FabSwingers.com forum: Large guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious to know this...

As there is quite commonly known, many guys prefer larger women. Is this reversed? Do some women just prefer larger guys?

Curious to find out you thoughts

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Would be nice if they did..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

There is hope for us yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When cock is in short supply "BBM" will become popular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had numerous women say the same as cleo but when it actually gets down to it (pardon the pun), the larger guy gets left to the wayside. I know quite a few slim lads who wouldn't touch a slim girl with a barge pole, and they are with ladies 16/18 +. Just wondered if any ladies out there thought the same or is it a gender thing?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"When cock is in short supply "BBM" will become popular.

Is this a post apocalypse fantasy?

Cal

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

So wish you were closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

So wish you were closer

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

I'm growing a beard now and gonna take my bike test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

I'm off to buy 20 packets of Jaffa cakes to put some weight on. WOW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of the broader guys on this site. I have a bit of a keg as opposed to a six pack. I do go to the gym but only mainly to see friends, have a social craic and do a class or two a week

Form an orderly queue ladies, there's enough for everyone lmfao

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

So wish you were closer

Good grief man, book a taxi or something! She's intelligent, good looking, and likes a love handle....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 23 stone and look like marvin lardly aka fat idle bastard from smut comic. My weight has put women off meeting us even though I dont actually play. One women actually said I was to unattractive for her to have sex with me in the room! So Im guessing women who like big men are very rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing at all up with the larger man I've been seeing one off this site for last few weeks.. as a mater of fact I think the majority of my meets have been the larger body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We want a Cleo for xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to know this...

As there is quite commonly known, many guys prefer larger women. Is this reversed? Do some women just prefer larger guys?

Curious to find out you thoughts "

Not for me sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope for me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed."

Your kind words humble me.

Cleo is, in fact, a horrible person.

She just has a big flesh fetish!

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a post acockalyptic fantasy Cal. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.

An extra chin never goes amiss, either.

Xxxx

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.

An extra chin never goes amiss, either.

Xxxx"

I think I love you xxxxxx

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.

An extra chin never goes amiss, either.

Xxxx"

My love handles need some TLC

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleo, you are the hope and saviour of us large men everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big guys now and again, and I always like them on top of me, always fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.

An extra chin never goes amiss, either.

Xxxx

My love handles need some TLC

Xxx "

Your love handles need some love handles, matey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not into the absolute extremes of weight or muscle but everything else is fair game

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not into the absolute extremes of weight or muscle but everything else is fair game

Can you explain? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like quite skinny, quite average, quite large or quite muscly - I just don't like extremely skinny, extremely muscly or extremely big

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.

An extra chin never goes amiss, either.

Xxxx

My love handles need some TLC

Xxx

Your love handles need some love handles, matey!"

Are you offering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's

I am bald

I was bearded before it was trendy

I am a short arse

I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6

I wear specs all the time

I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below

I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions

I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'

I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'

Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.

I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.

If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.

Not everyone will though.

There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.

I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.

Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.

End of (minor) rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's

I am bald

I was bearded before it was trendy

I am a short arse

I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6

I wear specs all the time

I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below

I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions

I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'

I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'

Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.

I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.

If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.

Not everyone will though.

There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.

I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.

Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.

End of (minor) rant

"
. Probably the best response I've read on here, well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's

I am bald

I was bearded before it was trendy

I am a short arse

I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6

I wear specs all the time

I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below

I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions

I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'

I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'

Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.

I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.

If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.

Not everyone will though.

There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.

I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.

Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.

End of (minor) rant

. Probably the best response I've read on here, well said

You have completely misunderstood the question. There has been no inclination that fat people are not attractive....the original question was.... is favouring a larger frame a gender trait or do both genders find larger people attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet any longer but I did meet well into my early 40's

I am bald

I was bearded before it was trendy

I am a short arse

I am considerably overweight at 15.7stone for 5ft6

I wear specs all the time

I am hairy and won't trim anywhere apart from down below

I have vitiligo and it is particularly evident around my nether regions

I am not exactly what most would call a 'looker'

I therefore offer many opportunities for people to say 'no thanks'

Yet when I did meet, I knocked back more meets than I agreed to.

I am 'living proof' that if you think your position or condition or look will deter people, it will.

If you are confident and positive in yourself, people will respond to this.

Not everyone will though.

There were many people who would not meet me, but there were many more that would and those people had my attention.

I do so wish that people would embrace who (and what) they are and stop questioning their acceptance in this lifestyle.

