!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing scary about being curious

How curious though ?

What turns you on when you think about it ?

"

Umm I like the idea of being sub, forced/turned into a girl. Don't fancy manly men, much prefer feminine ones..tv/ts as ideally. Very curious but equally as shy lol.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing scary about being curious

How curious though ?

What turns you on when you think about it ?

Umm I like the idea of being sub, forced/turned into a girl. Don't fancy manly men, much prefer feminine ones..tv/ts as ideally. Very curious but equally as shy lol.x"

Sounds good

Meeting convincing tv/ts is so horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.

Only one way to find out. For both of us!

Good luck "

It's the pushing my self to find out that I'm struggling at.

Would it count if I pretend to be a girl for you and you pretend to be a boy for me?! Lol.x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Well done for not spending the rest of your life denying who you might be.

Fab is a good place to try this out, lots of bi guys and, in the main, very tolerant people

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Get yourself down to Chams on a Monday evening - join in the fun. See if you like it or if it makes you run away! Seriously though - have fun. Experiment. See what turns you on - or off. Explore. Touch. Feel. Taste. Make up your own mind and don't be swayed by others. Do what feels right for you. Take care. J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing scary about being curious

How curious though ?

What turns you on when you think about it ?

Umm I like the idea of being sub, forced/turned into a girl. Don't fancy manly men, much prefer feminine ones..tv/ts as ideally. Very curious but equally as shy lol.x

Sounds good

Meeting convincing tv/ts is so horny "

I have a bit of a fantasy of one tricking me...as in I meet her on a night out at a pub/club and we dance and drink the night away. We get back to hers and she's very dominant with me, I still have no idea she's tv/ts and then....well you can guess the rest lol.x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Doesn't sound pathetic at all... taking time out to figure things out is a really switched on thing to do. Totally avoids confusing yourself any further.

Well done you for coming back and exploring. You've nothing to be ashamed of. Take it at your own pace and on your own terms and have as much fun as you like.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I'm not curious any more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not curious any more "

Does that mean that you are bi or not after trying?lol.x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I've finally admitted that I'm bi-curious. It's finding the right person to explore with that I'm finding difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...

If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.

To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"

Its not pathetic at all, good on you for having the courage to admit you want to do something about it. Try a bi night at a club, there will be no pressure to do anything but you will be around like minded people with no prejudice and may give you a bit more confidence.

Hope you find what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you.

My first major crush was on a woman but I just kept denying it, in adulthood I knew I always fancied the same sex, I mean what's not to like?

I only popped my bi cherry about 8 months ago and boy am I glad I finally took the plunge.

Huge step for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really appreciate the support everyone

As small of a step as it may sound, admiting it here was the step 1... Step 2 for me is openly talking about it (on fab at least :p which your all helping with)....step 3 will be to explore my curiosity by my self (which iv never let my self do before)....x

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"I'm not curious any more

Does that mean that you are bi or not after trying?lol.x"
I am fully bi , love the ladies and still like cock, best of both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

call me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...

If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.

To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"

Well done and no it doesn't sound pathetic this will be the best place for you to find out what you like and don't like and what turns you on or off. Good luck and have fun exploring xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.

Only one way to find out. For both of us!

Good luck

It's the pushing my self to find out that I'm struggling at.x"

Ditto

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"step 3 will be to explore my curiosity by my self (which iv never let my self do before)....x"

If you need any help

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Dont label yourself.... just have fun with whoever rocks your boat.

Enjoy

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like it's a really big deal for u. Perhaps don't take it all so seriously with the labels thing.

Maybe just have a little fun, see which part of trying bi you like?

My play has taught me I'm more situationally bi. Because I've not gotten hung up about it, it's just worked itself out.

However I do accept it's easier and more socially acceptable for a woman to play bi than a man.

Good luck with it all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...

If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.

To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"

Good for you, just take time to explore you new found side. Above all, have fun. XX

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

Good for you...I've been on the journey myself and Fab and all of the wonderful people I've met and talked to since I joined have allowed me to explore my own sexuality and I've enjoyed the journey....very much so!

It's been confusing at times but people have been both patient and let me explore.

Straight, to bi-curious to a loud and proud bi-sexual. It's been nothing short of amazing and I've never been happier!

Don't rush yourself, gently explore and at any point you can stand still, move forward, or even move back. It's all about you!

Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the support x

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By *rvoyuerMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Nothing scary about being curious

How curious though ?

What turns you on when you think about it ?

"

Good question!!

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just takes things at your own pace and find out what works for you. I remember being kinda embarrased after my first couple of bi meets.

I soon got over that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.

Only one way to find out. For both of us!

Good luck "

Same here...want to but need to find someone that's right to try

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?? The beauty of being on here is you can indulge in any Kink you like and have a great time doing it!

Have fun and enjoy, you could be struck down tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to realise that I'm curious myself. And I have to explore it. Just building up the courage...any lady wanna help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep changing my mind if I am Bi-curious or not.

Only one way to find out. For both of us!

Good luck "

would love to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice to know there's others in the same boat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats for accepting it and admitting it here.

Have fun exploring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was about admitting it to my self as much as anything. The issue I have is that I'm struggling to act on it. I'd love if someone could coach/help me/push me out of my comfort zone. X

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By *heDevilsinthedetailMan
over a year ago

liverpool

It's hard to take the first step and meet someone but there's plenty of great bi guys who will understand what your feeling and help you explore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do it, then you'll know.

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By *ecretBadgerMan
over a year ago

Redruth


"Sooo. Haven't been on in a while, kind of being avoiding fab because iv been scared to admit that I'm bi curious...

If you've seen some of my posts then it's probably been obvious for a while but the truth is iv been lying to my self.. that isn't to say that I am bi, just curious.

To a lot of you this might sound pathetic hahaha but for me it's a big step xx"

Seems like a big step for you, fuck the haters, just do what makes you happy.. Life is too short not to mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi, love women and men mmm

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It was about admitting it to my self as much as anything. The issue I have is that I'm struggling to act on it. I'd love if someone could coach/help me/push me out of my comfort zone. X"
have you thought about meeting someone a bit older or just someone with experience who is patient and wont push you or just meeting for a drink with a bi guy who can talk through there first experience. There is a lot of bi guys on here and some of them will have experienced how you feel. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like an exciting adventure

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