Be human, be nice, be respectful, be honest, be open, be realistic but above all else, be proud to be you.

End of (minor) rant

. Probably the best response I've read on here, well said

In that case, like many things on this site, fortune will always favour the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer larger guys not sure if its because Im large too.

Im afraid I might squash a skinny guy

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Rugby type large is v nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems a gender thing. Slim/skinny guys like women who are larger but skinny/slim women seem to prefer skinny /slim guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"
I am here!!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I am a total hypocrite and love slim men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6'2", I have a beard, I ride a cruiser motorbike and I play rugby. I'm only 16 stone though and I don't have a beer belly-I feel very inadequate now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"

I don't know if you can rest a pint glass on my belly but I'm sure you could fit 2 cups on it.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

I don't know if you can rest a pint glass on my belly but I'm sure you could fit 2 cups on it.

What size cups....?

[/feed line]

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By *ick71Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"

I m sure I could rest a pint or two on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"

I reckon I could rest the keg... Fancy a chat

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

It's more to do with the personality than the size of your belly x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

I don't know if you can rest a pint glass on my belly but I'm sure you could fit 2 cups on it.

What size cups....?

[/feed line]"

DD at least...

[/punchline]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i adore guys who have some meat on them damn sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been both, was 24.5 stone now 13st12 and can in all honesty say that at 24.5st not one woman looked twice....hardly any looked once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been both, was 24.5 stone now 13st12 and can in all honesty say that at 24.5st not one woman looked twice....hardly any looked once"

Well done on that massive achievement.

I was over 21st a few years ago. Dropped to 15st and now sitting around 16st. (See profile picture that's me now)

Working the doors you'll be surprised by how many women tell me they love my size and frame. A manly man I'm called often so their is women out there that like big guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......"

Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many pies do I need to eat to qualify? Are we talking not aerodynamic frame or bordering on the obese?

We're talking a proper belly, with not a hint of a six-pack. Plus love handles.

An extra chin never goes amiss, either.

we have all those x

Xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!"

Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.

I've never refused a man because he was too fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!

Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.

I've never refused a man because he was too fat."

You are by far my favourite swinger I think I might fall in love with you if we met ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!

Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.

I've never refused a man because he was too fat."

Fat! How dare you! Out of political correctness, my people prefer the term 'butter stallion'! Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's safe to say there's plenty of guys that like larger men. BBW may have been a porn, media marketing angle, but there is a lot of truth in it.

I for one love women with curves, hips, nice juicy ass, even a little belly. I'll stop now, turning myself on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed.

Your kind words humble me.

Cleo is, in fact, a horrible person.

She just has a big flesh fetish!"

I'm more than happy to supply the flesh for you cleo, anytime!

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By *erby Leg LoverMan
over a year ago

Alvaston

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!

Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.

I've never refused a man because he was too fat."

I think you will find that she is taking the piss out of us fat guys

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

There's "Larger" guys...

And then there are guys that haven't seen their penis in many years without a mirror or an upside down periscope...

So... It depends on your definition I guess.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what they say: "When you've had fat, you won't go back!"

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By *erby Leg LoverMan
over a year ago

Alvaston

"You know what they say: "When you've had fat, you won't go back!"

We leave the ladies FLABergasted

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By *ileyMan
over a year ago

basildon

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

can bike it over to Colchester

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

If I ever needed a reason to eat more bacon and egg baguettes, I need look no further!! I wonder how long it will take me to bulk out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

Cleo,

If only you were still meeting guys

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I think you will find that she is taking the piss out of us fat guys"

I disagree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disgusting.

Come back when you can rest a pint on that belly and you and I might have something to talk about......

Hmm can't tell if you're being serious or not....!

Deadly serious. I've refused many men purely because they're too ripped or skinny for my taste.

I've never refused a man because he was too fat.

I think you will find that she is taking the piss out of us fat guys"

I don't know where you're getting that from. I'm being perfectly sincere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

can bike it over to Colchester"

Not too fast! Burns too many calories.....

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Better half (Mrs) prefers the more robustly built gent which is why I'm not a virgin. Looking for bi fem couples with ladies who prefer the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of size it comes down to the personality for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not for me. I like my men active and there's nothing hotter than a gorgeous ripped naked guy. Yum!

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By *irtyandfilthy2014Couple
over a year ago

under the apple tree

Sounds cheesy but for me, Mr dirty really has the phwoar factor with his lovely big strong thighs, gorgeous bum, broad chest and shoulders and bit of a belly. He carries himself well with confidence and is a flirt. Love seeing him flirt with the ladies then taking him home and shagging his brains out. Best go and calm down, he's away for 10 days. He's going to get a damn good seeing to when he gets back.

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By *unkmasterxMan
over a year ago

Oakham

what about tall men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Sounds cheesy but for me, Mr dirty really has the phwoar factor with his lovely big strong thighs, gorgeous bum, broad chest and shoulders and bit of a belly. He carries himself well with confidence and is a flirt. Love seeing him flirt with the ladies then taking him home and shagging his brains out. Best go and calm down, he's away for 10 days. He's going to get a damn good seeing to when he gets back.

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i think I love him myself

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By *arktam83Man
over a year ago

rugeley

Really wished there were more of this type of woman near me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a few women out there who prefer large framed men, I was 23st when I met my lass who was 8st back then, she is still 8st and via a lot of regular sex I'm now a modest 16-17st Lmao

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

Let's be honest the whole sexual attraction thing is about perceived performance which results in satisfaction (hopefully). Aside from some kinds of extreme fetishism, I can't see how overweight guys would get a look in on the swinging scene.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Curious to know this...

As there is quite commonly known, many guys prefer larger women. Is this reversed? Do some women just prefer larger guys?

Curious to find out you thoughts "

Possibly couples swapping "like for like" might work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?

Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

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"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

I can shag for a lot longer than I can run...even if there's a cream bun at the finish line.

There's more than one type of stamina.

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over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

there are two different things i want to say....

1st, you are never going to appeal to everyone... i think there is sometimes a fixation of trying to appeal to those people who are never going to like you... as opposed to concentrating on those who will...

and if you did appeal to everyone you'd likely be the blandest person on the planet

2nd, sometimes at clubs you get to see the person behind the front so to speak, and that may be as attractive or even more so than anything else.....

I'm a big unit... I aim to try and be the best "me" I can be.... so like me, cool!! If you hate me, i don't care and i aint changing.... sorry!!!!!!

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about. "

How so?

You over eat and dont exercise, you get fat. The more fat you carry, the less mobile and healthy you are. It is fairly simple to understand unless your purpose is to be an apologist for those who have medical issues that make them eat pies instead of salads.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?

Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?"

The thread is about men, not women.

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over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?

Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?"

I'm 16st large but don't look obese. Stocky frame bit of pudding and I can outperform manh men who people here would call athletic.

Because someone is big it defo don't mean they are crap in bed or other areas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about.

How so?

So using your thought process as a benchmark, the fact that your him is old he is decrepit and should be put out to pasture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed."

strange thing - they were on saturday kitchen this morning and my 21 yr old daughter said - the grey haired bearded one was kinda fanciable - i said he has a kind face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer a man with more meat on them. Xx

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By *arktam83Man
over a year ago

rugeley

Still need more women who appreciate larger guys nearer me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

So overweight women have stamina / perceived performance yet overweight men don't ?

Or are we saying it doesn't matter if a woman is overweight as she doesn't need stamina or to have sexual performance ?

The thread is about men, not women."

You could have still answered the question(s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always liked the phrase; "If you have a big nail, you need a big hammer".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always liked the phrase; "If you have a big nail, you need a big hammer".

I have nothing to add to this but just wish to applaud you on your profile name. It has proper tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always liked the phrase; "If you have a big nail, you need a big hammer".

I have nothing to add to this but just wish to applaud you on your profile name. It has proper tickled me

Thanks, I come from a long line of fiddleflaps.

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about.

How so?

Bit narrow minded your size has nothing to do with fitness levels.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Do you listen to their Sunday morning radio show on Planet Rock? It's so funny.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I love to have a girl on top of me and have had bigger girls say they're worried they'll squash me - trust me, you won't.

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By *luboy1970Man
over a year ago

runcorn

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"
Omg so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't mind a bit of padding as my FB is definitely not slim but not where the stomach walks into a room before the body

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By *luboy1970Man
over a year ago

runcorn

"No I don't mind a bit of padding as my FB is definitely not slim but not where the stomach walks into a room before the body"
lol I'm not that big just a bit of extra padding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx

Cleo is obviously a beautiful person in appearance, thought and deed.

strange thing - they were on saturday kitchen this morning and my 21 yr old daughter said - the grey haired bearded one was kinda fanciable - i said he has a kind face

I know, right? They ARE hot!

Hairy Bikers are sex on legs. Well, wheels.

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I think Cleo is winding us up so putting myself forward to prove her statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your slim compared to me fella I have bigger tits than my lass does lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

This is the small minded approach to thinking that some on here have. Quite clearly commenting on something they know absolutely nothing about. "
it's just a comment ,an opinion ,a thoughtless one ,a harsh one but an opinion nevertheless ,we all have one and the point of a forum I think is to see what people think ,she told you how she feels large people/guys don't appeal to her

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over a year ago

"I have a major fetish for large men.

Skinny men do nothing for me. Neither do gym freaks.

My pin-ups are the Hairy Bikers.

xxxx"

My new, favourite topic comment

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over a year ago

"Surely this is all performance related?

People meet on these sites for (hopefully good) sexual encounters.

What would be the point of meeting a clearly unfit person with no stamina? I they were fit and had stamina, they would not be overweight.

Speaking as someone who carries a significant bit of extra weight I would say that this comment is both pathetic** and uniformed.

Being overweight DOES NOT correlate with being unfit. I'd quite happily put my fitness level and stamina up against any "regular sized" person any say.

In fact, according to my doctors, it was my general fitness levels and stamina that saved my life recently after having a defect* related heart issue that resulted in my pacemaker being fitted!!!

*a defect discovered when I was 19 years old and considerably slimmer!

**yes, you hit a nerve with your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically someone's opinion is fat guys have no stamina then explain to me how I can fuck non stop for over 3hrs. I'm 17st have bigger tits than my lass and if needed can be ready to go again in around 20mins please someone explain to me how I a 'unfit' fat bloke can possible.have more stamina than the average Joe lol

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"Basically someone's opinion is fat guys have no stamina then explain to me how I can fuck non stop for over 3hrs. I'm 17st have bigger tits than my lass and if needed can be ready to go again in around 20mins please someone explain to me how I a 'unfit' fat bloke can possible.have more stamina than the average Joe lol

Indeed, we only meet single ladies for 3somes, i have no problem with an night long session with angel and another woman.....probably couldn't run for toffee though.....not that i would, i'd have them bring me my toffee

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By *edbeard420Man
over a year ago

Clermont county

I have been fairly heavy and i have been alot thinner. When my weight is down i get hit on and flirted with by women. When i had a bigger belly going on women looked away without interest. I am somewhere in between right now. I find most bbw to be very sexy but not all. I feel men are more excepting of larger size then women are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been fairly heavy and i have been alot thinner. When my weight is down i get hit on and flirted with by women. When i had a bigger belly going on women looked away without interest. I am somewhere in between right now. I find most bbw to be very sexy but not all. I feel men are more excepting of larger size then women are. "

Does that mean that women are more shallow than men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean that women are more shallow than men ?"

I have to agree with the poster so Id say yes when it comes to weight women are more shallow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is about taste most people use their eyes to make an initial judgement of a person and then their ears ,narrowminded people won't allow themselves to approach if the eyes put them off ,we are all guilty of it at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean that women are more shallow than men ?"

Right how can I put this tactfully. I don't think we are more shallow I do think on the whole that women are more choosy. Let's be honest there's a huge amount of men who'll fuck anything with a vagina. Whereas on the whole women need intense attraction. (Don't shot me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the man, if the have an attractive face and can make me laugh maybe. All depends how big you call big and the person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the man, if the have an attractive face and can make me laugh maybe. All depends how big you call big and the person x"

I would say slim guys aren't for me though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads tickle me i play rugby size do not matter when it comes to stamina trust me the bigger guys in my team have just as much energy and desire to get about the rugby field as the not so bigger guys so i can imagine a bit of a fummble in the bedroom aint going to make them tired is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had numerous women say the same as cleo but when it actually gets down to it (pardon the pun), the larger guy gets left to the wayside. I know quite a few slim lads who wouldn't touch a slim girl with a barge pole, and they are with ladies 16/18 +. Just wondered if any ladies out there thought the same or is it a gender thing?"

Not completely true, some guys will have sex with anything that pays attention to them. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been both, was 24.5 stone now 13st12 and can in all honesty say that at 24.5st not one woman looked twice....hardly any looked once"

Well done mate, I was 16.5, now I'm 11.5 but the women are right in this case, when I was 16.5 I had the self esteem of a invertebrate, even if a nice lassy had looked at me my inner voice just screamed she think's you're gross!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is good news. There's hope for us all.

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